For starters, I'm certainly tired of the narrative, that women are "mysterious" or "hard to understand".

Even here in this forum for men who are certainly much more informed regarding the true nature of the females - I see here and there the same narrative that women have a some sort of secret which governs their behavior.

But, I have to say, that the behavior and thinking process of women was never very deep or mysterious - and never will be.

I will make this bold statement, that the female gender is by far more primitive.

Sure, in this forum I certainly am preaching to the choir - But I guess that the numerous quotes from intellectuals and philosophers such as Aristotle / Plato / over Nietzsche to geniuses who led purposefully a MGTOW life like N.Tesla - have not avoided most of the avid readers in this forum.

The simple truth is, that the true nature of the women was discovered and sufficiently described since the early stages of our civilization.

And the essence of this truth is: The existence of a male human who is able to fully satisfy the needs of a female is an absolute impossibility.

It is because one single male can't incorporate all the features a woman desires in himself. Certainly there are males, who come very near to this ideal picture. But in time - the "shortcomings" of the male partner will come to light.

But also here we can name the essence of these "shortcomings" of the male nature.

A male can't normally be a partner with a most desired genetic makeup and be the perfect nest-builder aka provider.

We look to our ancestors and understand, that the average height was in fact lower. That is due to the fact, that hight is one of the most desired genetic traits. The numerous tinder-whores who cry for a 6foot+ male partner can be certainly an indicator for that

Also as mammals, human males have one of the longest penises relative to the body height. That also is due to the preference of the females. As hurtful as it may sound (for me especially, because I am one of the "unfortunate" males with an average penis) women prefer large men - large penises and a large wallet.

But wait, why is it, that so few Tyrones and Chads are so unsuccessful regarding their careers? Why is it, that the "ugly and scrawny" geek is far more successful later in life?

The short answer is: That with a genetic makeup of a Chad or Tyrone they don't have to be financially successful.

Minimalists as we are, a Chad understands very well, that he opens all the doors with his looks alone and therefore stops trying to develop himself further. And to make it perfectly clear, when it comes to survival in a civilization - where success of survival does not depend on intelligence. Evolution will stop to favor intelligence over other important traits.

https://psmag.com/environment/17-to-1-reproductive-success

After that - there comes the "scrawny" Nerd into the picture, who was during High-School so undesirable. Because Beta Males make very good Nest-builders and providers. After Chad has done his part and a female has a few descendants from a male with a desirable genetic make-up - to ensure the best survival chances for her offspring, the female turns towards the Beta Male.

The truth is actually very simple.

Males are only a resource for the Female.

- First the female uses the Chads and Tyrones as resource for their genes.

- After that the female uses the Beta Male for his resources and to ensure the best survival options for Chads and Tyrones offspring.

When a man comes to the realization, that he is only a resource, then all the fluff becomes meaningless.

There is no mystery, which hides a sweet secret regarding women.

If you look at it - do you feel anything towards your own resources any more as to only ensure, that you don't run out of it in the foreseeable future?

Thats how the women in your life look at you. Your mothers / sisters / girlfriends and wives. You are only a walking resource-dispenser and you have your turn as long as you function properly.