I know a self-identified American "incel lesbian", let's call her Kate, who is pretty red-pilled about the nature of Western women. Kate wrote on her Tumblr blog that she does not associate with other women and has little in common with them. She feels "alienated" when around girls her age. She is getting along with guys much better than with girls, especially than with girls around her age.

Kate is a femme, not a butch.

But she has some masculine interests and I enjoyed chatting with her. She is smart. If she was straight, and a bit less indoctrinated with far left ideology, she would be as likeable as Shoe0nHead. I accused her of being a "political lesbian", but now I think that her sexual identity is really beyond her control. That she really is a "hardcore lesbian" who can't be into guys. It is not her choice.

Kate dislikes her non-straight sexuality, because she can't "just be herself" if she wants to date girls. Apparently the AWALT rule applies to many lesbians, and many lesbians treat girls as badly as some straight women treat guys.

Kate also thinks that if she moved to another country, she would be able to have more luck in love, and to get along better with women in said country, because she would be able to blame her differences on being foreign.

I think that she is pretty torn apart between embracing ideologies which can help her get laid with LGBTQ-SJW folks, and embracing The Red Pill.

Kate suffers from HOCD, OCD about being straight. Because she would like to be into guys. Being attracted to guys would make her life so much easier. Her gay sexuality makes her life harder. She wouldn't have to embrace the SJW belief system and radical feminism if she was straight. She is too smart to genuinely believe in all SJW crap. But since she isn't straight, and her sexuality is not flexible, she has to pretend being an SJW if she wants to get laid.

She did try to date some guys, but there were no sparks.

Lesbians who "don't belong", understand men better than most straight girls do. But they have mixed feelings for men. They are at risk of becoming rabid man-haters, because they are frustrated about their sexuality and they envy men. They envy guys because they think that guys "steal" girls from them. They blame men for the fact that only 1-2% of all women are lesbians:

https://d25d2506sfb94s.cloudfront.net/cumulus_uploads/document/7zv13z8mfn/YG-Archive-150813-%20Sexuality.pdf

They want to convert more women to lesbianism, in order to expand and improve their own dating pool, for this purpose they want the downfall of men, they want straight males to be hated by straight women, hoping that sexuality of these girls is fluid and hoping that more girls will become LGBTQ.

They suffer from some form of identity crisis. Many of them would secretely like to be born as a man, and thus be able to date the vast majority of girls. For example the lesbian I know imagines that she was actually a man in her previous life (she kind of believes in reincarnation).