Reason 1. Watching my dad work hard, he buys my mother new cars every year. When he finally decided he wanted to get a sports car for himself to drive to work my mother told him it was bad idea and now he traded it in and drives her old car to work.

Reason 2. My mother has a huge bipolar issue, she would always get fustrated at me or my siblings still to this day she has no type of patience, she takes her anger out on the family and if you try to tell her she is wrong even in the nicest respectful way she goes on the defense and defends how right she is when she is absolutely in the wrong.

Reason 3. My dad is army ex special forces, before i was born he tells me how he used to pump and dump women in his younger days, basically he was a chad and my mother used to be scared of my dad. But as he likes to put it each time he had kid with my mom he changed to be "better" husband and dad (6 kids). Also because he had kids he couldnt finish college or pursue his career working in the secert service or the US marshalls as he would of liked too. My dad isnt happy, but he tries his hardest to make his family happy.

Reason 4. My mom the woman that suppose to be the loving woman in my life, oh how she ruined it for all the other women. She cheated on my father... seeing my mom cheat on my dad at that point i knew marriage doesnt mean shit. Its all about her, but my dad stayed with her because he "wanted to keep the family together." I still respect my mother, but in the back of my head i still know what she did and how she is.

Main points i get here is the man in a relationship everyday has to grind to make sure his wife is happy (which she never will be.) Make sure his kids are happy (which will also never be as kids always want the best new shit.) And then bring in all the income to pay all the bills, and all he gets in the end is socks or t shirt for his birthday. He cant buy anything for himself without talking it over with his spouse. FUCK THAT SHIT.