I recently read a post about what to do when another girl confronts you about being a parallel non-monogamist. Obviously apologizing for being non-society-ideal-man is the absolute worst option- you completely destroy your street cred and your SMV.

The rest of this post is my comment agreeing with /u/BaiLoulong that neither confession, denial, nor lying are good reactions. Confession, denial, and lying is agreeing to fight on the battleground she has chosen. You will always lose.

I believe that the only right thing to do is to maintain frame, take control of your emotions, then take control of her emotions. Turn the attack on its head, win the war without fighting any battles.

I smile and tease and if they're hot, hint at if they want to find out what being a "friend" of mine is firsthand. "In that case you must know that I treat the ladies well", &c. Always jokes at first to relax the mood and put them in a position to be further opened.

When a girl confronts you about it she's more than likely curious and interested. Here's this man who has a reputation for not just being attractive enough to pick up drunk bitches, but attractive enough to keep the attention of other intelligent, pretty women for long periods of time, without giving monogamy.

She wouldn't have brought it up in the first place if she wasn't interested. Unattractive men are invisible to girls as soon as they have nothing left to exploit.

If you deny it, you're closing off a potential fuck, and painting yourself as an unreliable / dishonest person. She'll go back to her friends down the grapevine and potentially fuck up your social image. Remember, conversation with women is mostly emotional. You can say as little as you want as long as she feels good.

What does her feeling good involve in this case? You are the prize, you are desired by other women, you are certainly desired by her. It's obvious: her feeling good simply involves you giving her a little bit of that attention you give your plates.

I firmly believe that implementation is as important as theory. Examples: how do you deflect questions like these?

The basics- amused mastery, agree + amplify, abundance mentality. Open-ended questions are easy. If she asks you how can you treat women this way, you can amplify it- "yeah, how can I take them out to insert cool event, teach them insert skill here, be there for them? I'm such a monster". Or just smirk (not smile) and say "curious, aren't we now?". Different tools for different personalities.

More specific, pointed questions regarding monogamy like "don't they want to be exclusive?" should be deflected- "I'm loyal and supportive, I'll be there for you". "What if they want kids?", "I'm happy if they find someone else who does". "What happens if she falls in love with you?" (if she asks this she's probably drowning in her panties), "Love is a beautiful thing to be shared", &c. This is (like it or not) still a social norm, so you must pay attention to it and not damage your reputation by openly flouting it.

And remember- all this without once breaking frame. Lean back, be comfortable, smile. Slow, confident, measured voice. Engage your other conversation partners. Pull in your plate (if she's nearby), give her exactly enough attention to get "fuck me right now" eyes, then send her away. Everyone else will smell it and start drooling.

Pull your inquisitor closer in without giving away anything of your own, and then suddenly you have the power. You can cut off your attention to her exactly when she's hooked, and she knows it. Any question can be turned away, can be answered with another one, can be used to hurt or pleasure, so deal with her questions to get the emotional outcome you want.

It is the fascinating thing about how women vs. men work that she knows it but can't control her attraction, while you don't know it but can control your own responses. Make full use of that, and take control of the situation.