LTR has too many orbiters

BigDickEnergy123 · 2018-11-10T07:59:10+00:00

My ex-girlfriend was really hot and she did, as well. First off don't let it get to your head and make you insecure. Secondly, you can always make jokes about it (as long as you do it in the right way that doesn't make you seem insecure). Thirdly, accept that it's a possibility she may leave you at any time for any reason for someone else so you don't lose your sanity.

If you get a really hot girlfriend this will always be something that you'll just have to deal with. Just brush it off and don't let it affect how you act in your relationship or you'll fuck it up. (personal experience.)

FireDrillem · 2018-11-10T06:40:24+00:00

Don’t take her too seriously. Divest, demote, place your interest elsewhere. Stay busy, build attraction with other women. Put yourself first, get your needs met, make more money etc etc...

It’s likely she can see right through your dread game.

RedHoodhandles · 2018-11-10T09:35:16+00:00

Did she have so many orbiters when you entered the LTR? If yes then you why did you LTR her because you didn't vet her properly. If no then this falls back on you, having not implemented clear boundaries.

Either way, a tipp for the future, don't try to change her, rather LTR a girl whose values aline with yours.

throwitdownman · 2018-11-10T16:48:44+00:00

Been with someone with an IG presence. Honestly, it was eye opening when I peeped her phone. Especially girls who are on their phone all day, sometimes she has to scroll a couple times to reach the message you sent her this morning.

Disagree that anyone should have to put up with that shit. Her being ‘hot’, and it ‘comes with the territory’, and ‘it should not affect your frame’ is bs.

These girls are 100% smash and pass. Never LTR! They don’t want it. Your girl may go along with being in a ‘relationship’ if you’re frame/game is on point, but inherently they have a lifestyle unfit for a relationship, and overhauling another person’s lifestyle is unproductive.

CharlesChadworth · 2018-11-10T06:58:18+00:00

Find a girl which doesnt have orbiters... so many cucks come on here asking how to change this girl, how to make her do this and that.

Yes you could probably tell her you hate orbiters, or it makes your feelings hurt like a lil baby ;( yes she may stop orbiters for a while but it will come back again.

OR

Find a girl which has alot of the values you are looking for.

koedeloe · 2018-11-10T06:46:44+00:00

Can you elaborate on what kind of orbiters? Just whiteknights liking all her pictures, telling her how pretty she is? Or is she actually hanging out with these dudes claiming they are classmates/friends? Could be anything.

Implementing dread game is always good in a LTR. So yes, it's the right thing to do.

Nicolas0631 · 2018-11-10T14:14:49+00:00

What do you mean by that ?

Having competition is ok. And the better woman your girlfriend, the more men will want to be with her and take her from you. That's logical.

For me her having lot of male friends is not a problem neither and you should have no problem with that.

What would be problematic is if your girl friend is trying to seduce them, behaving with them as she is still a prise to be taken and not being clear she is with you and not interrested by more than friendship with them.

YesVeryKewl · 2018-11-10T14:00:12+00:00

All hot girls have orbiters.

Bedtimeshine · 2018-11-10T13:00:49+00:00

You shouldn’t implement anything... you should actually make her a plate and actually meet other girls

Title	LTR has too many orbiters
Author	veritasredd
Upvotes	5
Comments	16
Date	November 10, 2018 6:12 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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