Is my friend an idiot or a genius? 29 year old guy married to a 30 year old woman with double the salary

SlowJellyfish1 · 2019-12-26T22:58:38+00:00

When the wife makes more than the husband, the chances of divorce is higher. He's an idiot if the reason for him to get married is based on the fact she makes a lot of money. Chances of a marriage working out increases when the husband makes more than the wife.

GTOH4U · 2019-12-26T22:57:28+00:00

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user_miki · 2019-12-27T00:37:51+00:00

I know a couple that does that, and his wife every time she is upset(and she is lot) reminds him that she is the boss that brings more money in the house.Every opportunity she gets is to remind him that and what a low life he is and what a goddess she is .

That is not a life to live in .You will pay one way or another for her hypergamy stopper.

Iqbal40862715 · 2019-12-27T01:16:16+00:00

on paper it looks like a good move. Initially I can understand why a naive guy would think thats a good move

ITS NOT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I got fired when I was married. We had young kids so I took a lesser job making 75 percent of what I was making before so I could tend to the children while she worked nights.

Over time I noticed

If you make less than she does she'll end up hating and resenting you
If you make less she'll end up seeing you as "lesser" than her
If you make less her gold digging hypergamy will kick into overdrive
If you make less her nagging/bitchy/gold digging ball breaking ness will increase 500 percent.
Women like the control of making more over time, then a switch will flip
For the most part women hate when they make more than their husbands
She will become all the more unbearable and bitchy. It kills your drive to make more money

Dating women isnt worth it, but if you do dont mess with women that make more

bentzernaumal · 2019-12-26T23:09:07+00:00

This story doesn’t fit Briffault’s Law. Therefore it must have a catch

DannyTTT55 · 2019-12-26T23:50:59+00:00

Marriage is justified when your wife has more money. The biggest risk is the financial one

melkiorr · 2019-12-27T06:34:06+00:00

She will lose respect for him.

captainsaveahoe69 · 2019-12-27T06:36:14+00:00

She'll never respect him and will be looking to monkey branch

Ody_ssey · 2019-12-27T07:57:29+00:00

Not at all. Women treat men below them like garbage. When she will find Chad, she will see that she deserves better. She will making problems out of thin air to force separation and blame him for it. She will see him as weak, incapable of anything and incompetent regardless of how much he loves him.

Even at workplace, women at powerful positions treat men below them as unworthy.

MiddleAgedMGTOW · 2019-12-26T23:48:31+00:00

If he’s married then yes he’s an idiot

ShadowWalter · 2019-12-27T02:39:36+00:00

You’re saying you thought less of your friend after you found out he was getting married?

KingLeft · 2019-12-27T04:22:24+00:00

It's a lot less stupid to marry a chick who makes more than you than vice versa. I just can't see how you would get that screwed, money wise, in a divorce.

ChadowyFigure · 2019-12-27T07:47:09+00:00

I've been running chick game pretty much my whole life, letting them work while I fuck them stupid and "keep house". I've been married over 5 years now (together over 10) and though I'd never recommend it, you can do it if you are attractive enough. It's probably better to avoid the relationship and just fuck though, unless you have a really good reason - they are still women, committing to them just makes it harder to keep them interested.

The1ndex · 2019-12-27T16:22:19+00:00

There is always a risk that she gets pregnant, never goes back to work, and then divorce rapes him.

Regardless of marriage, their relationship dynamic is about SMV. Just because she makes more than him, it doesn’t mean she has a higher SMV. This is just basic RP sexual strategy - improve yourself, raise your SMV, apply dread.

If he’s vetted her for a long time, he’s high SMV, wants a family, and understands the risks of the game he’s playing... it could work.

Title	Is my friend an idiot or a genius? 29 year old guy married to a 30 year old woman with double the salary
Author	BluePillPlague
Upvotes	22
Comments	27
Date	December 26, 2019 10:45 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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