I often talk to them about my life but more often than not, shy girls open up by preying on assumed weaknesses regarding the stories that I tell.

I talk to shy girls, cause they are hot and pickup literature told me I had to go first for her to follow. If I wanted her to open up I needed to open up. And to have sex, they needed to open up to me and "I don't know you well enough" meant they didn't trust you.

In other words, by opening up myself I create bullies. The same with teasing. When I tease shy girls, they in 90% of the cases, turn into bullies and want to tease me more. But this time, their teasing is not playful teasing anymore. They are out to hurt me.

If I say then "That was too much" or "That's not how you talk to me", it has no effect then.

It is as if I told her:

Don't be shy, you can bully me, that is fun for you, just bully me, it's okay as long as you open up.

How do I make them open up without turning into bullies? Instead of saying "they are all cunts" which is victim mentality, I want to dominate them and be the winner.

This is a huge problem for me.