How have women reacted to you living the MGTOW lifestyle?

BertTheWelder · 2018-12-20T01:09:30+00:00

I don't openly say I'm a MGTOW, I don't even say "I don't want to get married or have a GF". I just say I'm not looking for it right now bcoz I don't have a stable job and a good career to provide for my family...

I just say stuff that makes sense in their head so they can stop pissing me off, it's not worth debating with them, most of people I know are tradcons...

underrated_kawasaki · 2018-12-20T02:35:03+00:00

Whenever people ask me do I have a girlfriend and why don’t I, I just tell them the bullshit story that my girlfriend of 5 years who I loved dearly, was killed by a drunk driver and that I never wanted to bring it up but they left me no choice. Im a good actor and I make it seem very convincing. It makes people fuck right off and apologize for even asking me, sometimes giving me “sympathy” as well :)

CiceroVoltaire · 2018-12-20T01:49:32+00:00

I think your experience on other subs here being labeled a mgtow answered your question ;)

My approach is indifference and invisibility, not just to women but to society in general.

I dress down, don't show any visible signs of wealth, status and live below my means visually, i.e., someone looking at me, what I drive, how I dress, at my house, etc.

I don't talk about my lifestyle, philosophy, etc. with anyone.

When I get unwanted attention from women, it's easy enough to deflect or ignore. I act like I don't see their hints, and I don't engage in their attempts to get my attention. Usually works. Indifference.

shakethenuttree · 2018-12-20T01:33:39+00:00

A girl ask me if I was interested in her, I laughed and said no fucking way, I rarther eat shit out the toilet.

DangZagnut · 2018-12-20T01:29:13+00:00

I'm in a weird situation, that made them horny, because they're apparently attracted to misogynists.

juncoagency · 2018-12-20T01:21:49+00:00

My mom has called me gay for not having a girlfriend and I've spent the majority of time from 12-25 in relationships with 7-8 different women. The last year I've spent single and now I'm gay apparently. Well can't satisfy everyone.

Dfens-93 · 2018-12-20T03:15:21+00:00

"Why don't you find a girl and get laid?" is what they say. Easy for them to say, when they can't ignore their cock cravings.

I have no desire to have sex with anyone. Not worth it.

TheKelticWolf · 2018-12-20T05:00:54+00:00

I never state anything MGTOW related to females, but I have used the statement when asked about why don’t you do “X”....

“Uhhh, I’m a monk. Monks don’t have relationships.”

The usual response is: “oh, cool.”

I leave it up to their imagination as to what kind of monk I actually am. If they press, I state that I am an old Culdee Druidic/Levitical monk....

That and “MGTOW” monk are both true, but they don’t need to know about MGTOW.

Black-Apollo · 2018-12-20T03:53:35+00:00

I just tell them I'm sterile and that's about enough to keep them away.

shakethenuttree · 2018-12-20T07:35:04+00:00

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ResidentTruck · 2018-12-20T08:00:23+00:00

Well, see, I'm middle aged and divorced. I get a free pass to be as bitter or salty as I want on the subject.

That said, I don't talk about MGTOW by name, either.

carjackerwilly · 2018-12-20T01:28:34+00:00

When they ask I just tell them that women are a frivolous waste of my time. That normally concludes the topic.

chart6653 · 2018-12-20T02:55:07+00:00

I say "A relationship does not add value to my life, quite the opposite in fact" and they look at me like I'm speaking Klingon, so I get some entertainment value from it as well

DWShimoda · 2018-12-20T07:56:27+00:00

For my last two questions in this sub, I have already been shamed in other subreddits. That was quick! :D Apparently now I'm MGTOW aswell, hate all women, and hence, literally nothing I say on anything matters.

You answered your own question.

shakethenuttree · 2018-12-20T01:59:50+00:00

Disdain and hatred.

So, in other words, the system works.

Older_Miggy · 2018-12-20T03:57:08+00:00

At this point in my life I have almost zero interaction with women.

None of their business anyways. So no.

[deleted] · 2018-12-20T04:07:07+00:00

Envious. They have kids, limited funds, they watch me go out to dinner, travel, do things as a “bachelor”.

MiddleAgedMGTOW · 2018-12-20T05:08:53+00:00

I don’t know. I haven’t asked. My lifestyle is none of their business.

shakethenuttree · 2018-12-20T09:37:30+00:00

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Buchwild · 2018-12-20T12:03:08+00:00

They smell that I am different and something is up, send help. They will circle my home soon...

[deleted] · 2018-12-20T15:10:52+00:00

I usually just say something like, "eh, I just want to do my own thing right now. And I'm a single father and I want to concentrate on him." Ironically, my 4 year old son makes women run away. I've had women all over me until they met him. Afterwards, they just want to be friends.

A couple of times I said I was MGTOW online. I was instantly called an incel. How classic. If they knew me, I am 180 degrees opposite of an incel. I'm 6'2", 210 lbs of muscle, hyper athletic, highly educated, and good looking. I really want through the women in my 20's. Overall, I've been with about 65 women. I finally decided to settle down, get married, and be a father. That actually turned off 90% of women. It's not that I said any of those things while dating. But my attitude changed. They knew I wanted that. They liked me more as the "Alpha bad boy." I finally did get married. We planned our son, no accidents. When he turned two years old, she wanted to have a lesbian experience. She was on Tinder looking for girls. But at some point, I think she switched it to see the men. Overnight she changed. She told me to my face that she loved me and my son, but had no desire to be with either of us. I think she discovered all these desperate men willing to blow money on her and all the players she thought she could have. She sees my son about 2 or 3 days a month and I have him the rest of the time. I actually wish I had him 100%.

She is now waiting tables making $50 a day and living with her mother. She has enlisted in the Military. I'm good with that. She will be gone more often and far away. And my son will get a lot of benefits from that.

That was more than you asked. Just put it all out there. Saying "I'm doing my own thing right now", "still haven't found the right one," or "I need to focus on myself right now" are all better than saying you are MGTOW. I wouldn't tell anyone that except your very closest friends.

Staircase1978 · 2018-12-20T16:04:39+00:00

I usually say something like, "I just want to do my own thing right now," or "I'm a single father and need to concentrate on him right now." Ironically, my 4 year old son makes women run away. I've had women all over me until they met him. Afterwards, they just want to be friends. A couple of times I said I was MGTOW online and was instantly called an incel. How classic? If they knew me, I am 180 degrees opposite of an incel. I'm 6'2", 210 lbs of muscle, hyper athletic, highly educated, and good looking. I really went through the women in my 20's. Overall, I have been with about 65 women. I finally decided to settle down, get married, and be a father. That actually turned off 90% of women. It's not like I said any of those things while dating. But my attitude changed. They knew I wanted that. They liked me more as the "Alpha Bad Boy." I finally did get married. We planned our son, no accidents. When he turned two years old, she wanted to have a lesbian experience. She was on Tinder looking for girls. But at some point, I think she switched it to see men. Overnight she changed. She told me to my face that she loved me and our son, but had no desire to be around either of us. I think she discovered all the desperate men willing to blow money on her and all the players she thought she could have. She left and my son would ask "where is mom?" I just told him that I didn't know. She went a few months without seeing him at all. She now only sees my son 2 or 3 days a month and I have him the rest of the time. I wish I had him 100% of the time. She is now waiting tables making $50 a day and lives with her mother. She has enlisted in the military. I'm good with that. She will be gone more often and far away. And my son will get a lot of benefits from that. That was a lot more than you asked, just putting it all out there. Saying, "I'm doing my own thing," "Still haven't found the right one," or "I need to focus on myself right now" are all better than saying you are MGTOW. Maybe that will change in the near future. I would only say you are MGTOW to your very closest MALE friends.

KarosGraveyard · 2018-12-20T13:48:39+00:00

Don't ever tell anyone you're MGTOW. Ever. Doing so only invites trouble and hostility from asshats both men and women.

Just live the MGTOW lifestyle, keep a low profile about it, and most people won't even have a clue.

How have women reacted to you living the MGTOW lifestyle?

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Title	How have women reacted to you living the MGTOW lifestyle?
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Date	December 20, 2018 1:02 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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