Intro

Male and female sexual strategy are in constant opposition with each other. In order for a relationship to form, one of them must be compromised. While the female imperative is to secure a single, long-term provider (monogamy), the male imperative is to spread his genes throughout as many sexually available women as possible (spinning plates).

Seeing as monogamy is not conducive to male sexual strategy, women needed to invent social contrivances that would make men commit to the female imperative. These contrivances heavily influence unknowing men, almost unconsciously.

Villainizing “Players” and “Man Whores”

Women primarily discourage male sexual strategy by creating a social stigma against men who have many uncommitted sexual partners. Such men are called “players,” “man-whores,” and even “immature,” when in reality these men are simply pursuing the evolutionary sexual strategy that is hardwired into their brains. Think about it: if every man in the world pursued sex and never gave commitment, women would have no providers to ensure the health and safety of their offspring. Therefore, women needed to create a social contrivance to counter this behavior and effectively shame the masculine imperative. By villainizing men who don’t commit, women hope to stop men from have uncommitted sex and make them become providers. Don’t let them influence you. Spin plates and do it unapologetically. Do not let women shame you into commitment.

“Monogamy Cures Loneliness”

Another social contrivance that women invented is the idea that men will be lonely and sad without a life partner. Women love to peddle the notion that a man who doesn’t marry will eventually die a sad death, alone. If you’re not married by your 30s, you better hurry up, or you’ll never find true happiness! It’s laughable. A man who has spent his 20s and 30s building a career, a social network, hobbies, and independence does not need a wife. Men in their 50s and 60s who stay in good physical shape and are successful can easily spin plates and have options. You have been constantly fed the idea that monogamy will cure loneliness, but understand that it is just a social contrivance that women invented so that they will have someone to settle down with once their cock carousel ride comes to an end. Stop worrying about being a sad old man. You don’t need a woman to be happy.

For more on this one, check out u/Rollo-Tomassi ‘s The Myth of the Lonely Old Man

“Monogamy is a Constant Supply of Sex”

Men have been led to believe that once you enter an LTR or marriage, you gain access to an unlimited supply of sex with your partner for the rest of your life. Here at the Red Pill, we know this to be false. In most cases, a woman’s sex drive drastically decreases once she secures a monogamous relationship. Now that she has your commitment, she doesn’t need to work for it anymore. The mystery and competition anxiety are gone. Now that she has cut off your other options, she has a monopoly on vagina, and can change the price (frequency) to whatever she wants. While some men can maintain the frequency of sex with a woman once he enters a monogamous relationship with her (usually through a difference in perceived SMV and dread game), this is far from the usual. Take a look at r-deadbedrooms if you want to see for yourself.

By creating the false notion that monogamy is a constant supply of sex, women have effectively led men to pursue monogamy as an end goal, satisfying female sexual strategy. Monogamy is the end goal for women, not men. Men should spin plates and let monogamy come as a byproduct if he chooses, once he has explored the full extent of his options.

 

Conclusion

From the day you were born, you have been unconsciously influenced by the above social contrivances used to make men commit to monogamous relationships. If you want to be in a monogamous relationship, you can. Many of us on the Red Pill have done it successfully. The key is to not feel pressured to do it by other people (particularly women). It should be your choice, and your choice only.