I'm ready.

SomeoneStopMePlease · 2018-10-31T14:01:08+00:00

I'm a dad with sole custody of my daughter. I've dated a woman for years now and my daughter started calling her mom. Over the last few months I caught her messaging an ex boyfriend of hers. She cried and apologized and begged me to forgive her. I got us into couples counseling and she didn't show up. Last night she cried and asked me to just hold her. Then I found out she had not only not stopped messaging her ex but that its been going on behind my back for the last 3 years. He knows my daughter called her mom. He knows we lived together. He knows we had marriage plans. It's not just his fault but once he found out I knew he blocked me everywhere and started using number making apps to continue to text her. Last night she called her mother and I watched as she packed up and left my life. My daughter doesn't know yet. I dont know how to break it to her. She was so excited to trick or treat with us tonight. She told my daughter recently "baby, I love you as if you were my own. I'm never going anywhere baby. We are a family". Then, she snuck out in the middle of the night. Left me with all of our bills, hit the atm and left us with less than 100 dollars in the account. Took over 3,000

astuteglute · 2018-10-31T14:34:19+00:00

I can't even imagine the rage. Cunt cleans the account too. Fuck you and your kid too hu?

Witnessed brother.

ManofManic · 2018-10-31T16:31:44+00:00

Any ex a woman has had likely alpha widowed her. For them, "Ex" still carries significance or status and is an endearing term. It's post relationship preselection for a woman to even acknowledge an ex, and it explains why beta chumps are not considered as one, even if they "dated."

We all know the anger that foments when you find out about the guy behind your partner's infidelity. Yeah, he's a piece of shit. But he's a piece of shit with no inherent loyalty to you. Holding him accountable only validates her, and it's negative energy expenditure.

Some will say the best revenge is living well. Personally, I preach that the best revenge is no revenge at all, because this cunt will certainly seal her own fate in the future. She'll see you as a convenient backup plan when she understands the enormity of her indiscretions. Be the man that does not respond.

MGTOW will save you from ever enduring this shit again. Thus, it will also save your daughter. Be strong for her, and we'll be strong for you brother.

user_miki · 2018-10-31T15:40:44+00:00

She will try to come back to you after ex will dump her.I see so many of these beggars to come back in your life.The biggest mistake ifs to take her back, to make your girl suffer again.If I were you I would never ever want to meet her again, talk to her, like she was dead to me.

2018-10-31T18:54:50+00:00

Be mad at him. Absolutely.

Be furious with her, though. She was the worst deceiver of the two.

ripdabs · 2018-10-31T14:13:33+00:00

You're a real pos Dustin Miller!!!

contraterrene · 2018-10-31T16:25:28+00:00

In the long term, you dodget a bullet there.

ericavi8tor · 2018-10-31T16:27:26+00:00

Been right there and I can sympathize with you. Stay far away from these heartless monsters (women), who will get you locked up. Get an attorney NOW.

Davidblake6789 · 2018-10-31T17:23:15+00:00

Misplaced rage. He refuses to attribute agency to the woman, preferring to blame the guy.

SomeoneStopMePlease · 2018-10-31T19:01:54+00:00

Destin Miller, a.k.a. Chad

realChebz · 2018-10-31T20:38:28+00:00

If that's your post, you're a moron OP... What does her ex have to do with any of this? He didn't cheat on you, your woman did. He doesn't owe you shit, not call you, not talk to you not fight you. If he wasn't there your ex would cheat with someone else. Typical blue pill cuck smh...

BoskOfPortKar · 2018-10-31T20:56:11+00:00

Lucky that she left so easily.

ProclaimTheRepublic · 2018-10-31T21:01:59+00:00

Goddamn man. Welcome to the fold, but it's always shitty when it's stories like this that bring us here. I think it's the only way we learn, love blindfolds you. It'll obviously impact your daughter, but I hope you both have the strength to get through it together. And I hope she rises above it all.

bblack27 · 2018-10-31T21:04:35+00:00

Reading all of these, man...damn. Thank God I discovered this BEFORE getting married.

2018-11-01T02:45:42+00:00

I would suggest raising those kids and staying the fuck away from women period - for their good and yours. This is what happens.

That was some expensive puss.

SiliconeGiant · 2018-10-31T20:14:03+00:00

I was dating this one girl and her ex-bf kept trying to get me on the phone in the same way. I never talked to him either because I knew nothing good could come of it, as he was just doing what you're doing, being mad at the dude.

I can't say there's no reason to be mad at the dude, but even if he were super manipulative, in the end it's the woman who made that choice.

Obviously condolences. There really should be some sort of MGTOW support page for when this exact thing happens to men. Resources, link and numbers.

Gracket_Material · 2018-10-31T15:13:23+00:00

The guy who wrote this sounds like a tard

Title	I'm ready.
Author	SomeoneStopMePlease
Upvotes	99
Comments	72
Date	October 31, 2018 2:00 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/9syzgm/im_ready/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/MGTOW/im-ready.466774 https://theredarchive.com/post/466774

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