Men of MGTOW: Female here honestly asking for critical insight & dating advice since you're one of the toughest critics

Slaide · 2018-12-21T03:00:49+00:00

New account. Obvious chameleon.

Go. Away.

daddylonglegs72 · 2018-12-21T02:42:38+00:00

Focus on yourself and your children

unplugged182 · 2018-12-21T02:54:08+00:00

How many software devs dose it take to screw on a light bulb? None, because its a hardware problem.

801735 · 2018-12-21T03:02:27+00:00

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[deleted] · 2018-12-21T03:16:03+00:00

No "red pill - ish" man is going to risk marriage. Let alone marriage with a 30+ year old Alpha widowed divorced single mom. Your SMV is at best 0. To me you are in the negative SMV, it would be worse for my life to have you in it. Any guy that you would find attractive, can get a girl who brings much less baggage than u. For example, a 30 yr old woman who was never married and has no kids is a far better catch than you, and there is no shortage of those types desperately searching for a man.

You should probably just be really easy, hope a guy likes fucking u and sticks around for awhile , don't pressure him into any commitment and don't cause problems and don't make him pay for your kid or be your kids fake daddy. You already have a kid so you have no biological clock to worry about. Time is on your side. I think finding marriage again is an unrealistic expectation unless you seriously lower your standards and marry a desperate beta who u will hate and resent. The marriage would just be a scam and you'd be using him as a provider. And realistically u won't respect any man who commits to u and provides for u, since u know u are trash and not deserving of such treatment and any man who would pay to raise another man's child is by definition a cuck.

strongandhappy · 2018-12-21T02:46:31+00:00

I'm going to ignore my instincts and ask what happens when you make a dating profile, are you totally ignored?

Now for my instincts. r/datingoverthirty

Older_Miggy · 2018-12-21T03:58:07+00:00

r/datingoverthirty is that way ------->>>

BroJack22 · 2018-12-21T02:48:45+00:00

I grew up with a single mom, as many of have, and saw the men she dated. Your self awareness is good when it comes to your baggage, but it does not make you more attractive. Most people would tell you to try church or volunteering groups but unless you sincerely want to be there, the relationship wont be on solid footing. You could try online dating and just put it all out there. Lower your standards physically and status wise, which will be near impossible. Conversely, dont date shit heads and put your kids through that. Your main focus should be taking care of your children, so dating should be an ancillary goal, and in the process you may meet someone. Or you may not. Dont define your life on who you are with. You're a mother and that isnt something to take lightly. Good luck.

Marque01 · 2018-12-21T04:21:50+00:00

TL;dr Roast me

MythicalKnightz · 2018-12-21T02:45:09+00:00

As far as I kan see you seem to be a mother and woman, as far as marriage goes I think A LOT of guys (myself inkluded) are not interested in that big of a risk. If you are willing to sign a legal dokument saying that in the kase of devorse you won't take everything then some may go for it, but I think your best khanse is to just date them and forget about marriage.

If you want to ask me anything else dm me.

madmarvcr · 2018-12-21T02:55:16+00:00

I would concentrate on raising your kids. A single man in his 30's, no kids, will be looking for a single women in her 20's and no kids. A divorced man in his 30's will be saddled with child support, at a minimum and maybe more. Single moms are huge targets of the PUA Chads of the world. Your best bet would be men 50+, with grown kids, and he hasn't found MGTOW yet.

801735 · 2018-12-21T03:03:31+00:00

Ok, will do, but first, upload timestamped pic of tits here -> ______ <- there. A good friend of mine needs it for sciencing reasons up, she's a woman, if it helps.

Is there any hope for me? Or what can I do to improve?

Of course there is. And you already know how to improve. Just listen to the 1st answer you run away from and actually face it. Bam, improvement. Not even kidding. If kids are old enough to speak, ask them, kids usually don't give 2 shits about insulting and just speak their truth, we should listen to them more often imo. I said listen, not necessarily do as they say, but their answer might just be a brainslap or two we need, deserve even.

whatevescom · 2018-12-21T03:05:47+00:00

You sound nothing like any of the women I have dated in this age range. I am Mgtow but I am in the minority that blames both men and women. As someone that manages 100s of people, men and women suffer from two very different sets of issues, there is some cross over.

Ultimately, people here will tell you that your biology makes it a complete gamble to date you. Sure you work now, but most of us would not bank on that long term. Don’t take it personally, most people are looking for a handout honestly.

If I were you I would date people that are interested in you, but that you also like. Keep them the hell away from your kids, and be fair and honest in your dealings with him. If you truly believe that a man actually provides for his family and should be acknowledged, then You are far ahead of the rest. It is very common today for men and women to enjoy the gender roles but not acknowledge them and celebrate them. Me closing a deal and saving the company $100k on a contract is the same weight as my wife cooking a great dinner. Many men fuck things up royally by not understanding this. Many women fuck it up by not physically celebrating their man when he achieves things. I must say the only decent woman I ever dated was a Christian gal that understood these things well, and stood by them.

Her and I didn’t work out because I’m not risking my pension, life, freedom, free time for something that isn’t guaranteed.

I wish you luck as it sounds like life dealt you a shit hand. I don’t know your exact circumstances but I would think long and hard about focusing on your kids and going your own way. We don’t really need the relationship, it’s a crutch. Be content in your self and your achievements.

[deleted] · 2018-12-21T03:06:09+00:00

You sound a lot like one of my ex-girlfriends (3 girlfriends ago). She was 36 when I dated her and separated soon to be divorced (I was her rebound). You have similar age, STEM professionals, financially stable, cute. I never met her kids so... I dunno about that.

Is there any hope for me?

Oh sure. She has a lot of suitors, of course she was an HB 9 with a body to die for. She's now engaged (the good news) the bad news is that she's engaged to the carbon copy of her husband, the safe choice etc... unfortunately she had the "I love my husband but I am not in love with him" she wanted someone fun (I was) and someone for whom she would fall in love head over heal (that ain't me. Again, I was the rebound/transitional guy)

Or what can I do to improve?

If you want, hit the gym and lift. My ex-girlfriend did and at 36 she had a body that most 20-something would kill for.

FemaleIsEasyMode · 2018-12-21T03:17:41+00:00

Yes, there is hope that you will get someone. Probably zero chance from any guy in this sub, but that is MGTOW. There are many thirsty guys out there, I'm sure you could hook up with one. If you want a quality guy, you may have to look for an older gent who would view you as a catch and a worthwhile investment (you don't want some guy who would use you for your assets, aka: a male thot). Be aware that any successful man your age is probably already married and may not have any attraction for you. You could try looking for a divorced man or widower your own age who wants the same things. You should know that to a male, 30's are when he is established and he has gained wealth. He now has the ability to reel in that attractive 20 year old (or copy of) that never gave him a second glance when he was in his 20's. That is your competition now.

DangZagnut · 2018-12-21T03:30:38+00:00

You have hope, there are plenty of manipulative simps for you.

selfism_mike · 2018-12-21T03:34:57+00:00

Under the current system which is hostile to men any contact with women is a liability. A man marrying you will also take responsibility for your children and in case of divorce could pay child support.

The best advise to any man out there is to stay away. You are a huge liability.

[deleted] · 2018-12-21T03:51:59+00:00

At first I read red flags and look through whole thing and ut one big black flag screaming death. No sane man would date you. I'm sure some cuck or wimp who would cut his balls off and gift wrapp them to you would.

Like the others have said your nothing but a problem.

I put it simple, a red pill many is already married and that's to his hobby. Why would he put a limit on his freedom and become someone atm.

Only idiots do that.

Careful_Description · 2018-12-21T04:44:04+00:00

This sounds too good to be true considering the single mother stance...

https://i.redd.it/hwi2dy1d6n421.png

https://www.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/a630lz/my_nephews_female_rating_system/

If this is real, don't be thrown off by the rudeness. There are many who are untrusting from proselytizers and those in red pill rage. Additionally, it's also a stress relief sub.

Title	Men of MGTOW: Female here honestly asking for critical insight & dating advice since you're one of the toughest critics
Author	honeyandashes
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Comments	27
Date	December 21, 2018 2:35 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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