Why did you go MGTOW? Tell your story

2018-10-15T16:31:29+00:00

I’ve made a post about this before but it sums up as:

have best female friend, never anything more;
she gets single in our last year in uni while I scored a freshman girl (I was a senior in a mixed frat, that was pretty much a free pass);
best female friend starts playing mindgames;
eventually starts asking me on dates, bringing me breakfast after nights I partied too hard, gets physical;
I get in a fight with the freshman girl, best friend sends me textwall ending with: every girl should be happy to have you, including me;
so I give in, take her on alot of dates;
actually start falling for her, first crush in years;
people start assuming we’re a couple;
one night after a few shots too many, I tell her I like her (yeah I know, fuck me right). Suddenly get the reply: I’m sorry, I really want to but can’t love anyone right now;
heartbroken for the first time. I usually do the dumping;
go on a drinking binge but we stay friends;
few days later she’s flirting with me again;
we even throw our bday party together, although in hindsight that was probably her taking advantage of my frat seniority (I could reserve the frat bar for free);
she asks me to her prom, I ask her to mine;
at my prom, she ditches me the moment we arrived, still had a good time with my frat bros but it soured my last prom;
stood her up for hers, she was furious, on her prom night made out with three chicks and a gay mate;

After that I only chased skirt for sex

AdditionalEffective · 2018-10-15T15:21:41+00:00

No offense, but this sounds exactly what they'd say on an incel forum. I'm not here to get banned or stir up trouble, hopefully to learn something, but what's the difference here, or would you say there are some points of agreement?

Vaxel00 · 2018-10-15T16:15:48+00:00

My parents got divorced, my mother wanted to put my father in jail. She used me an my sister as leverage and as a weapon, she tried to gaslight me into believing that my father wanted us in the street, she became abusive and manipulative, she denied visitation so many times.

At 12 I left her house and went to live with my father, mind you she said he would never take me in and I'm basically trapped with her as no one else will put up with me.

I saw what divorce does, and from that moment I said I never wanted to get married.

As far as getting women, it was a non issue, I never looked for them they always just fell in front of me. But I always got tired pretty quickly, I always ghosted.

What always bothered me was the view of men in society.

Like I was always made to feel less of a man for not wanting to commit, and instead focus on what I like.

Why do I have to protect women?, why do I have to marry one and have a child to be considered a grown and respectable man?

I was questioning this, then a couple of years ago I found MGTOW.

HOLY SHIT! I was right!! Was what I thought.

Add a couple experiences more, that turned me into a selfish asshole, but that's just me.

Sol_Install · 2018-10-15T17:24:06+00:00

A long time ago, I was wondering what men were complaining about. And then I found out. I basically learned every manipulative tactic women can use, how women know which guys to target, why people are so scared of judging and criticizing women. The more I read, the more things made sense. I saw the double standards. Men are never allowed to be selfish but women are allowed to be. This exceeds every other double standard. I saw how men were desperate for a scapegoat to avoid blaming women. I hit this breaking point reading a Feminist article and it clicked. They are always talking about themselves. Showing no regard for what happens to men. Only taking interest when men deny them what they want. It infuriated me. I grew disgusted with not just women, but men too. Why are men defending women no matter how low they sink? Why are women allowed to cheat men out of their money with babies and no one told us? Because they only care for their women. As long as they make more babies, they'll keep fucking us over. It's why men are still blamed for everything. Who else will women throw under the bus? It shocked me to see how women will lie about being raped, beaten, etc all to avoid being shamed. They have ruined the lives of men. And men still defend them. And we see it here. Women are allowed to do whatever they want to men and we are supposed to just there and take it. We get fucked over? Shut up and die in a corner somewhere. I finally understood. My lack of relationship with my mother. Why she acted the way she did and my other interactions with women. How men just live in denial.

That's why I can call it like it is.

zlkln · 2018-10-15T22:31:08+00:00

1 Horrible relationship
Feminism
Western culture
Self-Respect

2018-10-15T15:46:07+00:00

Long story short: I never had much trouble with women, but I've seen lots of men get fucked in divorce and false accusations, so I decided to jump out of the ship before it sinks.

marcopoloman · 2018-10-15T15:57:57+00:00

Crap marriage. Crap divorce. Alone ever since. Just enjoy the peace and quiet. Sleeping around has always been easy despite being average looking. Even easier where I live now. So I work, travel and study. Enjoying my life.

2018-10-15T16:40:03+00:00

got rejected until 23, developed serious case of Oneitis, became mentally ill. Asked myself "why am I doing this shit?" and then decided never agin. Life's good. No I'm not cool as the other guys here who had pretty girlfriends or one night stands with hotties, but I'm not going to be one of those whiny kids either. The world has spoken and I decided to listen, that's all. Also, my mom cheated on my dad kicked him out of the house. So, not sure if I want to "work on myself" so I am "good enough" for someone who can literally replace as fast as they can order pizza. But your guess is as good as mine.

William_A_Bishop · 2018-10-15T16:47:59+00:00

Ive always been slightly autistic and had trouble seperating womens words from their actions, also, i hit puberty late and was a really small dude for a while who just got ignored. Worked on myself, got built by working laborious outdoor jobs, and noticed how women only seemed interested when i had status or something they wanted.

Got in a terrible relationship last year, got dumped, couldnt understand it, tried to kill myself, got some red pill rage, found this place and realised that the love i was looking for could only come from myself. So now im working on that.

2018-10-15T17:33:42+00:00

Bitches ain't shit. Unwilling to even keep up the illusion of chastity. Directly witness gynocentrism, privileges of women. Oh, and my divorce.

thottttttttttttt · 2018-10-15T22:35:49+00:00

Military redpilled me so hard, I saw most of the married people in my unit get cheated on and divorced over the course of 2 year-long deployments to Afghanistan. Females used their gender as a massive crutch all the time and aside from a few rare exceptions which were very good at their jobs most of them were worse than useless.

Then I had a oneitis for 2 years that left me so brutally that I spent a night crying myself to sleep. After that I vowed to never shed a tear over another female.

I got into cryptocurrency in 2012 and made more money than I thought I’d see in a lifetime, suddenly all those girls who ghosted me and what on me came crawling back talking about settling down. I fucked all of them and then ghosted all of them.

2018-10-15T17:44:49+00:00

I detected the manipulative, distructive nature of women at an early age and vowed to never get married.

2018-10-15T17:54:30+00:00

Because I am not retarded and I control my dick, not the other way round.

bjjefx · 2018-10-15T20:48:53+00:00

Too focused on myself and career. I've always been an introvert and focused on my goals. I never liked going out or trying to get a chick to like me, it just feels so stupid and fake. I've had relationships and they were fun but were too time consuming. I love training Jiu Jitsu and hope to become a world class competitor and win many championships. That alone takes up so much of my time. It's an everyday grind. I also went back to school and I graduate in a couple months. Boom! So much work and takes hours of studying daily but it pays off. I want to outwork all these dumb motherfuckers who complain out wage gap this and inequality. Sometimes you just got to get the fuck up, get after it and make your life better and stop making excuses.

I've been treated bad by a couple girls. Nothing crazy but just enough where it's like fuck this shit haha. My brother went through a divorce so I got to see how much it affected him. I've known friends who I train with who became very talented but quit due to a girlfriend or got married. It's crazy.

Honestly I just fucking love doing what I want. I love my life and I love how I have complete control with no one to report to. When I die I want to be so proud of myself and leave no doubt in my mind that I gave it 100% of my effort.

Get after it

Older_Miggy · 2018-10-16T00:01:57+00:00

Hard to keep this short, but:

Mid 50's, trying to only date Christian women. Got girlfriend after moving to Texas, she kept jerking me around and disappearing. Shows up again, texts me something that allows me to find out more about her. Turns out the name she gave me was an alias, she's not a widow, and still married to same guy for 30 years.

Spent next few years trying to date, sometimes women in my church. Couldn't keep anyone interested. After the third "I need to find out for sure with my boyfriend" I quit wasting time on chicks in my church (I also work there).

Shared a house with married couple my age. He shit on her repeatedly, addictions, abused her, etc. She said I was the nicest guy she'd ever met. They decide to separate, she says wants to get her shit together and be with me, since she's been in love with me since we met and i'm the nicest guy ever. Ok, sure. She was 55 with the body of an 18 yo. Two days later she informs me she's going back to California with him. Yeah he abuses me, but he's a lot of fun too was basically how she put it.

Despite all this i'm thinking about trying again. I'm watching a dating coach on YT, but my heart's not in it. On the sidebar is a MGTOW video about female shit tests. I learn what MGTOW is, realize i'm neither crazy nor alone and say fuck it, i'm done.

That's my story and i'm sticking to it.

pahike · 2018-10-16T00:25:32+00:00

Well let’s see. Every relationship I ever had the woman either cheated on me or dumped me. Growing up my mother hated me and I know this because she would tell me on a regular basis. And the topper was after 15 year marriage my wife cheated on me numerous times. I now live with my father because of child support and everything I had worked for my whole life is gone.

storresrosado · 2018-10-16T01:38:43+00:00

I took the Red Pill about a year ago when someone sent me a video from Terrance Popp and it was like the matrix. I woke up and saw the world as it really is. The manipulation that i've been through and blinded by its sickening. I'm currently collecting evidence and sitting on the side lines until i get everything i need then drop the truth bomb of divorce. she wont see it coming.

l3orn · 2018-10-16T02:36:46+00:00

I slept with enough women to know that they want your money/resources, it's only a matter of degree how much each of them shows it.

2018-10-15T15:34:00+00:00

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Title	Why did you go MGTOW? Tell your story
Author	footproblem1234
Upvotes	13
Comments	23
Date	October 15, 2018 3:19 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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