Yo seeking help from the alphas here.
My city is kind of L.A. wanna be. this is why L.A. and here are notorious for dating. People, especially the PUA community, been perplexed why Toronto is so brutal for game.
I can tell you why. Drugs. There are a huge entertainment culture here with many cliques. Every clique has their own local celebrities. Girls are always in the state of
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Chasing drugs, the next fix. If you approach any on the street, chance are she is looking for the guy who knows a guy who has stock.
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Chasing local celebrities. She is texting someone who has some fame in her niche. She is chasing those chads, seeking their validation. If you are not in that niche and dont have a celebrity status, you are in a weak position. Also, those chads also do a lot of drugs with their groupies and plates as well. How can you complete when those semi-celebrity-semi-alpha-chad hybrid also do drugs and you dont?
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She is bombarded by texts by orbiters who is inviting her to a vapor lounge, concerts, parties, where there are drugs and alcohol
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She is in some sort of drama with her ex or current boyfriends whom she does weeds or drug with.
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She is looking forward to weekend when she will go to club or pub where she will meet these type of characters.
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You dont even meet her because she is somewhere doing drugs. Or you got a number from a girl but she wont show up for date 2 because she was smoking weed with orbiters, smoking on her own while naked eating disgusting foods, or had no motivation due to drugs withdrawal.
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She is a drug dealer or bad boy widows. I cant say they are alpha widows because true alpha doesnt use drug I think.
Its based on personal experience! Many girls I have instant dates with or just brief encounter on public transportation are like that.
Their situations cannot be properly explained by all the current theories, unless you see them for what they are- addicts.
They are always in some high or low state. Too high they don't pay attention to your game. Too low they are in such a bad mood they don't care to be nice to you.
I know women are like that even in its natural, drug free state, but the more dicks and drugs they experienced, the worst it become.
These women I have met has jobs, master degree, honour undergrad... basically women from all walk of life, even small towns girls (whom I ran into when they visited Toronto for drugs and alcohol but they were much sweeter and nicer than the more experienced city counterpart)
Red pillers, what working solutions have you tried in similar situations?
I read books from pimps and even they give up on hoes who are on drugs.
Is Toronto beyond saving? Is this city where the beta has an upper hand against the alphas by using drugs and all these dirty tricks?
Edit:
Did I say anywhere in this post I don't get laid? Where you think I got my observation from? My actual dates and cold approach experience. I had girls naked in my bed getting back up and leave the moment they got text from betas offering them substance. I had girls crying begging for weed in my room. I brought 3 chicks to my room me and my roommates were making out with them and they left after getting text from some orbiters (probably offering beers and weed now that I "see" the matrix)
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