Expectations for single guys

SilverGryphon · 2019-05-19T11:20:09+00:00

The worst is having people CONSTANTLY trying to play matchmaker. I am in a position where I have to keep my MGTOW status completely secret, so I always just say that I'm just not interested, or happier being single. They especially don't like the 'happier being single' line, as if that's an impossibility.

user_miki · 2019-05-19T11:51:26+00:00

There is reason that is called "plantation".

BalthierMaxwell · 2019-05-19T12:11:27+00:00

The worse is whenever they have a Valentine's Day celebration at the office.

"But how come he's good looking and single? If he isn't gay then he must be some kind of weirdo"

I once overheard a group of women talking to the receptionist about some guy

OLD-TRUCK · 2019-05-19T11:06:12+00:00

I know exactly what you mean my man. Every week at work, I have people trying to get me off of the mgtow path, both men and women. I'm not sure what I am doing that is such a threat lol. Crabs in a bucket I suppose.

ivoryhawk · 2019-05-19T13:23:03+00:00

Since I have stopped chasing after ass all the time, it almost physically pains me to hear dudes at work talk about women. If they aren't lusting after them they are complaining about the ones they do have.

People also try to use the ole "there is gonna be a bunch of hot girls there" sales tactic to get you to go do something. And no matter how many times you tell people that you don't give a shit it's still like "Awwww whatever. You are just scared of rejection."

Silly fools hahaha

Can't be mad at them tho. Guys have a tendency to think with our dick which has no brain but sometimes I wonder.

2019-05-19T15:45:46+00:00

At 49 and never been married, I can say this has actually gotten worse over the years. It used to be these were kind of taboo topics at work and people didn't really press you on it. Sure there were all the jokes and so forth, but folks generally accepted your privacy if you didn't care to discuss your sex life. Now it seems, "we know you're fucking something damnit and we're gonna find out even it's your hand. We need to know your pornography preferences."

It is an absolute invasion of privacy. I'm close to your age, and somewhat of the same situation/background. And this, at least much of this, started when women entered the workforce. Women in the workplace are not there to improve the companies bottom line, or profitability. They are there to look for a husband/someone to take care of them.

It additionally is damn well against the law to harass and probe into people's private lives and also against most companies policies. MANY of these types of organizations NEED to be SUED so that their fucking retard CEO's finally get the point and drop a hammer to clean up their own companies. You are right. Any personal probing USED to be met with either a 'mind your own business' and other employees and HR would support it. Now? Now, like you said, they, or at least the office CUNTS that work now have to know where you stick your dick, who you fuck, what porn you look at, how much money do you spend on women, are you engaged, do you have a 'girl', what are you doing this weekend, I know someone who is single, and all this other fucking garbage.

And being single, and not attached, doesn't mean you are gay or some kind of freak to people at work.

It does not. Remember when women's panties were wet as fuck to legalize gay marriage and support homosexuality 100000000%? And what are the results? Women were even told this when they pushed all the social acceptance of homosexuality that they would 'RUE THE DAY'. And that day is now here.

I feel ZERO pity, empathy, or sympathy for ANY woman at work now that isn't doing their job and minding their own business. Matter of fact, I personally HATE women that use the workplace as a 'pick up zone'.

All in all, this just shows that women should have NEVER been allowed into the working world.

FunkyCannaHigh · 2019-05-19T15:18:41+00:00

Screw them, you do you. Forget what others say, life is too short

reddit5000000 · 2019-05-19T13:45:47+00:00

It’s funny as i’ve been asking married men in their late 30’s to mid 40’s and they’re like never get married and doubling down on their bad investment

RealBiggly · 2019-05-19T12:50:13+00:00

Happily the younger guys won't face so much of this.

CraftBeer1983 · 2019-05-19T15:58:14+00:00

Your coworkers are probably just jealous of your high spirit vibe. Wear some black onyx and calming stones for protection.

SssanL · 2019-05-19T16:30:02+00:00

They are called pussy slave and they want you to join them.

newcaprica1 · 2019-05-19T17:45:29+00:00

Im 31 and get this same shit from co-workers almost all the time, i just brush it off as they are simps who waste so much time and energy and their health.

Blackfysh88 · 2019-05-19T19:03:25+00:00

Yeah, I’ve been getting asked about whether I’m dating or others ask about my sexuality (mainly young women thinking they’re clever). It’s getting annoying. I spent years being ignored by women and now that I don’t care anymore they keep fucking bugging me.

FritzLn · 2019-05-19T18:16:06+00:00

i'm so glad i work at a place where i can mind my business and no one gives a shit about me as long as i do my job

these stories are so foreign to me. sounds 'toxic'

TruthSeekingPerson · 2019-05-19T18:31:19+00:00

So much pressure from blue pulled co-workers.

olsing · 2019-05-19T18:40:21+00:00

I am beeing told that i will regret later in life that I dont have wife or child and that I will be unhappy.

I dont know maybe I will be unhappy later, but when see them how much they complain about life I understand they are already unhappy.

HODL_FOR_DEAR_LIFE · 2019-05-19T19:05:03+00:00

This is easily the most irritating part of being single. As a guy I must be gay for being single but as a woman it's YOLO strong independent woman. For me my parents are determined to marry me down and my friends are determined to find me some tinder sluts.

Nevek_Green · 2019-05-19T20:48:37+00:00

People in general seem to be put at unease if you don't follow conventional norms of the period. If you don't follow the herd mind, you have people complain about it, but if you stick to your way long enough people seem to flock around you. It's rather odd, but the more you're unwilling to tolerate others bs and be pronounced about your ways in action the more it occurs.

eduardkoopman · 2019-05-19T20:45:24+00:00

it usually takes much time, effort, money, etc for me to attain a sexual partner of my highest preference.

This, is also why I opted out. The costs are to high. I'm also decent-leaning towards attractive looking (like a 7/10 orso). And I'm not in the mood to fuck a 4 or 5, ever. And even having something short term with a woman that is around my own looks level, a 6 or above. It's gonna cost me too much time, effort, money, etc. to be worth the orgasm(s) and companionship. I tried it in my last LTR for 4 years, and the cost was just to high imo. That's just been my experiences, for both Short term "relationships" and long term relationship; the cost-benefit wasn't making sense for me (not even calculating the possible risks).
Now, I do notice I start getting seemingly low cost offers from women for a qucik entrance, but it's with the idea from them to turn it into something Long Term, and those women are always below a 5 in looks (imo 2 or more point below my looks level). And that just isn't attractive to me, and imo they ar just trying to shoot/score outside of their league.
As you/OP said:

doesn't mean you are gay or some kind of freak to people at work.

hardmodeornomode · 2019-05-20T01:16:43+00:00

Preach

xdrdoom69x · 2019-05-24T15:10:24+00:00

I just quit a corporate IT job that I rotted at since 2013

That was 6 years too long. I played it somewhat recklessly in that I didn't put on enough BluePill camouflage to really blend in. Understand that I'm naturally an angry looking dude and have a giant beard which can and will make me appear to be insane if I don't groom that sucker.

Long story short: queen bee, her friend, and the few of the queen's men couldn't really put their collective finger on me about my place in the hierarchy, who I was having sex with at the time (no one), and what I did on weekends.

My manager was married with two kids. Never heard him speak with his wife or heard her speak to him so I cannot comment on the dynamics. He liked me, I just made him look terrible by coming in late consistently for 3 years. I didn't really give a shit though, I'll be honest.

Once I knew that I was quitting I really just said whatever I wanted, so when the topic came up of why I was single, the answer was somewhere along the lines of (paraphrased) "Eh, it just doesn't really interest me. I feel more alone in relationships anyway. But I find that honesty is better than duplicity so I do not like to lead girls on and I let them know. My artistic passions trump anything anyway and I'd like to focus on those."

His response was "Well, that's not good!" Very strong analysis, sir. At that point, I finally knew who he was, or at least which side of the line he was on. What a lazy, cowardly, knee-jerk statement. The relief from leaving that group of automatons is unmatched.

It's all so strange, petrol. It could be that social media has ruined it for all of us, no? You're used to getting basically a dossier on the person from his profile, but in real life, it's harder to tease that out, so of course you have to know. You deserve to know everything about petrol and where he sticks it!

I chalk it up to the way women are; they are social and want to know where everyone sits in the rankings so they know to either treat you with respect/fuck you or speak down to you. My theory is that not knowing may be unsettling for them at some deep, unconscious level and they view you as a possible threat.

I wish you well in bucking social norms and staying true to your mission.

AsslcoholicAddict69 · 2019-05-25T12:16:06+00:00

r/gayMGTOW

Title	Expectations for single guys
Author	petroldog
Upvotes	133
Comments	47
Date	May 19, 2019 10:55 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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