CMV: Female dating strategy is sexist, hypocritical and toxic

BlackPorcelainDoll · 2020-03-13T06:03:30+00:00

There have always been women like this (old traditions on crack..) - and they are still prevalent attitudes in women, in spite of the 'not like the other girls I got my degree' and average salary so therefore - (i.e... I pay for my OWN dates, watch this..) like all the rest chicks. And sure, call the 30k lot of them 'ugly fat landwhales..' if that ices the sting.

It's just that these women were battered by various facets into being too meek to vocalize it and crippled by high agreeableness (which very well may have genetic components..) to escape 'him'.

Success stories about current bfs are completely irrelevant to the sub. It's like me going to TRP/incel and asking where the fuck is the female worship and female ego-stroking? First of all, why the fuck would I even be there?

I have personally have no use for FDS, but I don't have a "problem" - as a woman - with it either. Nor am I going to jerk your egotistical dick about it. For what, exactly? 😒

SherbertBacon · 2020-03-13T06:01:56+00:00

every man is a scrote that lives in an entitled manosphere

How could FDS believe every man is a scrote while simultaneously also believing in (and hunting for) HVM? This accusation makes no sense.

The subreddit is kind of predatory and focuses on getting "maximum female benefit" from a man. I saw in a post about how if a man has a potential to make a lot of money then you shouldn't sign a prenup.

I think "predatory" takes it too far. "Predatory" would be using manipulation tactics and mind games to coerce a man into not signing a prenup even if he wanted to. FDS is, to my mind, about setting hard boundaries for women to protect their own interests. But either the man or the woman could walk away from a relationship where disagreement formed about prenups.

Any advice the women on there ask about a current situation is immediately met with just the worst possible advice. Is he a man?

This claim sounds overly simplistic.

if a man were to level up it'd be met with one of thier "lies men tell" or "male depravity" tags

Huh? Do you not understand the concept of a HVM?

Why not post success stories about how awesome your current bf is?

Boop

the_dead_sea_of_fish · 2020-03-13T05:52:49+00:00

It’s hard to understand their frustrations when you haven’t lived the life of the average woman.

Many of these women have been used and discarded by men and others have been abused. They may be bitter, but imho they have a right to be. Many will blame them for choosing the wrong men. That’s what frustrates me the most - that the onus is always on the woman to protect herself from men and not on men to be better people.

Personally, I’ve been gaslit by men, coerced into (painful) sex, and had my reasonable requests ignored. I try to keep an open mind about men but all but one guy I dated pushed my boundaries, ignored my words, and saw me as a commodity and not a person. It’s really hard not to develop a negative view of men when 90% of experiences with them are negative.

The focus on money is not about the actual financial value. It’s a defensive tactic to protect themselves from undesirable men who are not serious about them. I still have a difficult time understanding this personally, because I think a LVM can still pay for dates and there are many inexpensive ways a HVM can show you he cares about you, but the line’s gotta be drawn somewhere.

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ZlayerXZ · 2020-03-13T05:29:36+00:00

Their frustration and nonsense is very helpful in mankind’s awakening. Who wouldn’t just snap out after witnessing such crap??

sadomasochrist · 2020-03-13T06:06:24+00:00

Who cares? The only men it applies to will eventually be sent to TRP anyways. This is just AF\BB.

Your argument is something like "non affluent women are toxic" when you boil it down.

Nothing they're saying is new. It's TRP's BB warnings straight from women.

I saw in a post about how if a man has a potential to make a lot of money then you shouldn't sign a prenup.

e.g. right here. Why should any man care if a woman bails because he makes a lot of money and she won't sign. Like what do you have to lose unless you're desperate.

anonymous_9999999 · 2020-03-13T05:46:14+00:00

FDS is basically a collection of butthurt women who are either 1)Uglier than average and are jealous of the average women because they can’t use men. 2)women who got pumped and dumped by aiming for guys way too out of their league

Title	CMV: Female dating strategy is sexist, hypocritical and toxic
Author	the_dead_sea_of_fish
Upvotes	2
Comments	29
Date	March 13, 2020 5:14 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/PurplePillDebate
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/fhuk8f/cmv_female_dating_strategy_is_sexist_hypocritical/
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