Seeking some advice. I went out with this... insanely hot chick for about 8 months, 5ish years ago. It was a lot of fun, but she was immature and it wasn't going anywhere, so it ended and life moved on.

I recentally broke up with my ex and guess who pops up a few days later?

After a few weeks of sexting, she comes over and we fuck and laugh and then fuck some more. We agree to keep it casual and I spank her on her way.

We message for a few weeks, her sending pics and trying to organise another meet up with busy lives and conflicting schedules. We managed it, or so i thought because she never showed. Last message I got was: "Setting off, be there soon". Then nothing. She didn't show, no explaination and has been ignoring me since, other than a couple of boring, short conversations.

Which is annoying, but whatever. Abundance mentality, I've got a few plates still spinning etc

I just want your thoughts on what made her her pull away and (more importantly) advice on how to lasso her back.

I've got ideas, just looking for some outside perspective/constructive criticism.