Summary

Perhaps the title could be not true, it is actually indifferent. We only care about results. I will try to explain why to think the title is true can get you results in a more efficient way.


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Many practical redpill posts try to describe the actual words and deeds that were used by the man to attract the woman. An example of such post is the recent /u/dr_warlock's one https://archive.is/RUJx8

Reading the post you can feel how the man himself needed to strategize every answer and every action he did (was it by message, was it in person). Wouldn't be cool to have a fast way of thinking in every situation to obtain your goals?

The gist I'm trying to explain is about a mental framework. A way to see interactions that will set you free from the task of mentally think about what you need to say or do in every situation. Adopting the framework can lead you to act in the most spontaneous way which will in turn allow you to obtain results in a more efficient way.

Regarding interactions with women, you can think that everything a woman says to you is because she wants to enslave you. In this way you don't try to attract the woman, but rather you try to understand how much she wants to enslave you and you actually try to escape the enslavement.

Let's put ourselves in dr_warlock's sample text dialogue initialized by his ex-girlfriend. You are doing your stuff and suddenly this girl contacts you. You know in your mind that her ultimate goal is to enslave you, thus you look at everything she said through this lens. How would you respond to an overtly nice person who covertly wants to enslave you? Do you still need a step by step guide? Wait one hour here, ten minutes there; do not say this, but say that. Do you still need to strategize every single thought and act? The framework will guide you and you will spontaneously act possibly even in a more efficient way of that portrait in dr_warlock's example (this is not an attack to dr_warlock's post, it is just a reference since his post is one of the most recent ones. There are many posts who portrait a similar discussion. Indeed, I liked dr_warlock's post).

Powertalk

Looking at things through this lens it is easy to see how sentences like "omg I miss you so much, where were you?" will never been even thought in the first place. What you will think is, generally speaking, how to obtain information from her, trying to let her show her cards, without showing ever yours. [Here the concept of powertalk is indeed one of the most useful one. The ability to talk in such a way to minimize how much information you give and to maximize how much information you obtain is crucial in social interactions. This post is only about putting a framework on top of what you already know.]

Whenever a girl will say "sweet" words to you like "I miss us", or "I love you" or generally every concern a girl demonstrate to you, you only hear her saying "I want you to be my slave". So how can you possibly answer with sentences that agree upon those? You cannot possibly want to do it, and your spontaneous behavior will be that of a person who put freedom and possibly to possession of another human being far more highly that just "attract a woman". [At the end of all the interaction one can analyze and say that the result was that he has "attracted" the woman, but meanwhile the process you do not think about how to attract the woman.]

Spontaneous IDGAF

Thinking through this lens you won't need to think on how to portrait an IDGAF attitude because you spontaneously cannot really be caring about your enslavement. You actually want to escape from it.


What must be understood is that I am NOT saying that everything a girl says or do in your regards are actually thoughts about your enslavement. I am only saying that IF you think in your mind everything a girl says or do in your regards is because she wants to enslave you, then your spontaneous behavior will lead you far more efficiently in obtaining the control of her body and mind. Is this what you want, right? Otherwise we should do a post about the assumptions of this post.

Think how the enemy thinks

When a girl enslaves a man she uses her body too. She let the man to use her body to obtain her objective. A woman knows very well what she needs to do in order to obtain control of a man. If the man call himself "alpha" and think he can do whatever sexual act with the woman, he must remember that the woman knows that to obtain the control of such "alpha" she must surrender at every sexual act he wants to perform.


Full control of a woman is not always possible, for the moment you need some external resources which you don't have you must engage in a resource-exchange process. You can retain control in the process (efficiently if you use the framework, and of course all TRP concepts and perhaps more), but you will still need to engage in it.

CONCLUSION:

Thinking through this lens you will obtain control of a woman's mind and body only at your conditions. If the control cannot take place at your conditions, you then do not proceed to engage in the process. That would be what it is commonly referred as "the ability to walk away". Your ability is always there, for can you possibly desire to be enslaved? Fuck no. Your behavior will be so spontaneous and neat that you will efficiently obtain all the power and control you decide to achieve in every situation.


I know everything I've written is already known by most. Perhaps put it in this way can help those who are still in the process of learning. Hope it helped somehow.


Perhaps a lesson learned could be:

  • Don't be a slave, but rather enslave others. (I know, it could seem to be "harsh". But you live, you battle. If you don't play the game, there's no way you won't be gamed and we know it).

EDIT: grammar. English is not my first language.