MGTOW for awhile, starting to fall for a girl at my work. How do I stop this madness ASAP?

DangZagnut · 2018-07-13T23:01:24+00:00

Jerk off and think straight.

ConstantChinner · 2018-07-13T22:40:20+00:00

Jesus man this sounds dangerous, especially with someone you work with.

AllUpInYoGirl · 2018-07-13T23:22:49+00:00

look, it is apparent that you haven't experienced enough of a woman to understand their nature fully (not trying to be condescending. I probably have less). But I redpill hard by reading and learning from other people's experience and wisdom. If even that is not enough for you, who are we to stop what you really want to do? good luck, wrap it up, and remember to follow some basic rules of mgtow to keep your guard up; dont cohabitate, dont sign that contract, etc. etc.

flee_market · 2018-07-13T23:57:31+00:00

Do what you need to do but don't ever let her know your full legal name, where you work, your address, or anything else that can be traced back to you. Fuck all you want, but let her into your life at your own peril.

edit: nevermind, I missed that she was a coworker. ABORT!!!!!!!!!! NEVER SHIT WHERE YOU EAT

imlurkingdontmindme · 2018-07-14T00:09:49+00:00

Stop going to her place. Getting physically close and emotionally intimate with her isn't going to help things. Keep some distance between the two of you, seriously.
Stop drinking wine with her. Or any alcohol. Your thinking process is already jeopardized, why would you cripple it even more?
Of course you can resist. It takes many, many steps for a man to be intimate with a woman. I'm thinking you're hoping she's a NAWALT.
I'm not an advocate for sabotaging friendships. Forcibly breaking things off will likely ruin your friendship with her. If you get into a relationship with her and things turn bad, it's a lesson learned. Sometimes, you need to experience consequence before you accept the teachings.

2018-07-13T22:43:52+00:00

Are you afraid that you won't be able to stay in control in the relationship? Maybe listening to Paul Elam a little bit could help you to read the signs so that you can react accordingly.

mysteriumarchive · 2018-07-14T08:43:01+00:00

So you think you might be falling in love with this woman? Okay, here's a little exercise you can try.

Picture her face. Think about how beautiful it looks. How you could just look into her eyes for forever and get lost in the fullness of her lips.

Now picture what her face would look like if another man ejaculated all over it. Because I can guarantee it's happened before. Think about how his sperm might look clinging to the arch of her eyebrow, some of it pooling at the corners of her mouth before slowly dripping down. Perhaps she darts out a cheeky tongue to taste it, before it lands on her shirt.

Now picture her having this done by 10 men. 20. 30. More. As many as you'd like.

Still you feel love? Would you still feel this way towards her if you saw her drenched in another man's ejaculate?

Somehow I doubt it very much.

And if you would, then you're a lost cause.

You're confusing infatuation for love. This girl seems attainable to you now, and so your monkey brain is kicking into overdrive. All those happy chemicals you feel when you're in love have kicked out cold turkey recently, and your body has been screaming bloody murder, where's my fucking endorphins?

Well, it's just chocolate. And you've found a new bar.

Taste the bar if you wish, but do not make the mistake of thinking there will be a golden ticket inside the wrapping. Divorce papers perhaps, but little else.

Good luck.

mysteriumarchive · 2018-07-13T22:42:56+00:00

You will lose your life and be living in your car. Stop thinking with your dick. Being fired for sexual harassment means no one will hire you. You will starve to death.

TheReidman · 2018-07-13T22:50:31+00:00

Be as blunt as possible. Say something like "We need to stop this thing between us, because I do not want to risk my job for you."

Sacrificing your job security for a temporary biochemical high isn't worth it at all, brother.

JPaulRaines · 2018-07-13T22:55:48+00:00

Get a vasectomy, and a good lawyer

MGTOW-Academy · 2018-07-14T01:03:40+00:00

You may have oneitis. Even if you don’t, look up it’s cures. It can prevent it from developing. Also makes it easier to deal with your butterflies in your chest! It’s biology vs. rational thought. You have it easy compared to me (no offense, but I’m 14. Hormones are wild I tell you!). I wish you the best of luck :)

Futureman999 · 2018-07-14T01:05:16+00:00

Nobody can say for sure, but if you've been drinking wine at her house just the two of you and nothing has happened, you might be friendzoned. Watch out at work if so. They love to punish horny guys they already decided to toss in the zone.

MrMannheim · 2018-07-14T01:15:21+00:00

You can't "cancel feelings" just like you how you can't not feel pain if someone hits you with a bat or not feel sad when someone you love dies. These are all entirely natural reactions that you have virtually no control over. Some people can control their emotions better than others either through training, experience, or certain breathing exercises (take calm, deep breaths) but you can't NOT feel.

Unless you are a sociopath. Then, you don't have to worry about such things.

My advice is to try and think calmly and rationally. Think of it like the Id, Ego, and Superego: your Id wants you to crush puss, you Ego tells you this woman is totally into you and would let you crush her puss so you should totally go crush some puss, now it's up to your Superego to make the final decision on whether you should crush that puss or not. Don't let your base animal instincts dictate your life, you are better than that! You are capable of so much more!

surfwithdaboys · 2018-07-14T03:50:00+00:00

Give in bro, mgtow comes to you and not the other way around... and don’t ask what to do, it misses the whole thing, good luck

ginD4C · 2018-07-14T15:04:37+00:00

Do what you want. You didn't red pill yourself, you blue pilled yourself emotionally investing in this woman and becoming her "Friend", and now you're too far in the deep end to think straight. Actually believing she may be the 1 in a trillion unicorn that won't do what all women have the capacity to do to a man. If you go through with this I can but only wish you the best of luck, for there is too much going against you in this situation. The second things go south she has all the power. So you got 2 roads: Leave her be, Jerk off, meditate on it, and red pill yourself for mental fortitude and protection. Or Go through with your urges and pray that she won't do something foul. Remember even if you do everything right, you have no control over her actions, choices, or misdeeds that you have to be held responsible for. Don't shit where you eat.

Title	MGTOW for awhile, starting to fall for a girl at my work. How do I stop this madness ASAP?
Author	mysteriumarchive
Upvotes	8
Comments	26
Date	July 13, 2018 10:38 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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