I don't believe anything 100%, to do that it would be a cult.

I am older, really. I discovered PUA from its infancy, and it helped me a lot getting laid. Then I discovered TRP when it was just starting up. To me TRP was not about game, it was not about women at all, it was about putting myself #1 and be the best I could be. Women were an incidental accessory to my life.

And I know I am not the only one who thought of TRP that way. So, those of us who got inspired by TRP that way, this is what we did:

  • We hit the gym and fixed our diet and we got a nice toned and muscular body
  • We were either educated or got a good education
  • We developed a good career
  • We are financially stable, and more
  • We developed our hobbies and interests
  • We became more confident and assertive

In short, while not Chad (well, maybe) we are a very good catch.

So, if someone wants to spin plates, it becomes really really easy. Trust me, if I could do it, you could too.

But, what if one of us wants a real relationship. I know this is MGTOW, but hear me out, I am going somewhere.

Back to what I was saying, what if someone wants a relationship, a good long-term relationship? It would be with someone, a woman, who would bring to the table something along the same lines as what the guy would bring. Right?

So, a woman who:

  • is fit (and not fat)
  • educated
  • with a decent career, not just a dead-end job
  • financially stable; not living paycheck-by-paycheck, and not drowning in debt
  • no kids
  • no baggage: no alpha widow, no ex-gf with whom she's currently in touch, a no FWB/FB on the side

Well, guess what? It's mission impossible.

A few times I have talked about this with a small group of acquaintances when the discussion turned to relationships and how it's hard to find a good guy; and - you know what I was told? That I have unreasonable expectations, that I ask too much, and that I should lower my standards.

So, there it is. The "problem" in becoming a great person, a great guy, to pursue all that we can be is that . . we won't be able to find our match, unless we settle for a lot less.

And that's the SAD part. In the female world there's no TRP equivalent, nobody tells them to:

  • take care of your body
  • take care of your mind
  • get a good education
  • develop a good career
  • cultivate your passions and interests

And that's why MGTOW is the best solution to the present state of things with society at large. The only "drawback" is sex. So far I have solved that issue by dating casually; serial monogamous FWB/FB; but I know that there are risks (I have mitigated those) and it's not for everyone.

It's sad for women, and it's sad for everyone too.