Dating Reality 101

ben-anders · 2019-08-19T00:51:17+00:00

He's all about making the white babies. Question is: Why would i want to mate up with one of these so called reformed sluts? Just listen to these females who go on his show. They are all damaged goods. They only ask him for advise after Alibaba and his 40 migrants all had their turn. And sudenly they need to marry a white European guy for stability. No thanks! Alibaba and his 40 migrants can keep her used up fake tradthot ass.

kciskbycalabrese · 2019-08-18T21:54:53+00:00

Glad I get to age like wine. Watched many women age like milk from highschool until graduating college. They hit the wall before 25!!!

Be glad you won the lottery, you were born a male in a first world country. How much better does it get!

DangZagnut · 2019-08-18T21:57:51+00:00

He had me in the first half, then the last sentence lost me.

roflcopt0rz_returns · 2019-08-19T05:19:43+00:00

Tradcons make me sad

They can see and acknowledge the double standards. They can see basic human nature and science.

But their solution is to get men to just walk into the slaughterhouse anyway despite all the red flags and blaring sirens.

Marriage in the current year, due to how shitty the laws are, is the literal equivalent to letting the woman put you in shackles and make you her slave. I don't care if this woman could walk on water and shit rainbows, I would never let anyone enslave me.

ncarolina66 · 2019-08-18T22:19:52+00:00

Yeah, wait until his wife divorces him out of the blue after 20 years of marriage....

He will then be preaching MGTOW rather than "mating up".

38yearsoffreefallin · 2019-08-18T23:52:50+00:00

Would Stefan be considered purple pill?

Patricijaobjectdude · 2019-08-18T22:02:49+00:00

Wake up & opt out

FTFY

DigitalScetis · 2019-08-19T08:25:45+00:00

Dating reality 500 (the graduate level MGTOW edition, taught by Professor Scetis):

1) Men want two things, danger and play, which is why he wants woman, the most dangerous plaything (F. Nietzsche, Zarathustra).

2) Man may be evil, but woman is bad (also from Zarathustra). She's bad at everything, which is why she takes what she can get.

3) Contrary to DATING 101, women are not "born rich," they are actually born poor. Why? Because they are born women.

4) Contrary to DATING 101, women do not "quickly go broke," they become richer over time. First via mommy and daddy. Next by her parade of lovers. Next by her husband. Next by her children who take care of her. Even the husband's pension, long after he is dead, takes care of her. She trades the thing of no value, and parlays it for actual value...value which grows.

5) Contrary to DATING 101, the man parlays his actual value, his life, health, and choices, for resource value like what you can see in an asset column. But it isn't in his ability to earn now we ought to be looking at. That can all disappear overnight, and it doesn't even have to be the man's fault when it does. The true value of a man is in his ability to create something from nothing, and this requires freedom from constraint and vitality, both of which can become fatally compromised with time and choices.

6) Calling upon women to become hypergamous is like calling upon an adult to abandon toilet training and go back to diapers. It's a feral condition that needs no encouragement. That any so-called free thinker has to tell these 21st Century women to gold dig, and think he's doing them a service, shows how laughable the whole situation really is. Mr. Molyneux, these women have been 'mating up', or attempting to do so, with an ambition and tenacity that makes Ayn Rand look like Julie Andrews from The Sound of Music by comparison. These thots are trying to "get rich or die trying." I even hear the most ambitious of them have, quite literally, ran out of men on Tinder, because none of the men meet their standards for "resources."

7) Instead, we need to focus our attention on men, informing them to reject the hypergamous equation of "sex for resources," and insist that a woman needs to love him for him, or it is just not worth a man's time, vitality, and (yes) resources. It might never happen. It might be that women will never--can never--"love you for who you are." But is this any less realistic than the Tinder thots whose standards are so incredibly high, they literally run out of men because none of them have "enough"?

Wake up, yes. But "mate up?" More like throw up.

TheFlorida_Fool · 2019-08-18T23:25:26+00:00

Wake up and mate up? Maybe Steffy is simply pretending to be intelligent.

FriedChickenGuy · 2019-08-19T02:58:16+00:00

Women age more like bread mold and mate up??? FUQ no!

ServentOfReason · 2019-08-19T08:07:34+00:00

This is just cope. A woman of any age always has a higher SMV than her male counterpart. A milf on Tinder will have no problems getting matches. A 40 year old rich man may have trouble despite his wealth.

Hiromant · 2019-08-19T08:19:34+00:00

It's not about money, money is beta bucks. You can't buy desire.

scotch-and-hookers · 2019-08-19T05:07:28+00:00

Lol simp. Females know that. That is why prefer dating older men because of richer assets and more wealth. But what happens when most of those “older men” been divorced raped?

eduardkoopman · 2019-08-19T09:58:56+00:00

Stefan Molyneux's (PHANTASY WORLD), is trying to advice young women (in their 20's):
to stay with a reliable and suitable man, and have children in their 20's. And to raise their children themselfes (no/little daycare), and to put education and carreer on hold/pause for their family/children.

And this is the REALITY:
NO, teenage untill mid 20's woman is listening to dudes like Stefan Molyneux. To them, it's just a boring old uncool and unsexy dude.
Women in their teens and 20's, choice to do this:
Enjoy their peak dating/sex market value by screwing the hot, or high status men; and ofcourse the dangerous/exciting "badboys". And experimenting sexually. Enjoy all the attention they get from men, and playing the provider/serious type of men by trying to make them orbiters. And they choice to not think about or want children, starting a family. But focus more on fun, and a substantial group also likes to focus on their study/education and having a type of carreer or good/decent job in the furture.

So, if a man ever wants children. Realistically speaking. He won't or can't find a young woman, whom will want to start a family, stay with him and have children. (I'm not even concerning the family court treatment a man gets, when the relationship ends).
So his option is then, women in their 30's. Of whom most have accumulated alot of baggage already or are not good options. Because of (random list):
* ruined pair bonding skills due to promiscuity;
* "accident" child (from badboy);
* unattractive looking;
* debts
* unwilling to put career on pause or on 50%, so to take care of the children
* rediculous high standards (due to past baggage, adding everything to the list they disliked about their past fuckup relationships/dates/fuckbuddies/etc..)
* in a hurry to get pregnant (aka, not willing to take the time to first build a good bound and relationship, before starting to have kids)
* etc...

Final thought.
People like Stefan Molyneux, often miss 1 thing.
* Men age like fine wine; when he is willing to and when it comes to playing the: provider/beta-bucks role. (Because he accumulates more resources)
* Most men don't age like fine wine; when he is looking for hookups/random sex/pump dump/fuckbuddy/one night stand/Tinder lays/etc.. type of things. The "Playboy/Chad/sexy guy" role. Because then a man his looks, are an important aspect.
And nowadays, on average. It's kinda like:
* Women are looking for a provider/beta-bucks man:
- from 30 until 40 (when they want to have children OR need resources for raising children)
- from late 50's - early 60's untill death (when they look for a man to take care of them (in the near-ish future) when they might get sick and less physically able)
* Women are looking for a "Playboy/Chad/sexy guy" man:
- from teens untill their mid-late 20's (when they want to have fun, excitement, hot things, ego boosts, etc.)
- from early-mid 40's untill mid (or late) 50's (when they dumped their provider man, and want to take their last opportunity in life to have that fun/exciting/etc. lifestyle.

If a man doesn't want to opt out of relationships, all together (in the West world). The he has to decide which role, he will accept to take on, with women. (imo, it's extremely rare a man can be or is both.).
I do get, why some men try out foreign women. Like an accaintance of mine, whom married a woman from South east Asian country to start a family with. The thing then is though. He took her to this western world. And I think that is a significant risk, that she will drop/dump him when she finds out she can do as well on wellfare or she feels like she can support herself. Then better, migrate to her country and life there (only possible if you'r rich, or have a type of income that is not dependant on you being/staying in your own country (Western world)).

Fantoche_Dreemurr · 2019-08-19T14:26:57+00:00

In other words, ignore the post wall as if they did not even exist and only go for young women from a culture that respects family.

Drawrtist123 · 2019-08-19T14:11:30+00:00

Take away the "Rights" they fought for first, then we'll talk.
If men age better and have more to offer later in life, why do women have the power to ruin mens lives for their own benefit? Sure - not all will - but all can; and that's not acceptable.

pelvispressely · 2019-08-19T16:31:26+00:00

Next level retard take

munt4life123 · 2019-08-19T22:50:24+00:00

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lowkeyloki4287 · 2019-08-20T05:04:31+00:00

listen, I get what he's going for, but the way he phrases it makes it sound like he wants to fuck babies. like, no, women are not born at peak fertility

CitrineQuartz · 2019-08-21T05:28:01+00:00

HOLY SHIT. I couldn’t imagine containing so much hatred and resentment for someone because of their gender. You guys really are bitter.

mercyisperfection · 2019-08-19T04:02:08+00:00

Shut the fuck up

Title	Dating Reality 101
Author	munt4life123
Upvotes	302
Comments	68
Date	August 18, 2019 9:45 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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