I have discussed some of these topics in previous threads before, but this post is much more thorough and should hopefully give you a different perspective on the world. It starts off with theory that may be obvious to some, but read it anyway because I will give you a different outlook on these topics. I link these concepts to what is happening to the world at large, and where we stand in regards to that.


Value and Comfort


Women want two things from men, value and comfort.

Value could be best described as your behavioural characteristics that indicate you can move up dominance hierarchies. She wants a guy that is better than her. Her value is mostly her demeanour and physical attributes. Your value is much more than that, but it must be higher than hers in order to make her attracted to you. That’s what hypergamy is.

Behavioural traits that indicate value include:

Risk taking:

This is in my opinion the strongest attraction trigger. Let’s break risk taking down from an evolutionary perspective. Homo Sapiens lived, and species like Neanderthals and Homo Erectus went extinct. Those species we evolved from died out because they didn’t explore enough. They stayed in the same areas and never bothered trying to branch out and set up new tribes elsewhere. The Homo Sapiens however spread out as much as we possibly could. We went everywhere, and so when natural disasters struck, or disease hit, our entire species wouldn’t die off because we were far reaching. Those incidences couldn’t hit all of us at once. Homo Sapiens lived because we went into the unknown and conquered it.

Imagine building a boat out of wood, staring off into the ocean, not having any idea what’s on the other side, and then just sailing out there anyway. That’s what human beings did. We took risks, and without that we wouldn’t have lived. Finding out what’s poisonous and what isn’t, how to properly kill dangerous animals, getting honey from trees etc. all required risk taking. Men who are willing to do something where they don’t know what the outcome will be are attractive. That’s why women don’t approach men, but rather they want men to approach them. Women’s way of showing interest isn’t overtly coming over to you and striking up a conversation, but rather she’ll indirectly communicate to you that’s she’s available for you to approach her, or to ask her out. She wants to see if you will take the risk. Are you a pussy, or are you willing to take a risk?

The guy who was willing to climb up the tree and get the honey from the bee hive, or try take down a dangerous animal, or complete any risk-taking event where if successful he would seriously benefit the tribe, would most certainly be the type of guy to reach the top of the dominance hierarchy. He’s venturing forth into the unknown, slaying a dragon, and bringing gold back for everyone.

Believing that you are high value.

This would be the second strongest attraction trigger in my opinion. In order to take a risk, there needs to be some belief that you can actually pull it off. Showing zero doubt in yourself when you take a risk is insanely attractive to women. It’s a signal that you’ve taken risks before and been successful. That’s why the Hot Guy Blasé frame is so attractive, you’re indirectly communicating that you think you’re the shit, and generally speaking that can only be the case if you have reference experiences where you were the shit.

This trait of believing that you are high value is strongly linked to non-neediness. Approaching a woman without expecting anything to happen takes immense pressure off of her. Women despise responsibility, that’s why women who are in charge of household finances are unhappier than women who just have to worry about cooking and cleaning. Making her responsible for your emotions is gross to her. Needing any validation from her is gross. You’re indirectly communicating that you don’t already believe that you are high value, but rather you need her validation in order to believe so. Roughly speaking, you really only seek validation from people who are above you, so this goes against her hypergamous nature. Being needy is basically saying ‘You’re better than me, please validate me’. You’re also putting responsibility on her shoulders to make you feel better. You’re treating her like your mother. When you were a young lad you would act like a ‘good boy’ and your mother would reward you for it. We’re biologically wired to not fuck our family members, and by seeking her validation you’re basically creating this mother/son frame that’s revolting.

Setting boundaries.

This behavioural trait is something that is vitally important. Your frame in any relationship should always be ‘If my girl doesn’t act right, I’ll leave and get another one’. Women adore this. They love having to act a certain way to keep you around. They don’t want to get away with treating you poorly, because that indirectly communicates to her that you can’t do better. And if you can’t do better than her, than you aren’t really better than her, and so this also goes against her hypergamous nature.

Women want to feel small, feminine, desirable, submissive etc. This makes them excited, but only certain guys can make them feel this way. Those guys are ones who have demonstrated they’re higher value than her, and are willing to be with her provided she behaves. Women love making their man happy, and serving him in some way provided he’s the right guy. This can only happen if you covertly communicate through your frame that you have options, and you’ll bounce if she doesn’t act right. You should never ever have to tell your girl how to act. She’ll figure out what type of guy you are, and then figure out what type of girl you want her to be.

She already knows that going out dressed in revealing clothing and flirting with your friends isn’t something you want her to do; she’s doing it anyway because you’re indirectly letting her. She’ll not do things like this if she knows you won’t stick around unless she acts right. It’s that simple. You should never have to lay out what you like and don’t like, she should just be able to figure it out. Women are amazing figuring this out.

We could write books on what makes a guy high value, but there’s just a good summation. I also said women want comfort, and but I don’t really need to break comfort down in as much detail. Basically, women need men in order to survive. We have the exact same DNA that we did thousands of years ago and back then a woman would die without having a man around to protect her. That’s why women get over breakups faster, men died a lot throughout history and women needed to be able to find a new man quickly. Providing for her, protecting her, helping raise offspring all make up ‘comfort’.

Let’s go back to value for a bit. There’s a clear evolutionary basis behind women are attracted to the guys who displayed the behavioural traits I outlined earlier. Women who were attracted to any random guy most likely died off since any random guy can’t keep her alive and any random guy can’t produce offspring that will be strong enough to survive and procreate themselves. Women who were attracted to men who had the behavioural characteristics that indicate they can move up dominance hierarchies survived. Those guys were far better suited to keep her alive and add value to the tribe. A key point here is that it is not being at the top of the dominance hierarchy that makes her attracted to you, it’s the behavioural traits that show potential that you can reach the top. This is why rich CEOs can have ugly old wives who treat them like garbage and drug dealers can have harems.

Women procreating with the right men is the reason why we have the abundance of resources we have today. We’re the result of over ten thousand generations of men who acted right. The potential to be fearless, risking taking pimps is in all of us, it just needs to be activated. This brings me to my next point, rites of passage.


Rites of passage


Men were meant to be given a rite of passage at the beginning of their adolescence. This is something that has popped up cross-culturally forever. If something occurs in multiple cultures all throughout history then there is a clear evolutionary benefit for it. When you're a child, you're indecisive and afraid. You use your imagination constantly. You need every decision made for you. You need to be protected and you have no idea how to do anything. And then when your adolescence hits you become extremely insecure. You can't accept yourself at that age. A rite of passage would change that.

Being sent into the woods for a month by yourself, or a pitch-black cave would turn you from a boy into a man. You would enter the rite of passage being indecisive, insecure, and afraid. This event would force you to become decisive. It would force you to become brave and take risks. And most importantly, it would make you accept yourself. You would be forced to see what you are truly capable of doing and be proud of yourself.

But unfortunately, we don't have any such rite of passages in our modern society. What do we have instead? Well we have:

-\tLife achievement simulators in the form of video games -\tSex life simulators in the form of porn -\tFriendship simulators in the form of youtubers and online forums -\tFathers not encouraging their sons to enter the unknown and conquer it -\tSociety encouraging boys to be soft and extend their adolescence for as long as possible -\tSchooling system making sure boys don't display any level of competitiveness or boisterousness -\tMen living in their heads and day dreaming 24/7

Everything in this society is geared towards making men as soft as possible. You know all that pent-up masculinity you have inside? That's your biological instincts screaming at you to do what you're meant to be doing. To have the behavioural traits that indicate you can move up dominance hierarchies. To take risks, to venture forth into the unknown, to slay the dragon and take home to gold.

Men are meant to be at the cause and not the effect. What I mean by that is that everything is meant to ping off of you rather than you pinging off of everything else. You’re meant to be the rock that waves form around rather than the waves that form around the rock.


High value verses low value


Let’s quickly discuss how women feel about the top percentage of men verses the bottom percentage of men. When Justin Bieber or Orlando Bloom go onto a talk show, the women in the audience scream and cheer. At a One Direction concert, the women will fling their panties on stage. Whereas when Jessica Alba or Kiera Knightly goes onto a talk show, the men in the audience just sit quietly and clap. At a Katy Perry concert, you certainly won’t find legions of men screaming and flinging their underwear on stage. Women worship the top percentage of men with reverence. But the corollary to that is that they view the bottom percentage of men with contempt.

They adore high value males and will happily give them whatever they want. A pleasant demeanour and any sexual act will be offered to them if they act right. They despise low value males. If they can’t extract any resources from them, then they’re of no use and they disgust them. This makes perfect evolutionary sense. It ensures that only high value males, the ones that can add value to the tribe, will propagate their genes. They need to be ruthless and mean to low value men to ensure that there’s no chance they’ll spread their genes.


Shit testing


Now let’s cover shit-testing. 99% of you here should have a thorough grasp of what shit-tests are and how to pass them, but allow me to cover them in my own words and provide a different perspective on them. In order to figure out if you’re high value, she needs to see how non-needy you are and figure out if you yourself believe that you are high value. She’s seeing if you’re at the cause and not the effect. Will you yield, or will you flip the pressure back onto her? They’ll test you on the first approach, and they’ll test you decades into a marriage. The more you fail, the more they demand.

Shit tests aren’t always just "Do you say that to every girl?" or "I don’t date bald guys", they’re much more diverse and elusive, particularly in LTRs. Common shit tests inside of a relationship include:

-\t"Why do you work out so much? I don’t care if you have a pot-belly, that will be nicer to cuddle with. I don’t mind fat guys, and you might hurt yourself at the gym" -\t"You always spend time with your friends instead of me. Why do you always go hiking with them, it’s like you’d rather be with them than me?" -\t"You always work such long hours. I barely get to see you, why don’t you work less so we can spend more time with each other" -\t"You should open up more, I want to know how you’re feeling inside. Talk about your emotions with me."

You could be this in-shape, mysterious, ambitious guy with lots of friends and cool hobbies. You’d be a catch. If you yield to these tests I listed you would become an out-of-shape, unambitious, non-mysterious loner with no hobbies. And then she would stop liking you because it’s clear that you’re no longer high value. But here’s the part you need to understand, it’s not necessarily that you became a fat lazy loner that she stopped being attracted to you, it’s because you yielded. You failed her shit tests. You communicated to her that you can’t do better than her, and that you need her validation, and that’s why you yielded to her tests, and that’s why she stopped liking you.

Now remember, the more you yield, the more she will demand. Whenever you go on youtube and you see crazy girlfriends trying to run their boyfriends over in their car, or some woman emasculating her man whilst he just sits there and takes it, you have to keep in mind that it never started out that bad. She wasn’t some perfect ideal girlfriend and then suddenly started treating him like garbage (unless she’s BPD, but ignore that case for now), it’s because the guy slowly started to yield more and more. At first, you’re doing slightly more chores than normal because she’s tired. And then you have to skip your fishing trip to go to her parents. Now you’re giving her massages every second day with no return. You replace sex with cuddling. You’re letting her live with you rent free. You’re letting her check your social media messages. You’re doing most of the chores etc.

It escalates until there’s nothing left of you. In the relationship she’ll see what you’re willing to put up with and still stay with her. She’s basically trying to lower your value to ensure your commitment. Read that again and internalise it, she’s lowering your value to ensure your commitment. Now remember, how do women treat low status males? They treat them like garbage.


Society wide shit testing


Now let’s look at these shit tests on a more macro scale. Most of you should understand that feminism is a shit-test. If you don’t understand that, then just link the shit tests I’ve outlined to what feminists say they want IRL. Feminists say they want:

-\tLess toxic masculinity. They want you to stop being so competitive and boisterous. -\tMen should be able to cry more. They want you to open up emotionally and display your weaknesses. -\tMen should do more household chores -\tMen should stop taking up positions of power and instead raise women up above them

You should see the point. Feminism is a macro level shit test. They’re trying to collectively lower men’s value. And remember, what happens to low value men? They get treated like dirt. And so when men yield to these society wide shit tests by doing what feminists say, women as a whole start looking at men as a whole less favourably. They start viewing anything that’s masculine with contempt. The patriarchy, sports, gaming etc. are all things that are traditionally made up of men. They want to infiltrate these domains and take them down. This is because men on a society wide level aren’t acting properly and so women are retaliating accordingly.

Remember, men aren’t reared properly. They’re mostly just weak boys who are extending their adolescence for as long as possible. A consequence of this is that they still hold on to the belief that being a ‘good boy’ will give them all the validation they desire, just like their mother did when they were young boys. All this weakness in men greatly increases the odds that they will yield to these society wide shit tests.


The consequences of being a low status male


From women’s perspective, the only purpose for low status males is to provide validation and resources. Since most men are viewed as low status due to the way they’re raised and the failing of society wide shit tests, women are demanding men continue to yield. They want them to metaphorically cut off their balls, hand them over to women, promise to never treat them like a sexual object, and just provide resources and validation.

This is why women feel so strongly about sexual assault and harassment. Women decide who gets to propagate their genes and who doesn’t. Generally speaking, men are ready to fuck most women if you could promise him that there won’t be any consequences. Women are not like this. Women need to meet the guy first to decide whether or not he is worthy of being intimate with her. She’s the selector, and from an evolutionary perspective she desperately needs to ensure only high value males have sex with her.

The idea of a low status male overriding her ability to choose her sexual partner and just harassing/assaulting her in some way is horrifying to her. Her DNA is screaming at her to never let these guys touch her. This is why #metoo is blowing up. In the eyes of women, the vast majority of men are low status. They’re disgusted by most men, and so they’re just reacting according to their biology. Men are physically stronger than women, so nature had to give them something to counterbalance the strength difference. That was their ability to manipulate and/or accuse men. This #metoo campaign is just women leveraging their power (manipulation/accusations) to put low status men back in their place.

Keep in mind, the majority of women who become feminists are those that are surrounded by beta males. Feminism is a high-level shit test. Small shit tests include saying you should stop going to the gym so much, and help out more with the cooking. Women only escalate to higher level shit tests once their man has failed the smaller ones. She doesn’t just leap ahead. And so generally speaking, women only reach a stage where they become feminists once they have no high value men in their life to set boundaries for them. Women without strong fathers, brothers, friends or partners will have a much higher likelihood of becoming feminists. This is the reason why the vast majority of hardcore feminists are butt-ugly, because it’s unlikely that a man will come along and provide boundaries for her. That’s why it’s important to find a woman who has a strong father who raised her properly.


Make the rivers run red


Ok, so what the hell are we meant to do with this information? Many here are under the impression that they should simply enjoy the decline. Take what they know about women, leverage it when gaming them, spin plates and keep your head down in the workplace. This seems to be the position that the majority here are taking. Well allow me to extend an olive branch to those who have lost all hope of saving western civilisation and offer some possible solutions, hopefully without being labelled a concern troll.

The fat acceptance movement never really went anywhere. There was and still is a shit ton of money being funnelled into that movement, but it still isn’t really taking off. The reason why is simply because men aren’t getting on board. In order for any movement/ideology to gain any traction it requires men to support it. The biggest reason why feminism is so mainstream is because men are supporting it. Just like the boyfriend who stops exercising, working hard at his job and hanging out with his friends because he’s convinced this is what his girlfriend wants, men are becoming feminists because they think it’s what women want. Low value males are becoming feminists as a sexual strategy, they think it will help get them laid.

The thing that would lead to the downfall of mainstream feminism is to stop low status males from supporting it. A big reason why Trump’s pussy grabbing audio blew up was because he sort of gave the world a glimpse into how women are when they’re around high status males. "They let you do" he said, "when you’re rich and famous, you can do anything". Women don’t want this sort of information getting out. They collectively jumped down his throat and lambasted him publicly as much as possible almost as a way to virtue signal to low status males that he’s evil and that it’s simply sexual assault no matter what. And of course, beta males gladly went along with this theme.

There’s a reason why the red pill is so difficult to swallow for some. We want to hold on to that fantasy that if we’re ‘good boys’ we’ll be rewarded. Since there’s rarely a transition from boy to man in this modern world due to no rites of passage, men want to hold on to their naive beliefs about women. Men who believe in true, unconditional love from women and that being overtly non-threatening and nice is the key to her heart don’t want to let go of that belief. But if all men collectively understood the true nature of women, then feminism would rot on the vine within days.

This is the goal I want to try and achieve, we need to make the rivers run red. So how do we get beta males to realise that being a non-threatening, polite dork who asks for permission every step of the way to realise that this isn’t an effective sexual strategy? Well, it’s easy. The majority of you came here because you sensed something wasn’t adding up. There was this nagging thought in the back of your skull that you were being misled. Your confusion perhaps resulted in horrible encounters and relationships with women. Eventually you took it upon yourself to try and pull order out of chaos and see the world for what it truly is, and I’m assuming that you’ve benefitted greatly from it.

There’s a common belief that hard times create strong men, strong men create good times, good times create weak men and weak men create hard times. This is certainly what is happening, but I don’t think the solution is to create hard times again and simply repeat this until the end of time. I myself certainly wasn’t put through difficult times in order to swallow the red pill, the thing that brought me here was curiosity and a healthy scepticism about what I was being told about the world.

Now the Incel crowd seem to really go out of their way to make the world see everything from their point of view. Remember those ‘black pill’ threads they post that occasionally reach the front page where they try and explain how women only like good-looking men and all that? Those threads got flooded with women and low status males trying to subvert their opinions and debunk their ideas. Eventually, those subs were removed, and every other sub related to involuntary celibacy was removed too. The idea of low status males having any place of comfort without serving women in some way is already gross to women, but couple that with them trying to disgrace and shame women? Well it’s no wonder they received the hate and eventual removal that they faced.


Being righteous


I certainly don’t want us to follow that path. I instead want the men here to have some semblance of altruism. There is nothing in this world that is more important than the truth, it is absolute, it is the logos, and we have it on our side. My main contention is that we somehow need to figure out a way to show low status males the truth lest they aid women in the erosion of western civilisation. Remember, no movement or ideology can get anywhere without men getting on board and as you should know by now, the less women are surrounded by low value men, the less likely they will join feminism.

I myself make a point to teach male friends of mine what I know. I try to get them to stop bending the knee to pussy, and instead bend the knee to the truth. I tell them to stop trying to friend-zone their way into pussy, and then demonstrate right in front of their naïve faces how to actually game a woman. It’s incredibly difficult to find male comradery nowadays, so you have to create that comradery yourself. Men are desperate for leadership and the truth. The way I get my male friends wide-eyed and listening intently is to talk about what women actually want, tell them all the things I believe to be true, how to get out of your head, how to take on some responsibility and do what you were meant to do.

If you do this right, they’ll hang off of every word. They’re starving for this sort of man to man communication. There’s a reason why Patrice O’Neal audio is still blowing up online after all these years. It’s because he discussed the truth about women, and he actually knew how to banter with men, which is something that rarely happens nowadays. Men hardly banter anymore, and they certainly don’t know shit about women. Teach them yourselves, in your real life. They lack fatherly direction, and they’ve been supressing their natural male instincts their entire lives. Help them see the truth. If we all do this, it will definitely have an impact. As Jordan Peterson once said, the divine individual is the antidote to political polarization.

This is where we start, at an individual level. The next step we need to take will have to be a more macro one. The specifics of which should be discussed here instead of simply preaching ‘enjoy the decline’ over and over. There’s no magical external force that will swoop in and save the day, it’s on us to turn this ship around. Men who have the intuition and the insight into what the truth really is should bear this burden and help change the world. Don’t watch everything descend into chaos whilst you mentally masturbate to yourself saying that you saw this coming, that isn’t the right answer to what’s happening. The right answer is to help untangle this mess, bring yourself into alignment and impart your knowledge onto the world. Stick your middle fingers up to the powers that be that want to see you crumble, smirk at them, and then annihilate them.

Tl;dr: Take risks, know your worth and help set the world on the right course.