I've been dating a woman for some time now. She is a very independent, fierce woman with a good income and a great job.

She loves to discuss the places she has been and the things she saw, the books she read and the things she did, she likes to be seen as a role model for their friends and family. She really comes as an independent, "master of her own life", in the things she says.

But when I go the her place there's a picture of her that puts me in my place. It's a highschool picture of her in her fridge. Then I always realize she's just the chubby little girl she once was years ago, with the same fears and fantasies little girls have, trying to meet prince charming and be kissed by midnight.

Suddenly all this aura of independent woman vanishes in front of me and I can make this woman beg to be with me. As /u/abdada, says, she's retarded for me and I never take in consideration the persona she portrays outside four walls.

She's just a persona. Deep down she's the same chubby girl she was. And this is true with all women! If you have this in mind when dealing with them, a lot of RP theory will come natural to you because you'll know how to treat them accordingly, not giving fucks to what is said but focusing on what is done.

Just today's 2 cents.