My friend Sarah (She's awesome) invited me to her house party that her and her three female housemates were having.

  1. I go. I bring 6 friends (guys and girls).

  2. The party is awesome. Around 45 people. People are getting drunk.

  3. I see a girl talking to a group. I make eye contact with her. I then tilt my head back and gesture for her to join me in the kitchen. We do a shot there. We go to the bathroom and hook up. Then I take her back to my place and we have sex.

  4. Total time between initiating eye contact and getting her in the Uber to mine must have been 15 minutes tops. It was a great move. You all would have been proud. Important to note she was not drunk. She had told me she had maybe 3 drinks tops.

  5. I make sure she doesn't spend the night. I get her an Uber home after we finish the deed. The next day she tries to add me on FB. Sends me a bunch of messages. Tries to add me on Linkedin. Etc. I ignore messages.

  6. After 3 days I send her a text telling her, thanks for the great night, but I'm not interested in pursuing anything further.

  7. THATS ALL. And literally all of that one night stand's friends hate me now. All of my friend's Sarah's roommates hate me. They refuse to have me over to their house. They refuse to invite me to their house parties anymore. Even though Sarah still is a good friend of mine.

It's ridiculous. It's a party. People hook up at parties. How do I avoid girls hating me after I bang one of their friends? It's extremely limiting to my social circles. I mean, I could never do it. And just go to parties. But what, I'm never allowed to one night stand a girl unless like I want to LTR them?