Men in relationships are often just as, if not more, immature & codependent as ‘Peter Pan Syndrome’ men.

Slyfer_Seven · 2021-01-03T16:25:47+00:00

Guys just say that when they don't really want to do something, but don't want to lose face with the boys...

It's like when you don't come into work because your kid is "sick"... No one questions it

jdobrila · 2021-01-03T17:04:49+00:00

"He should be spontaneous, but only when I expect it"

wtknight · 2021-01-03T16:20:09+00:00

Okay, then he should be just as willing to let her go out with her female friends without asking permission from him. A lot of men freak out when their partners do this and think that she's going to end up with Chad in some club restroom, though.

Aaren_Augustine · 2021-01-03T16:16:12+00:00

If you told men collectively that this is a test by women to see if you'll be a spineless coward, most men would start to get clued into how to pass shit tests. If you then told them you can do whatever you want, but you need to be a good leader so don't overdue it, most men would start to get clued into how to lead within their immediate family.

Rollo did a nice article on "teaching the slaves to read". Its a good understanding that for men that didn't just get it, damned if they do and damned if they didn't.

This is why I don't give clueless men any shit or look down on them. First, it's just ego that someone would get pleasure from another man's apparent weakness. Two, your reaction to such men is equally pathetic.

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Manletangelo · 2021-01-03T16:45:04+00:00

Hasn't the blue-pilled element of this sub denied that the fact that "shit tests" are a thing since forever?

Funny how when you describe the exact same thing but without the red-pill term, and paint men who fail the shit tests in a negative light (rather than the women who set tests in a negative light) blue-pilled normies are suddenly onboard.

LillthOfBabylon · 2021-01-03T17:22:47+00:00

If that was the case, most men would be bitter incels and bitter MGTOW.

Bandit174 · 2021-01-03T16:10:05+00:00

Probably yeah. Women will claim the guys who are single are single because they are immature or don't shower enough, or because they are assholes or x,y,z but none of the things they list are specific to single guys and like you said can also be commonly found in guys who are in relationships.

JohnDoe721 · 2021-01-03T16:43:44+00:00

Hello, in many countries, the man making the decisions is now domestic violence. Making her stick to an agreed budget is domestic violence.

I dated the tradcon feminist who said the man is supposed to make the decisions. I was supposed to order her dinner for her! But I was supposed to know what she wants. Fuck that shit.

It turns out women want you to lead where they want to go. If I lead where I want that is domestic violence.

Title	Men in relationships are often just as, if not more, immature & codependent as ‘Peter Pan Syndrome’ men.
Author	No-Student2521
Upvotes	7
Comments	11
Date	January 3, 2021 4:05 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/PurplePillDebate
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