How bad is an open relationship?

theUnBannableHulk · 2020-03-30T20:23:13+00:00

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UEMcGill · 2020-03-30T20:05:26+00:00

She will get dicked immediately and a lot. Your friends will start sniffing around and asking questions. Are you ready for that?

Rule zero is paramount. Get the sex you want, first and foremost.

The real question is why would you consider it? I can only assume you are roughly the same age. Maybe you are just starting your career/training in life. Your effort maybe better spent spinning plates, building your mission. You like her, but beware of the sink cost fallacy.

On the other hand, she maybe suggesting it because she can be a whore from a position of safety. She can go ride the cock carosel and late at night when she's been pumped and dumped call you to come get her.

There are a few guys who've done open relationships and are redpill. It takes a whole lot of DNGAF. and a world of abundance. I suspect your coming at it from a scarcity point of view, aka fear of missing out. No good can come from that.

Instead demote her to FWB status. Learn how to spin plates. Then you can have all the open relationships you want on your terms.

Project_Zero_Betas · 2020-03-30T20:13:48+00:00

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4thAndLong · 2020-03-30T20:10:05+00:00

Why even bother. Demote her to plate or just break up altogether. You're trying to do something with a very low success rate. I also agree with /u/UEMcGill's post.

bearbludaddy · 2020-03-30T20:42:33+00:00

The Cardinal Rule of Sexual Strategies: For one gender’s sexual strategy to succeed the other gender must compromise or abandon their own.

In a LTR, the strategy for a man is to have a faithful and loyal woman.

The strategy for a woman is to get both commitment and "explore" her sexuality.

To have an open relationship you must abandon your strategy to allow her to "have it all".

Also: open relationship is where it begins, not ends. And she is driving the boat.

BruhMoment45886 · 2020-03-30T22:18:52+00:00

We? Or her?

Sounds like shes losing attraction to you. She wants the security of a relationship while getting to sleep around with other men.

If you go through with this you'll be scarred for life. She'll be taking 12 dicks a week and you're trying to get scraps from sub par women. Open relationships are rigged to favor women. This is a manipulation tactic.

The fact that she even mentioned an open relationship means one thing. It's over. Move on.

GetBehindMeSatan666 · 2020-03-30T19:52:59+00:00

You mean a plate? I imagine it like a plate only you know about them getting piped down only its an LTR you have feelings for..... It takes a certain kind of man to be "ok" with it. Im not sure if beta is the right word.

If you do have fun wrestling all of those emotional demons that will haunt you.

holddadoorhodor · 2020-03-30T21:11:32+00:00

Who’s going to have more opportunity to take advantage of that situation a women who if she is above a 6 can get laid 40 times a day or you?

Lose-lose.

I’d break up to at least win on that front because if she hasn’t cheated yet(unlikely) she’s going to.

WhatRemainsAfter · 2020-03-30T23:04:25+00:00

She is cheating on you. Dump her.

I would have said demote to a plate but since you're emotionally invested in her, it will do you no good.

Listen to all other advices. They are right.

You will get scarred for life. No man should go through this.

Do yourself a favour and get away from that bitch.

Title	How bad is an open relationship?
Author	KingCaptain744
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Date	March 30, 2020 7:41 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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