I'm pretty new to TRP but I've been employing the mindset recently with some weird results. Long story short, I meet this girl who I've been hooking up with (haven't had sex yet) at a party. After hanging out with her for a bit, I make more of an effort to talk to other people (my other guy friends, another cute girl at the party). She comes to me after an hour and says she's been crying this past hour because she saw me talking to another girl. She says usually she's not the type to cry and she's used to guys falling head over heels for her instead of the other way around. I comfort her a bit and eventually go talk to other people again. I end up not going home with her (hate being guilt tripped) and I wake up to a barrage of texts from 2am about how I'm the worst person shes ever met, she thinks I'm ugly, etc, followed up by "I'm sorry I overreacted" in the morning. I explain the situation to one of my female friends, who says I should have been more "tactful". My question is, is this the type of effect I want to have on women or will this eventually ruin my reputation? I want to be a good dude, should I have been more tactful/comforted her more when she told me she was crying?