Yea you’re right. My ex asked for a separation and wanted me to leave the marital home. When I finally moved out literally the next day she was like “he left me”, then rolled into one of her MLM sales pitches. I could not believe it #mindblown
Best friend's wife asked for a divorce; said she didn't love him and wanted him out of her life. He put the divorce papers through, moved out, and is now dating again. Ex wife has been saying that "he left her for a younger woman."
Imagine investing in something for 20 years just to have it stolen from you. Fuck marriage. That shit is never worth it and this just goes to show that it can end at any moment.
I did the math on this once. The average man paying child support on just one kid loses assets over 18 years, including interest, of $330k. So a father becomes 18 years older and $330k poorer because of money siphoned out of his check by a state agency that takes their cut for collecting it. $330k per kid.
He was... too soft. I know, the blow was too hard and heavy, but didn't he still have his father, his brothers, his sons? Are they not dear enough to him? Are they less worthy to him than a cunt that left? I can't understand.
She's mad at her uncle for being too weak to handle the hypergamous nature of her aunt. That's how women think anyway. Always men are resources and a weak resource is to be despised.
As sad as this is and i can't speak for his mentality, but as a father I'd never leave my son, especially for a woman. Suicide is one of the most selfish acts one can do. So not only has their family been split up, but their father is gone forever. Killing yourself over a chick is ridiculous.
Yeah, he wasted his time writing that. If he wasn't divorced, then his money just goes to his wife most likely. That depends on state law but I believe it is pretty common that any kind of marital asset does not become part of the estate, and thus any instructions he left have no legal power.
Anything solely in his name might become part of his estate, I'm not sure what the laws are around that in most states. Half of the house might or might not become part of the estate, again depending on the law.
Insurance would probably go to the wife as well.
But, IANAL. I did have to deal with my wife's assets when she died, and in my state they basically all became my property without a need for probate, but she didn't own a whole lot in her name only.
Unfortunately a lot of jilted guys will kill themselves in this situation thinking that it's the last hand they have to play to at least punish the woman by making her feel bad for abandoning him. This is projection. Women have an evolved psychological mechanism that allows them to completely release a former lover from their conscience. Famous poet and novelist Charles Bukowski once concisely summed it by penning "Once a woman turns against you, forget it. They can love you, then something turns in them. They can watch you dying in a gutter, run over by a car, and they'll spit on you."
Please, if you are in this situation, the only people you will hurt are the innocent people you love and or yourself. It's a long hard road, but you can get past it if you keep getting support from MGTOW.
A poster on the original story did some digging and appearantly its a fake story. OP of of the original story is a female with multiple different stories.
Edit:
The comment:
I feel like this is fake. According to OP's post history, she is a single parent of a 3 year old. And recently she was seeing her ex who wanted to come around when her daughter was sleeping. But also has a husband and they've been married for 5 years. She and her husband are living with his parents but also she's seeing this new guy and something doesn't seem right.
Those poor kids. Im guessing shell leave again and relatives are going to have to take care of them. After reading all that Im guessing the relatives will be doing the raising regardless.
Its a fake story people. According to OP's post history, she is a single parent of a 3 year old. And recently she was seeing her ex who wanted to come around when her daughter was sleeping. But also has a husband and they've been married for 5 years. She and her husband are living with his parents but also she's seeing this new guy and something doesn't seem right.
As much as people here hate going through peoples post history to win an argument you have to realize that a lot of people lie on the internet. Thats why i had to drop one of my favorite subs i lurked in for years "i dont work here lady." It got overrun by asshats writing fake stories.
[–][deleted] 74 points75 points76 points (5 children) | Copy Link
The aunt/cheater will rework the story and remove the part about her cheating to gain attention and sympathy for herself.
“My husband committed suicide and left me all alone with 3 kids to raise”
I can already see the article on Yahoo news talking about what a powerful woman she is.
[–]ChiefWarBear25 points26 points27 points (2 children) | Copy Link
Yea you’re right. My ex asked for a separation and wanted me to leave the marital home. When I finally moved out literally the next day she was like “he left me”, then rolled into one of her MLM sales pitches. I could not believe it #mindblown
[–]PabloAsscrowbar9 points10 points11 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Women are never logical to begin with
[–][deleted] 6 points7 points8 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Best friend's wife asked for a divorce; said she didn't love him and wanted him out of her life. He put the divorce papers through, moved out, and is now dating again. Ex wife has been saying that "he left her for a younger woman."
[–]rigoexe4 points5 points6 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Soul diminishing realization. Don’t let this be you.
[–]MiG35ToW0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
It's all going well now until it doesn't.
[–]tommy-tellytubby33 points34 points35 points (2 children) | Copy Link
This kind of shit makes me doubt about my future relationships
[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Bro same. Talk about your daily dose of red pill... fuck
[–]Hellse2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
That's the point. :)
[–]EMThrowaway-_-30 points31 points32 points (2 children) | Copy Link
Imagine investing in something for 20 years just to have it stolen from you. Fuck marriage. That shit is never worth it and this just goes to show that it can end at any moment.
[–][deleted] 10 points11 points12 points (0 children) | Copy Link
I did the math on this once. The average man paying child support on just one kid loses assets over 18 years, including interest, of $330k. So a father becomes 18 years older and $330k poorer because of money siphoned out of his check by a state agency that takes their cut for collecting it. $330k per kid.
[–]roxon8919 points20 points21 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Sad story but it also serves as a reminder that no woman in the universe is worth going to prison over or killing your self over.
Not a single one.
[–]harrison_wheels13 points14 points15 points (0 children) | Copy Link
What the fuck.
It's heartbreaking to see a good man die like this, all because his sociopath of a wife used him.
Not just that, but I almost shared the same fate as him. If I hadn't survived, it might have been one of my family members posting the same thing.
To make matters worse, the aunt will probably get the kids/house/everything else. She doesn't deserve to be alive, let alone anything else.
[–]duong900613 points14 points15 points (3 children) | Copy Link
He was... too soft. I know, the blow was too hard and heavy, but didn't he still have his father, his brothers, his sons? Are they not dear enough to him? Are they less worthy to him than a cunt that left? I can't understand.
[–]spiesvsmercs6 points7 points8 points (0 children) | Copy Link
I agree.
This exemplifies the folly of having your life revolve around your partner. Life is more than that.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
He is like a staunch Muslim just replace Allah with pussy.
[–]orangekeyster0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
My father instilled this into my brain at a young age. Straight from his mouth. '" No bitch is ever worth it".
[–]necropaw9 points10 points11 points (0 children) | Copy Link
https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/bjt8o1/my_uncle_killed_himself_yesterday/embcidz/
Just a note. Could very well be fake.
[–]GodGaz8 points9 points10 points (0 children) | Copy Link
The story is really heartbreaking! Not sure what to say...
[–]user_miki6 points7 points8 points (0 children) | Copy Link
married 20+ years.Holly shit!
[–]MudButt20015 points6 points7 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Sad shit. Poor family.
[–]deadBeefCafe20144 points5 points6 points (1 child) | Copy Link
The aunt needs killing. Not saying it should be done, but are the popo going to charge the whole family?
[–]Light_Sheepherder3 points4 points5 points (0 children) | Copy Link
society is too pussified to do the right thing in these cases
if it were 500 years ago she would be swinging in the wind with her flayed skin in a pile next to her
at least that is what im gonna do if something like that happens to me or to a family member like that
[–]FutureSquall4 points5 points6 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Then they wonder why marriage is going out the window.
[–]JihadNinjaCowboy3 points4 points5 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Marriage is never worth it. All women are defective in some way, and they will hold you back.
They literally are a ball and chain. And that's when you can find one that won't cheat or divorce you.
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Run your relationships like a business. Never let emotions rule and always assume this could happen.
[–]TheRealF00l3 points4 points5 points (0 children) | Copy Link
According to the comments of the post this story might be fake. Not to say this doesn't happen tho
[–]Raider_Scavver2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
There should be instant death penalty for any woman who drives a man to suicide by cheating on him or other emotional torture
We can call it the One Strike Rule
[–]coldfusion7182 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Poster is pissed with uncle but not the aunt. Poster is female. Makes perfect sense now.
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points (1 child) | Copy Link
It's fake.
[–]OrangeBanana32900 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Is it? The comment "debunking" it was a link to a bunch of past stories that could possibly still be real.
I didn't see any definitive proof it was faked
[–]ChiefWarBear1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
This shit happens every fucking day.
[–]ZergSuperHighway1 point2 points3 points (1 child) | Copy Link
no where in this fucking post is this person condemning that sordid cunt...
fuck this world, honestly.
[–]Helikzhan1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
She's mad at her uncle for being too weak to handle the hypergamous nature of her aunt. That's how women think anyway. Always men are resources and a weak resource is to be despised.
[–]wsuofd1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
hope that aunt gets dumped and ends homeless...my dad killed himself...needless to day i have zero relationship w mom
[–]Gibits1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Apparently this is all fake.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points (1 child) | Copy Link
As sad as this is and i can't speak for his mentality, but as a father I'd never leave my son, especially for a woman. Suicide is one of the most selfish acts one can do. So not only has their family been split up, but their father is gone forever. Killing yourself over a chick is ridiculous.
[–]Pruny852 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
the bitch gave him fake hopes, its not ridiculous, his pain was unbearable.
[–]fmanly0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah, he wasted his time writing that. If he wasn't divorced, then his money just goes to his wife most likely. That depends on state law but I believe it is pretty common that any kind of marital asset does not become part of the estate, and thus any instructions he left have no legal power.
Anything solely in his name might become part of his estate, I'm not sure what the laws are around that in most states. Half of the house might or might not become part of the estate, again depending on the law.
Insurance would probably go to the wife as well.
But, IANAL. I did have to deal with my wife's assets when she died, and in my state they basically all became my property without a need for probate, but she didn't own a whole lot in her name only.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Unfortunately a lot of jilted guys will kill themselves in this situation thinking that it's the last hand they have to play to at least punish the woman by making her feel bad for abandoning him. This is projection. Women have an evolved psychological mechanism that allows them to completely release a former lover from their conscience. Famous poet and novelist Charles Bukowski once concisely summed it by penning "Once a woman turns against you, forget it. They can love you, then something turns in them. They can watch you dying in a gutter, run over by a car, and they'll spit on you."
Please, if you are in this situation, the only people you will hurt are the innocent people you love and or yourself. It's a long hard road, but you can get past it if you keep getting support from MGTOW.
[–]Dinomiteblast0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
A poster on the original story did some digging and appearantly its a fake story. OP of of the original story is a female with multiple different stories.
Edit:
The comment:
I feel like this is fake. According to OP's post history, she is a single parent of a 3 year old. And recently she was seeing her ex who wanted to come around when her daughter was sleeping. But also has a husband and they've been married for 5 years. She and her husband are living with his parents but also she's seeing this new guy and something doesn't seem right.
[–]LiveTheTruth3210 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Those poor kids. Im guessing shell leave again and relatives are going to have to take care of them. After reading all that Im guessing the relatives will be doing the raising regardless.
[–]jbslol0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Pretty sure this post is fake but things like this do happen.
[–]TaiYongMedical0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Never marry. Never have kids. Never play the lottery.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Its a fake story people. According to OP's post history, she is a single parent of a 3 year old. And recently she was seeing her ex who wanted to come around when her daughter was sleeping. But also has a husband and they've been married for 5 years. She and her husband are living with his parents but also she's seeing this new guy and something doesn't seem right.
As much as people here hate going through peoples post history to win an argument you have to realize that a lot of people lie on the internet. Thats why i had to drop one of my favorite subs i lurked in for years "i dont work here lady." It got overrun by asshats writing fake stories.
[–]Swagger_For_Days0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
You're supposed to do it the other way around, guy. Goddammit.