My last post titled "You don't know your true potential", which a lot of people loved and sent me messages about, got removed-hopefully snowflakes don't complain about this one.

Intro

As I highlighted in my last post, I grew up fat, had a super beta dad who was not involved in my life. I was addicted to junk food, video games, and weed-the trifecta that many others are also inflicted with. I binge watched TV shows and sat on Twitch.tv all day. I had no game, no money, no girls, nerdy friends, psychological issues, the same story you read on here all the time, except x10 worse. I was a stereotypical socially awkward nice guy.

Body

One of my plates I've been seeing for 2 months, who is on her period, just came over to fuck before work. Yes, this is stroking my ego, but this is also something that I would have never thought possible. I only saw this shit in TV shows and movies. Remember what you have been told your entire life? Girls are delicate little princesses that you have to buy flowers, chocolates, and $100 steak dinners for in hopes of getting a hug at the end of the night, right?? Wrong.

Men must lead at all times

This girl is "innocent", comes from a good family, good relationship with her parents, just had a family brunch before coming over, and was getting ready to go to work. I told her to come by before work and she said "hmm I'll see", which then turned into "I'll try to come by but I can only stay for 20-30 mins". I wonder why she would come over for only 20 mins, probably to play Monopoly right?

She sent nudes last night, she's on her period, told me she's horny last night, so it was a guarantee we were gonna fuck right? When she got here, we started making out and immediately I was hit with LMR. I didn't know that a girl you've already fucked and have been fucking would hit you with LMR-it was a good lesson. She said things like "we only have 15 minutes, we need a towel, I'm on my period it's gross, I don't wanna be late to work". Guys, one of the most important points that is highlighted on this forum is watch their actions, not their words. She hit me with a few excuses as to why she didn't want to have sex, but I continued to escalate. Take note of what she said, she never once said "NO" flat out did she?

The Importance of Frame

Frame is everything. Throughout our entire interaction, I maintained frame, did not once get upset or mad, simply built comfort by ensuring she would be fine and get to work on time, and that I did not mind the blood, and continued to escalate. If my emotions started to sway because she didn't wanna give up her precious pussy, do you think I would've succeeded? What a lot of guys don't understand is that she WANTS you to succeed, she WANTS to submit to you, she WANTS to fuck you-but, none of this will come without first testing you. She will test your frame to see if she can emotionally sway you or rile you up, and the goal is to remain stoic and not let her childish games get a rise out of you.

I never thought I'd be that guy.

When you analyze all of the variables that go into getting laid, it's actually a lot. You have to start a conversation with the girl, get to know the girl, build comfort, be funny, push/pull, maintain/draw her into YOUR frame, get her tingles going, have good logistics (time and place that works for both of you), then she has to be sexually excited, you have to overcome LMR, and then finally, you have sex.

All of this seems like a lot of effort and jumping through hoops on paper, but once you work on yourself and learn good game, it's not effort-it's fun. These type of shit tests, challenges, little games girls play, become fun and entertaining. When you become a man of value in many aspects of your life and understand the male/female sexual dynamics, it's like taking an exam, that you got the answers to the night before-you can't lose. You will make the girl's eyes light up because you "just get it." I never thought I'd be this guy-the guy who would effortlessly: have good logistics, escalate, overcome LMR, and get laid. I used to be a total autist when it came to anything involving a girl-picture the extremely logical type who doesn't understand what sub communication is; no understanding of flirting, game, sexual dynamics.

Actionable Advice

Advice on how to become a guy of high value and how to work on yourself:

- Lift: you don't have to go crazy in the gym, I lift heavy 3x a week (push, pull, legs) and try to walk at least 1 mile a day. When I got my testosterone checked, I was at 950+. You don't need to be in the gym 7x a week. You do need to have a consistent routine, which you enjoy. If you enjoy it, you are more likely to stick to it. I know there are routines such as 5x5 or Rippetoe's, and those would bore me because of the lack of volume, so I have my own routine.

- Nutrition: Eat healthy, because lifting alone doesn't do shit. You must combine a good lifting regimen with healthy eating habits. You can make your own meals, or eat out (places like Qdoba, where you can customize your meal are good options). I also take Vitamin D3, Zinc, and Fish Oil.

- Meditate: I know this is controversial and many people think it's weird before they begin. However, consistent meditation has been just as pivotal and added just as much value to my life as consistent lifting has.

- Money: For the younger readers here, money is important. It helps you have peace of mind, buy things you want, and helps preserve your most valuable asset-time. If you are sick, want to go out, buy a new toy, supplements, want to move out of your parent's house, anything-you need money. You need to make sure you set yourself up to get a good job, develop a skill set to start your own business, and ultimately become financially free. Click the following Amway link so you too can become your own boss! (I'm kidding), but your end goal should be to find a way to sustain a lifestyle you want, without having to report to other people. You should be working to become your own boss somehow, because nobody wants to be a corporate drone for 50 years.

- Game: the best way to learn game, is to try and fail. There are many good resources out there that aided me to get to where I am with game: RSD, NMMNG, The Book of Pook, even prank videos on YouTube (these guys have serious balls and demonstrate the fact that if you make a complete fool out of yourself, you're still alive and well. You doing stupid shit or fucking up with game won't matter in an hour). And of course, The Red Pill. While there is some misogyny and extremes on this subreddit, most of the things you will read here are true. They are simply soooooo far out of YOUR reality, that it would be painful to accept. The most important piece of advice I have, especially for those just starting out, is approach this forum with an open mind. When you hear/see the exact things that you read on this forum happen in real life, you may feel sick. Eventually, YOU will be the one making those same things happen. I am still not fully used to it, but the key is acceptance.

The Five Stages/The Final Stage

The final stage in The Red Pill is acceptance. Initially, you will be a soyboy neckbeard who will reject TRP, say they're all misogynists, pigs, that are mansplaining. You will then be pissed at girls for not being the perfect snowflakes that YOU projected onto them. Then, you will lift a couple days a week, maybe listen to an audio book chapter here and there, stay present to the moment for a minute before going on auto pilot again, you might even watch an RSD video or two, try a push-pull here and there, and you begin to see success. Eventually, the veil will be lifted and you will see reality for how it is, and man it's a fucking bitter pill to swallow; you may become jaded or depressed when the worldview you had is shattered. At this point, you have not only read about what the reality is, but you have implemented those "techniques" and succeeded.

The final stage is acceptance, where you will love girls for who they are. You will finally begin to get out of a depression, see girls for their true nature, and be okay with it, even love them for it. I was in the depression stage for a long time, and I'm still climbing out, but I see a light at the end of the tunnel.

Thanks

This was my second post on this forum-let me know if you guys liked it and I will continue to post every now and then, because TRP was instrumental in me getting to where I am today. This is my way of saying thanks and adding value to this great community.