Really, really shit situation.
2 months ago, my GF was raped. It was done in a park. She didn't want to report it and went into a full breakdown, wouldn't speak to police, go to hospital etc. I couldn't force her, so I just stayed with her.
She was, obviously, in a really shit state since, and I've been with her, by her side, listening to her, helping her. We went to therapy, and she knows I'm there for her. She has a history of depression, and I've been really worried.
Last week, we found out she was pregnant. I was abroad for 2 months before the rape on work, and can back early to care for her. So the baby definitely isn't mine. She is 100% sure it's the rapist's.
So we had a discussion. She is a devout Catholic. We initially decided on a abortion, but after she speak to her Mother, she has decided to keep the baby, saying that isn't the baby's fault.
I flat out told her that I would not help raise a baby of a guy who raped her. She cried and begged me not to leave. I told she is the one making the choice - either she keeps the baby and I leave, or she aborts the baby and I stay. I would not let this go.
She didn't want either of those things to happen, so I told her we were done...
I feel shit. Was i wrong?
[–]esteban1337[S] 171 points172 points173 points (16 children) | Copy Link
a comment from that thread
and of course, some idiot responded at this comment with "Who hurt you??"
[–][deleted] 71 points72 points73 points (2 children) | Copy Link
Omg, these people deserve to live in their own hell. If a girl gets raped it's 100% sure she would report that to the police, even more if there's a kid involved! Public area have security cameras, he can ask for the footage but "no way i'm going to force her" (white knight style)
I mean, we always talk how it's dangerous to be alone with a woman since she can call "rape" for any reason.
That guy is a cuckhold blupilled man...hope he is happy with that.
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I would like to add however, as an outsider looking in, that lots of rapes aren't reported, mainly due to fear of retaliation.
It's a horrible issue, because false claims are made too...
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Those that are not reported usually involve a family member or some kind of relatioship (boss, coworker, friend,ex) and that's what stops them.
When raped in public they usually call the police.
[–]davisyoung73 points74 points75 points (5 children) | Copy Link
Here's another comment:
The comment received 2 platinums, a gold, and 4 silvers. People are starting to wise up.
[–]Stahlboden13 points14 points15 points (2 children) | Copy Link
A hate platinum, lol.
[–]46-61-62-53[🍰] 1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
That would be extremely idiotic.
[–]StorkSlayer1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
OOTL, what is platinum and how does it compare to gold? I've gotten golds and silvers, but never a platinum.
[–]VadeRetroLupa1 point2 points3 points (1 child) | Copy Link
Wait, is platinum a thing now? Geez...
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The Reddit must be fed!
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[–]hiroshimatruthbombs4 points5 points6 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Totally
[–]hiroshimatruthbombs14 points15 points16 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Whoever wrote this comment knows his shit.
Trust me.
[–]Ralphie73[🍰] 7 points8 points9 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Yes, this one got my ex-wife pissed! She finally yelled, "keep asking me questions!" 😂 yep, busted.
[–]independent_rooster4 points5 points6 points (0 children) | Copy Link
I saw the post and this was exactly my first though. she's protecting her lover, for sure. the cuck just dodged a huge bullet. for the wrong reason, but nonetheless
[–]Dan-the-Partial-Man2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
some NPC
language, please.
[–]Tyrotoxisms106 points107 points108 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Didn't report it, happened when you were abroad, and don't want to abort it. It's chad, not a rapist and she's looking for a betabux to raise her and chads kid. She wasn't raped, lol.
[–]justletmemakeanacc56 points57 points58 points (0 children) | Copy Link
2 months out of the country and his gf gets raped. More like she got lonely and fucked the first guy who gave her attention.
[–]CoinSwapTrader46 points47 points48 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Or maybe she was already knocked up by Chad and now blamed it on the rapist or the rapist was invented so she would not get caught for being pregnant with Chad's kid?
[–]Gala037 points38 points39 points (0 children) | Copy Link
She was raped in a park? You mean an open area that probably had someone nearby or cameras? And the guy was just a random caveman and let him sperm inside her for post identification?
She had his sperm but didn't want to get him jailed even with all possible evidences. The police would solve it quite fast and, if she was lying, they would discover too.
She couldn't go to the police because she was traumatized, couldn't abort because she was religious. That's too much of simple excuses and she doesn't want to tell more because she would have to come up with more explanation. This traumatized thing is very convenient as she can just do nothing and give him no explain leaving him blind and he can't circumvented it.
Would she risk raising a baby on her own? There's too much passivity here.
At the end, all this story she came up with is because she wants him to provide for her baby. This rape story is too much inconsistent and she doesn't want to talk about it.
If we consider she was not raped it points out that she made it up after discovering the pregnancy as her bf would know it couldn't be his and she is too religious to abort. It also says she was having unprotected sex with an affair. She prefers playing the rape card than risk being alone with a baby and with less income and comfort.
Edit: it seems he was two months away on work and it happened about a week after him leaving... It's plain cheating.
[–]Gibits30 points31 points32 points (1 child) | Copy Link
This story is fishy as hell. I am tempted to put rape is air quotes.
[–]Im_Talking14 points15 points16 points (0 children) | Copy Link
No kidding, mate. Someone was jerking off as they wrote this story.
[–]cleats4u26 points27 points28 points (2 children) | Copy Link
Any woman that doesn't report a rape is a liar and she is letting a rapist go to rape another woman (somebodies sister or mother). She is not reporting it because the cops will do a full investigation and find out she is a liar, charge her and re-victimize the victim as feminists like to say. DNA evidence does not lie, video camera's do not lie, bartenders and witnesses do not lie. But women...man do they lie.
[–]six-twosix3 points4 points5 points (1 child) | Copy Link
You're not wrong. But since women who get raped usually get raped by someone they know, such as their boss, family member, or "friend", they end up not reporting it due to fear of what would happen. This is exactly why I don't trust the GF's story, as she got raped by a total stranger... in a park? WTF would she not cry out? it's a fucking public place. Moreover, she says she can't abort the baby because of religious reasons (I'm religious as well and pro-life) but her religion doesn't stop her from giving it up for adoption... moreover, if she's going to bring religion into this, then why the fuck would she not bring the man to justice? Letting a rapist run wild when you can report him is just as bad as watching someone get raped and walking away...
All in all this society is messed up. As far as my research goes, there are two types of women rape victims.
- Women care more about how others see them, than their own well being or the well-being of others, thereby the rape goes unnoticed.
- and women who are scared of what would happen to them if the rapist was given a light sentence, or if the rapist, after serving his sentence, would search for her and kill her. (My heart goes out to these victims but seriously they need to grow some fangs)
[–]cleats4u0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
A man wants to show a woman a good time and have sex with her. If she doesn't want that...tell him fucking "no". Whether it's her boss, the president or the pool/lawn boy. Most men are not going to risk their freedom and livelihood just to fuck this girl. What happens is she wakes up in the morning and either this guy wasn't good enough (in her mind) to fuck her or he used his position (power) to fuck her. And in today's climate. She can extort his ass or have him imprisoned for about 25 years if his lawyer is lazy. And instead of it being reported as a false rape allegation/false report. They just let her ass go. And this fool is just happy he is free and probably goes MGTOW at some point in his life.
[–]some1arguewithme25 points26 points27 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Wow that thread is cancer. These people do live in clown world 🤡🌍 if they believe this shit.
[–]debanked20 points21 points22 points (2 children) | Copy Link
I much prefer the stories from the old times "It was immaculate conception"
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If the woman says she didn't have sex and the men are so whitenight'd that they believe anything women say, then it was "immaculate conception"
Since the elimination of shaming women for having children outside of wedlock, women don't even need to lie about not having sex. They just lie about whether it was her decision or not. This gets the added benefit of getting to play the victim card, and get those extra sympathies from whiteknight, the community, and maybe even a news story about it so she gets that notoriety kick like some kind of celebrity. Oh, and all the support from social media, can't forget that!
[–]independent_rooster1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
yeah I feel ya, they are more credible than this one
[–]DangZagnut17 points18 points19 points (2 children) | Copy Link
It’s funny how often women claim rape where it was not.
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[–]theanchorman059 points10 points11 points (0 children) | Copy Link
In college I remember a girl telling me how she had broken up with her boyfriend because "he beat her". I was around this girl a lot and never saw any bruising or anything to indicate she was in a violent relationship. Well now they've been married for almost 10 years and have 2 kids.
[–]ScottyHoliday15 points16 points17 points (0 children) | Copy Link
This broad was NOT raped. I wasn't there, but I'd put money on it. And because this idiot 'feel shit', he's gonna cave and finance the Child of Chad until the age of 18.
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[–]secessus0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Likely, given public acceptance of the forcible child support for kids proven by DNA to not be from the man.
[–]Porkincarnate10 points11 points12 points (0 children) | Copy Link
People on that sub will downvote you to oblivion as soon as you suggest that the hoe was cheating.
[–]user_miki9 points10 points11 points (0 children) | Copy Link
A catholic devoted girl(probably virgin too) is raped in the park by a devil rapist(no report to police, not going to hospital to be checked for rape by doctors).And the boyfriend was out of the country.
It looks like a story for grown -up children.
This fucker rapist they want to rape only catholic nuns in parks instead going on tinder.
I bet if you post a profile as a rapist on tinder you get tons of matches.Why you need to fuck a nun in the park.
[–]MichaelSkarn_FBI10 points11 points12 points (0 children) | Copy Link
She won’t go to the police to report a crime, but I bet she’s willing to get a court to hold this guy up for her financial benefit.
[–]gregg222477 points8 points9 points (0 children) | Copy Link
You might not be out of the clear yet. I can see them coming after you for child support. And I bet any money she wasn't "raped"
[–]rejac2188 points9 points10 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Seen this up close. Claims rape but begs husband with help of church not to get police involved, and keeps kid. He's now a 17 year old Tyrone...I can't imagine the husbands pain of raising him and his older white daughter with his family's belief system. Poor bastard.
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[–]independent_rooster2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
feminism is the answer. for both questions
[–]StorkSlayer0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Alternatively: "Who cucked you?"
[–]1Badshot7 points8 points9 points (1 child) | Copy Link
I noticed how 99.9% of readers believe OP's girlfriend was raped while 100% of MGTOW's know her story is bullshit and she cheated when her boyfriend was out of town.
MGTOW is not easily fooled by women.
[–]independent_rooster2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
thank god for the red pill. it's unbelievable how easy is to manipulate a simp
[–]gangbanger697 points8 points9 points (2 children) | Copy Link
I stopped reading after 2 months abroad . We all know what happened
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I stopped at "didn't report it"
[–]independent_rooster1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
that's a good place to stop
[–]PerfectNemesis5 points6 points7 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Not going to police or the hospital. Wants to keep the baby. She cheated and is protecting her lover while wanting OP to be betabux.
[–]theanchorman053 points4 points5 points (0 children) | Copy Link
OP is going to become a white knight get with her again, marry her and stupidly sign that birth certificate. The she'll divorce him and he'll be paying child support for someone else's kid.
[–]Alipheesia3 points4 points5 points (0 children) | Copy Link
You did ABSOLUTELY nothing wrong. She lied to you. She was not raped. As a woman, I assure you- Beware the tears of women because more often than not we lie as easily as we breathe. You saved yourself a deeper pain than your "guilt" could ever bring.
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“Raped”.
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Holy fucking shit... reflecting back on the blue-pilled days while looking at this stuff... you feel like Neo in that scene where he finally sees the entire world being made up of code.
[–]Fantoche_Dreemurr2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Excellent move. Always assume a woman crying rape is lying when not going to the police. She wanted her Chad baby and thought her beta would fall for her bullshit story.
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BULLSHIT! She was cheating, got knocked up accidentilly and is trying to cover her tracks. Won't go to police because she knows who it belongs to. Who in the hell gets raped in a park randomly? I call bullshit. I work law enforcement for a major metropolitan area and one of the most dangerous cities in the country. I've been there almost 4.5 years...I think i've heard of ONE rape in a park and it was a female who was jogging through it at 11pm by herself. How stupid? gtfo with that. Dude is an idiot if he sticks around. Idc how much he loves her or whatever. I would leave, and demand a paternity test upon birth.
[–]OatsGYOW0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
The amount of people pulling up RAINN's bullshit statistics in that thread...
We need real studies done on this subject. Studies like Dr. Mcdowell's, but more mainstream.
[–]oldman_stone0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
you know she is going to try to get child support form the "rapist" when things get hard.
guy should be running and never look back
[–]Alan_k3270 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Boi, she lyin'.
[–]VadeRetroLupa0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Cheater. 100%
[–]throwywayyyyee0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
The thing is, you'll be called a dick for wanting that (by white night cucks/ betas and feminazis) but you know at the end of the day there's gonna come a time when she'll laugh at you if you do raise it.
Walkrun the fuck away bro.[–]Atton_Risk0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
"Raped" yeah no police report mean's this is bullshit
[–]RoboMandrake0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Not your little monkey, not your big circus - unless you were to have chosen it to be.
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assuming she was actually raped .... she still wanted to keep the baby that's the product of her creaming and squirting on another man's penis and breaking up with her was the sensible thing to do.
[–]Rick_OShay10 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
It depends, first off, was it a genuine rape?
When I hear, "she was raped", it better be something like from the scene from the movie Irreversible. Not this "regret-rape" bullshit.
And I agree with her mom, it ain't the baby's fault. Don't murder it because of it's father. And before you start calling me names, know that my own mother was a rape-baby. Go adoption.
Also, WTF could possibly trust a woman who murders a baby, especially her own baby? I couldn't trust her with mine.