You don't GET IT, that's your problem, that's it, you don't get it!

The number one problem I have noticed with guys that flock to PUA, TRP, and other similar communities is the fact that they don't get it. These are the kinds of guys who are disconnected from the world, trends of their times, and they are out of touch. The fact that TRP and PUA have a tendency to hate "those conformists" makes things even worse because the weird social behavior of these guys is actually encouraged instead of corrected.

Think about the guys you see get hot girls for those of you who have seen it enough.

Chances are these guys were not really that good looking in most cases and quite a few of these guys were in many ways plain average. Most of these guys didn't appear to have this worldly knowledge of humanity and if you were to get into a conversation with them, it would not be like talking to a Stephen Hawking or even talking to Joe Rogan. For some reason we cannot explain these guys still get the hot girls while you do not.

Because THEY GET IT.

Unfortunately, high school didn't end the day you walked off the stage. All of us are familiar with how things work even in college with the social hierarchy and the importance of being an athlete or in a good fraternity if you want to get hot girls. If you are around enough of these guys, you will start to pick up on the fact that they GET IT. Even though they have status, they are able to relate to hot girls in a way that makes hot girls comfortable when it comes to talking to them.

The guys who did well with hot girls in high school usually continue to do well because they understand the importance of social image, SMV, and how you are perceived. For the guys who didn't do well, not all hope is lost but some adjustments do need to be made.

Now lets look at a guy who DOESN'T get it.

He will likely walk up to a hot girl at a bar and start talking to her about Aristotle, BORING!

He will play videogames and start LARPing, talk about that hobby to a hot girl.

He will come off as socially annoying and be a pest to most of the higher status people.

He will have strange interests and nerdy hobbies which he will attempt to make others like.

He will diss things like partying, socializing, and talk shit about people who do those sorts of things.

But I have not even made it to the worst part about this guy yet, he is stubborn!

The problem is the world, not him.

He will defend his nerdy hobbies, hate the world for not liking it, talk shit about Chads and "conformists" that do get hot girls, and talk shit about society not being perfect 24/7. The same guy will not only refuse to change but stop others from improving as well, he will tell them to embrace being a weird antisocial thing that creeps out hot girls. To this guy, hot girls should change for him, similar to how a feminist wants society to change their beauty standards for them.

But enough about that guy, what if you are the guy who wants to GET IT?

What if you want to go from being the sexless teenage loser to being the guy who gets hot girls?

The answer is simple but the process is not easy.

It will take having to leave your lower SMV friends who don't get hot girls and moving to interacting with guys who do.

Will they be douchey? Yes!

Will the whole thing seem fake? Yes, because it is fake.

Are you going to have to conform to some degree? Yes!

Because that is the reality of the game.

If we were blue pilled, we would all be talking about the nerd or geek who gets hot girls and has them falling in love with him because "he is somehow magically alpha now" but that is the same as a Disney tale that women believe.

If you are red pilled, you realize how fake the game really is but you have to play it anyways.

Hot girls are fake.

Unicorns do not exist.

Society is shallow.

SMV is for the most part quite objective, hot girls gravitate towards certain kinds of men.

Most importantly, there are two kinds of guys, the ones who get it and the ones who don't.