From a young age whenever I get close to a girl and have a crush, that girl seems to fill my mind 24/7. Even some past relationships fill my mind. There’s a girl I’ve known for a while. She’s a 10 in my book based on looks and smarts. Very socially aware. I had a 1 hour private conversation with her at a social gathering. Conversation was so fluid I’ve never had such a connection. we both have our own issues and a relationship won’t work out logically but Goddamn is she amazing. Very good at shit tests too which I respond well too cuz I give them back. I’m digressing now but simply saying “don’t think of her” to myself makes it work. Any tips?