Went to college for 1 year. NO friends. Did not get laid.

atticusfinch1973 · 2018-01-04T15:48:18+00:00

Sounds like you're the creepy older guy who decided to try to get laid by going back to college. You've given no context about how attractive you are and if you're awkward and have no interaction skills then it doesn't matter how many things you attended or hosted.

There's a lot of social anger (blocking people is just stupid) and other issues coming from just this post. Obviously you have a lot more work to do. And the fact you're complaining about it and not even providing a template for improvement makes it worse.

FirstNamesMusic · 2018-01-04T15:34:31+00:00

How many days did you lift during that time and how many times per week?

[deleted] · 2018-01-04T15:36:23+00:00

The redpill is not your personal diary,what you write offers nothing for the readers,delete it.

You are 32 years old,it is GREAT that you decided to take control of your life and get educated but don’t expect to become “friends” with men in an environment where everyone is 18-24 so easily

chauncy_popperstein · 2018-01-04T15:56:01+00:00

This is why you are not getting laid:

"she hinted off she wanted me to approach her. I didn't, because of no spark"

So is this:

"The girl was in the video game club, and I asked her for her number, because I was trying to get a hold of the vice president to go to a party they were going to. A sparked clicked between us on my birthday, and she asked me to go out with her. We drove to the mall, she said she only wanted to be friends, and I turned the car around. Blocked her on all social media."

So is this:

"no spark"

WTF is a "spark"? And why are you laser focused on it? Go out there and BE FORWARD with women. No, they will not be offended. Yes, you will be rejected. BUT you might actually get to put your penis in one of them.

You sound like you are a socially awkward loser. Stop going to events with fucking sexual goals. Just have fun in the moment and enjoy things. People will see you having fun and be more open to you. Also, video game clubs? Why the hell are you trying to make friends with other socially awkward people? That isn't going to go well and you will only wind up spending time with blue pilled sausages.

This INCEL shit gets old... It really does

amekooky · 2018-01-04T16:05:58+00:00

you dont get a participation medal in the real world. instead of shaking your fist and pouting about it i suggest you take another look at the sidebar.

chauncy_popperstein · 2018-01-04T16:26:38+00:00

Short and direct diagnosis. You have a MASSIVE chip on your shoulder. You don't want to improve, you--just like a woman--want to be able to say you weren't wrong. You aren't doing anything to improve your life, you're marking off a checklist so yo can say you did everything you were supposed to so that you can further say your life isn't your fault.

It's simple, you are a one way street. You only see people in terms of what they are or can do for you. You have no self awareness except that lurking certainty that you are in fact worthless and that's why you cut off everyone before they can cut you off.

You must learn to seduce everyone--women, friends, colleagues, Etc. Sure, cut off a person or two if they take much more than they give, but everyone has value to others--even if it's just that they know the girl you want to know, or by making you look better by standing next to you. I would say you're lost, but really you're hiding.

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TonytheNetworker · 2018-01-04T15:47:26+00:00

Thanks for sharing! Now that you reflected on what you did in 2017 what are you going to do differently this year to get laid, to have friends, to be your best self? What have you learned from all these experiences?

atomic_manatee · 2018-01-04T16:52:17+00:00

Im getting a serious fedora-tipping NiceGuy(tm) vibe. It sounds like you did all of those things with the goal of getting laid, and people picked up on that.

With that girl, theres a fine line between knowing when to walk away (abundance mentality), and being butthurt. When the girl said she just wants to be friends, you should have dismissed it, followed through with the date while flirting and showing value, then ghosted if her attitude hasn't changed. Dont burn any unnecessary bridges.

Palikan27 · 2018-01-04T17:01:00+00:00

I am 23 yo. I could not just like you, i had been in depression already for years, I changed my school after a year i stayed in home with my family, new city, new school... guess what? For a year the same shit repeated. I thought i changed, but no. After two years, now i am happy and confident and it all started with gym, don't underestimate that. After then i discovered redpill lucky and find my path with all writings in here and blogs. You can survive, don't give up.

MisterRoid · 2018-01-04T18:23:14+00:00

You make me think of a friend of mine. He was very active in school and would organize things. He's still like that, but today he's involved in politics (on the wrong side), and he has a big social circle and close to 1000 friends on Facebook. He's also into dancing, so he has interacted with the opposite sex alot - certainly more than me. Yet it seems like he has never been intimate, and from when we were teenagers I don't recall him ever showing so much as a hint of sexual interest. A very strange guy. I'm genuinely wondering if he's even human.

Title	Went to college for 1 year. NO friends. Did not get laid.
Author	Yonah001
Upvotes	0
Comments	111
Date	January 4, 2018 3:32 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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