How to handle LTR becoming a "Model"

HurricaneHugues · 2018-11-25T17:33:30+00:00

Your LTR is over. Start seeing other girls. I don't think you need us to spell out why for you. You should know better. Tell her that "things got serious too fast between us" and you need some time to think. That's your out of the relationship, and your in to plate her. Don't commit to a chick like that. It's a dead end. Don't waste your time with commitment on this chick.

RedSkeller · 2018-11-25T18:05:43+00:00

She’s done, might as well get ready for her to drop how she fell in a photographer or male model dick accidentally or some rich fat white guy who owns a yacht. Basically, she wants to chase a pipe dream and she’s no longer interested in being on your team even if it’s a better plan long term. She wants to chase the tingles so leave her cage door open so she can leave and return as she pleases, see other birds in the meantime.

horologist2018 · 2018-11-25T16:27:46+00:00

So I consider myself to be knowledgeable in how to handle LTRs, shit-tests, .etc but lately I've been scratching my head.

That makes sense, considering what you're about to say.

LTR of 10 months has suddenly increased her SMV. She always had the " model look"

Hawt!

and recently decided to get into modeling on Instagram.

Ugh.

She now has big photographers messaging her constantly for free photo-shoots, she has been getting free paid trips to tropical paradises to work with companies, runway shows, photographers, brands .etc.

That all sounds great for her, but we all know where this is heading.

This is basically a girls dream come true.

Especially if she has nothing to offer the world except for her looks.

Loads of likes and validation on social media plus free stuff.

Instead of getting her validation through more respectable means.

She actually wants to do it as a "career" now as well-

Until she hits her wall, and is left up shit's creek.

doesn't have a full time job currently so wants to pursue this.

Why would she have a job? No actual value outside of her looks, apparently.

Since this started happening she's become less mentally stable, more emotional and much more volatile mood.

Sorry to hear that man. Doesn't sound like a fun situation.

She also has stopped wanting to have as much sex

This would be my personal deal breaker. But that's just me. We all have our standards.

so I started to limit my time seeing her and work on myself.

As you should.

I already have higher SMV myself, lift all the time, and have been limiting my time seeing her, dread game, .etc in order to get her to realize I'm still steering the ship.

Good on you, brother.

But I've come very close to calling it in and ghosting her and moving on.

As you probably should.

However, the only real difference here is that she suddenly became a model and has way more attention and "SMV". Besides that it's a decent relationship. How would you guys handle this? Your LTR becoming a model?

Personally, I would likely just break it off. When she asks why I'd just shrug it off "I don't know... 'Cause" and leave it at that.

I'm sure the relationship is/was pretty good, and obviously you only gave negatives in your post, so we don't have the full picture. But from the sounds of it, this girl isn't going anywhere in life, or at least no where good. Guaranteed, she's going to branch swing her way up the ladder.

Best to Alpha Widow her, in my opinion.

Johnnadawearsglasses · 2018-11-25T16:13:04+00:00

Treat her the same way you always have. Expect her to treat you the same. No matter what her career, you should still have the same expectations of the interactions you have with a LTR. If she isn’t able to fulfill them, you move on. Just be aware of your own behavior as well. There’s no reason to be jealous or lack understanding for her issues. Most of the time I have seen couples like this break up, it’s the insecurities of the other person that create the real issues. Good luck

YasserZe · 2018-11-25T18:07:43+00:00

Check out Vasily guide on the main sub for dating models , you need to have a rock solide frame

mrpthrowa · 2018-11-25T18:07:58+00:00

enjoy your turn while it lasts. Let go when it won't.

. But I've come very close to calling it in and ghosting her and moving on.

You don't believe you have higher SMV than her, why should she? reality is subjective.

bucSlayer · 2018-11-25T19:18:33+00:00

It doesn't matter what her SMV is, just be a man, lead, fuck her like a slut, treat her like a child, be a rock.

friendandadvisor · 2018-11-25T21:22:47+00:00

Plan on her leaving you very soon. Get as many pics of you two together as you can and splash them all over IG, FB, Twitter, etc...as possible, for preselection.

Also, take her to spots where there are a lot of hot chicks, so they can see that you are a playa.

She was never yours, it's just your turn. Start on getting other chicks, now.

ETA: Don't next her; fuck her till she nexts you. Free pussy, and all...

atticusfinch1973 · 2018-11-25T21:44:10+00:00

"Free" photo shoots and trips are from guys trying to get into her pants.

Throw in some booze and drugs and bye bye LTR. Cut your losses now.

Classy_Amir · 2018-11-25T22:52:59+00:00

10 months is good. It's over now. Next

Bruchibre · 2018-11-26T03:34:19+00:00

Well for now you are also living the dream because you are dating a model. So enjoy it while it lasts. Hold frame and be ready to disengage if she becomes too bitchy or so.

c4toyourdoornobeef · 2018-11-25T16:02:18+00:00

could go either way really, watch for red flags and changes in behaviour

Title	How to handle LTR becoming a "Model"
Author	4yearstmj
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Comments	15
Date	November 25, 2018 3:55 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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