Link here

Rules for posting at /r/okcupid:

"We encourage censorship spirited discourse, but we differentiate between free speech and the advocacy of group hatred. Nonconstructive derogatory content directed at any individual or group THE TRUTH WILL NOT BE TOLERATED. However, context will always never be considered by the moderators when deciding on a course of action. Please notify the moderators of offending content by reporting it or messaging us directly."

I can guarantee that women can rattle of reasons as to why they date older men and not get banned. However what I had to say was apparently derogatory. You be the judge.

(I deleted my last post and replaced it with this one which has a np link)