Men and women had a social contract which meant that there were more advantages to marrying than being single. For women it was resources and certainty, for men it was children and loyalty.

The safety net has destroyed this. The State now provides the resources and certainty to a woman regardless of lack of actions to help herself.

https://www.abc.net.au/news/2020-02-12/women-could-get-higher-super-payments-victorian-submission/11957036

This article proves it. The State is making society pay for the things that a man used to provide a woman of value. Now women can act anyway and survive, and not only survive but can have children without a family structure. There is no coming back from this. Women, who have incredible power now since they control 83% of consumption, will never agree to lose these gifts. A man's world hasn't really changed: we are the suppliers of resources. But now the resources will be going to the State rather than a wife.