Hello all, I am a long time lurker who is somewhat trying to take a jab to do some self improvement. I am aware as to what trp is but I did not really want to go all the way and swallow as I was thinking that Gym habits, push pull technique, and confidence would suffice.

A little bit of info about me: on a good day, id give myself a 8 (5'7, six packs, and good career)

On to the story: theres this solid 7 chic at work that had just agreed to go out with me after 3 months of constant push pull flirting. She was displaying various types of attractions during and off work. Initially we were scheduled to hangout friday; however, due to some personal reason of mine, it had to be moved to thursday.

It is prolly worth mentioning that the week where we were supposed to go out was very hectic for her as she was working 60 hours that week from sat-weds (we were initially scheduled to go out friday which gives her a whole day to rest but, as stated I had to move it to thursday). To my surprise, when I told her that I have to resched our date to thursday, she still agreed to date saying that it would not be a problem.

The day of our date came (movie) I was all preped up and shiz and she showed up looking worse than she looks at work. I am talking about jammies-looking outfit. In my mind, i was already thinking that this bout to be lame but fuck it, i am here and at the very least I could at least enjoy the fucking movie.

But no, it got worse. Before we got seated, we both received a call that one of our coworker (both close friends of ours; lets call her HAPA) may be in some kind of emergency. Since HAPA's place was just 3 miles away from our dating place we decided to check out on her. I offered us to just carpool to HAPA's place. Upon arrival to our friend's apt. Another coworker of ours (were going to call her BO) came over as well to check up on HAPA. I know BO but we are not really that close as she works different shifts; she is, however, very close to the person I am trying to date.

Long story short, we figured out that HAPA wasnt really in some kind of danger and it was all due to misinterpretation. As we were heading out, (already to late to go back to movies) BO suggested that we (me, my date, and Her) should get a drink and suggested that I should drive. I went full beta and agreed (my biggest mistake) even if I was not on a mood and just wanted to go home.

As expected, it turned out into a shitshow where they were doing their own thing and I was drinking by myself (please learn from my mistake). The icing on the cake tho? When I went to drop off BO to HAPA's place (since she parked her car there) my date stated that she would just carpool with BO.

In the end, I went home with no pussy, less gas, and hell of a lot of wasted time.

Do not do the same mistakes that I did. Go big or go home.