How to Ask a Girl about her Sexual Fantasies without Seeming Supplicating?

VasiliyZaitzev · 2020-03-10T06:13:39+00:00

Create a situation where she feels like you won't out her as a slut to her friends or think she's disgusting. At first when you ask "What's your fantasy?" she might be all like, "I want to make loooooove on a beach at sunset!" or "I want to make loooooove on top of a building!"

Your move there is, "That's nice, and all, Lil' Bo Peep, but what do you REALLY dream about? You can tell me....because everyone might as well get what they want. What they REALLY want. So tell me what your Deepest, Darkest, Greasiest, Dirty Little Fantasy is," all while giving off a 'conspiratorial' vibe.

And pretty soon you find out that she wants to be put on a dog leash and 'forced' to eat her roommate's pussy while you fuck her in the ass.

Or as I call it: "Wednesday." /wink

Once a girl feels safe about telling you, it will all come tumbling out. Once you get past all the frou-frou shit, the top two are usually "Tie me up!" and "I wanna do another girl!"

Hey, if you don't trust me, trust PornHub. <= Not an actual link to PornHub. Women are 155% more likely than men to watch lesbian porn - and I think we know that that's mostly going to be 'lipstick lesbian', i.e. hot girls - as well as 113% more likely to watch "hardcore", 106% more likely to watch "rough sex" and 104% more likely to watch "gangbang" porn.

So yeah, girls get horny, too, and very often they want it rough. Now, obv, don't just take her back to the Red Room without Clearance From The Tower - CONSENT, MFers...it's IMPORTANT. We don't hurt people in ways that they don't want, don't agree to, and are not enthusiastically welcomed...but don't be surprised when your "innocent" girlfriend wants to be held down and fucked through the mattress.

So go out, have fun, and play safe.

breakdatass · 2020-03-10T05:33:35+00:00

You don't actually care what she wants, you just want more sexual experiences, so lead the way.

lietruth · 2020-03-10T05:44:22+00:00

Whisper in her ear as your fucking her.

She’ll tell you the truth and it’ll turn her on. I wouldn’t approach it like a decision about which tacos you’re ordering. Keep it sexual, bring it up during sex.

mrpoopistan · 2020-03-10T05:47:43+00:00

Generally, I just bring shit up. I'm pretty physical once I know there's interest, so she should have a good idea that there's something going on there long before I say anything.

As long as you're non-judgmental, you'll be fine. Just be prepared for how far the rabbit hole goes.

pilleater2019 · 2020-03-10T06:40:54+00:00

"What's the wildest thing you've ever done"

"What's the wildest thing you want to do"

"Let's do it"

LostInVayne · 2020-03-10T13:10:13+00:00

Women naturally tell you what really goes in their mind if they feel like you don't judge them. All women who I am with share with me every little detail without me even asking. At first, it really stung me because of some revelations about them. But if you're not too emotionally invested(as you shouldn't be) her opening up to you is always the better choice and you get to know more about them.

I remember every time I and a girl are having some kind of deep talk she starts rambling about not just her fantasies but also her past sexual experiences(this is the part where it stung me). So I deal with them accordingly.

Title	How to Ask a Girl about her Sexual Fantasies without Seeming Supplicating?
Author	The126thConquerer
Upvotes	1
Comments	16
Date	March 10, 2020 5:22 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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