I posted here a few weeks ago regarding my fiancee cheating on me. This has been the most difficult time of my life. I feel sad, empty, and betrayed. Yes, I confronted her, she simply shrugged and didn’t have any explanation for what she did or why.
In summary, she fucked the entire precinct in our city. When she refused to offer an explanation, I decided I would contact one of the guys that she had been sleeping with. He turned out a real bro and walked me through the painful story of my cheating ex. She expressed desire to “be their slut” and do whatever they tell her to do. At first, she started off with one guy, then she asked if he could ask his coworkers/buddies to join. They said yeah. According to them, they got together once a week or so to basically have a gangbang. It was painful to hear this because I could never in a million years imagine her in such a way. It disgusts me still. They would also call/text her to meet up at any given time to suck them off or whatever. So she was essentially their sex toy.
I am beyond upset. I moved out and cut her off completely. The guys didn’t know she was even in a relationship let alone engaged. I tried to understand why she did that, what was lacking. She only said that she felt good being treated like a whore by them, being restrained and slapped. Yes, it was all consensual. I have not told anyone about this, I am too embarrassed. I haven’t even gotten out of the house besides work. I’m afraid people will soon start asking why we broke it off. What am I supposed to say?! I’m so broken and confused.
TL;DR: trying to navigate around my fiancee’s betrayal and the aftermath.
[–]Astral-Projector21 points22 points23 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Surprised? No.
And people acts baffled about why men going their own way and gets off the plantation.
[–]throwawayofthedayhah16 points17 points18 points (1 child) | Copy Link
God, women are fucking degenerate creatures.
Satan is a woman.
[–]Errorcode993 points [recovered] | Copy Link
I just wanna reference the ancient myth of "Lilith" (Adam's first wife)!
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lilith
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[–]o0perfect0o0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Hint hint
[–]TheObelisk9 points10 points11 points (1 child) | Copy Link
Ah the more caring loving gender.
[–]1st10Amendments4 points5 points6 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Caring, loving, and giving, you mean. I guess she was giving away her caring and loving to every Tom, Dick, and Harry in spitting distance.
[–]MiddleAgedMGTOW10 points11 points12 points (0 children) | Copy Link
A dozen other guys that you know about. Don’t be surprised if there are more. Ghost her and move on.
[–]wildfireboat7 points8 points9 points (0 children) | Copy Link
How does a Man not kill himself after that.
[–]CiceroVoltaire5 points6 points7 points (0 children) | Copy Link
"Woman's destiny is to be wanton, like the bitch, the she-wolf; she must belong to all who claim her." - Marquis de Sade
[–]Tercalerc5 points6 points7 points (0 children) | Copy Link
LMAO relationship advice subreddit is like an overdose of red pills.
[–]realChebz5 points6 points7 points (0 children) | Copy Link
That's right, she doesn't care. Women don't feel guilt, they are biologically incapable of guilt. They only feel shame, and once a society normalizes whore lifestyle she doesn't see anything wrong with her actions.
[–]1st10Amendments1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
I feel for you, bro. I got no advice that is worth more than what you're paying me for it. I could say when asked why you cut it off, to just say "haven't we told you yet? No? Then maybe it's none of your business." But that's a harsh thing to say to someone who is just asking after your welfare.
If you say, "ask her," then that gives her the opportunity to throw you under the bus and say it's your fault. You might advise the person asking to go ask Chad and Bill and Tyrone and Fred and Chester and Robert and, and, and.
You just say that you and she have different ideas about what a committed, monogamous relationship means.
If you're solvent and have the ability to transfer, you could just move and wipe the dust of that town from your feet.
Bottom line, it wasn't just that she was getting screwed by everybody who asked, you also got screwed.