How have women messed with you mentally?

PeggedByOwlette · 2017-10-18T14:29:52+00:00

Oh where to begin :-D

one My Mother telling me as a child how she tried to have me aborted twice because she did not want me, but on both occasions the Doctors refused her permission.

two My Sister stealing my Birthday presents. When I caught her with it at school she smiled at me, snapped it in half, and distributed it among her friends.

three Dated a girl who claimed she was pregnant, and spent a week tormenting me with changing her mind. Eg., 9am she would say she is keeping it, 10am she would say she changed her mind and is having an abortion, 11am she would change her mind again and say she is keeping it, 12pm she would change her mind again and talk about having an abortion.

She finally said she is getting an abortion and I should pay for it as i am responsible. So, I handed her 250 quid for the abortion to take place on a friday. The following monday she turned up to work with an engagement ring that cost 250 and told me she was now engaged to her ex. My friends told me there was no pregancy, no abortion, she just wanted the money to give to her ex to make him propose.

four I married a Polish girl (I'm English). A week after marrying my mother asked me if we'll divorce if my wife moves back to Poland.

five I was sexually assaulted at work by a gay man. The Police came out to interview me, some of which my mother overheard. When they left she demanded to know all the details of what he did. I was upset and told her i don't wanna talk about it, she shouted and ordered me to give her all the sordid details.

six My mother and father both sexually abused me as a child. When I told my mother i was going to the Police she told me they was both thinking of reporting me to the Police for making them abuse me, and that they were victims of abuse and I was the abuser even though I was 8 years old at the time and terrified of them both.

I could go on, but what's the point. I'm MGTOW now, i've found peace, i'm getting therapy. I'm happy :-D

a17c81a3 · 2017-10-18T11:30:51+00:00

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rebellionmarch · 2017-10-18T11:50:11+00:00

Up until I was 12 my mother had me convinced I had a twin sister who died at birth, one day I asked my dad what happened exactly, he choked on his drink slammed the brakes, pull a Uey and we were home like lightning, he flew off the handle yelling at her and throwing shit, bitch had the fear of god put into her that day. Lucky I was already a tough cookie and it hadn't had much effect on me, so learning it was a lie was a shrug it off sorta deal. But that was hands down the most manipulative emotional shit a woman has ever attempted in my life.

Zealomon · 2017-10-18T14:31:57+00:00

My ex in high school gave me the silent treatment almost every week for the months and months we were together. She’d text “...” and not respond for days on end. Wouldn’t even look at me at school. Then one day she’d be back to normal spontaneously. It was only when I started doing it to her that she started talking about taking a break/breaking up. I really didn’t know much back then, but I’d have slapped myself awake and simply pumped and dumped.

Months of my life, wasted.

PeggedByOwlette · 2017-10-18T16:51:24+00:00

My wife has FORCED me to survive without female validation. She put in all the work required to make me mgtow. Our marriage is slowly dieing.

I don't need hers, or any woman's validation anymore.

She did me a huge favor.

Gasslight, blame shift, rage events, forcing me on the defensive, black and white thinking, name calling, and just complaining all the time about how much she hates everything. It's our life and she always hates everything. My wife is attractive, not fat at all, has a good job and so do I. We have a house, 2 cars, 2 healthy boys, everything she ever wanted. If I had a time machine and went back in time 8 years ago and asked her to describe her perfect life, she would describe our life. She's still not happy.

As soon as we had our first son I quit drinking (5 years sober in march), lost 40 pounds and completely changed. She got worse.

I started keeping a journal and realized I have been deleting bad memories.

Toxic shit.

I have been overdosing on blue pills for way to long.

Flintblood · 2017-10-18T11:32:32+00:00

Yes but I may have to get back to this with another method.

There are some women with friends of mine on Facebook who seem to be sticking it out with their men but I still suspect that’s because these men relentlessly work their asses off and SJW white knight for them. I work and will do things all things around the house including yard, repair and cooking and cleaning but I was never pleased with feeling like I had to play the “feelz” game and constantly shore up my ex’s (all) feelings or treat them like a child. I would tell them I love them, defend them when necessary from known physical and emotional threats, and show my devotion by working and being faithful but the money was never enough (low mid income doesn’t work when they want to go out several nights a week, spend and go shopping) and apparently I never did enough to brigade for their feelz.

The__Tren__Train · 2017-10-18T16:45:16+00:00

nothing too serious.. just female friends treating me like a beta orbiter even though I wasn't interested in fucking them.

was weird tbh.

the_Milkweed · 2017-10-18T17:31:53+00:00

I'll steal the format from another user

1: mother would always tell me how shitty my father was, he's a pig, a cheat, a liar, a bad man and much more. This alone isn't healthy, but whenever I did something stupid (as kids do) she would remind me of how much I was like my father. With one sentence she gathered all the previous negative comments into one, to shame me and remind me that I am the child of the man that left her.

2: step mother shared a lot of information with me about my father's infidelity and used me as a spy

3: girl I dated in high school said she'd fuck my dad

4: girl in college who was supposed to be my best friend, raped me while I as black out drunk. I had enough functionality to continually say no, but guys can't be raped right?

5: girl I thought I loved gave me the clap twice. Not even going to bother with details because you get the picture. She also went out in dates and fucked my high school enemies in spite of me.

6: several women who I had either turned down or had a ons with, later went to say I raped them. Affected my life drastically. Later they would try to be friends and I made sure to get written proof that I had never raped them. I later posted it on social media, so at least for now I am known to be innocent.

I could keep going....

mehimboredd · 2017-10-18T15:30:04+00:00

My ex during high school whom which she gaslighted the hell out of me and made me end my friendship with my high school buddies. Admitted she cheated on me and being a blue pilled cuck at the time forgave her, but at that moment I woke up, something changed within me. She tried to end my friendship with my friends that I knew from middle school and I didn't want any of that.

Fast forward 2 years she broke up with me. overall toxic relationship claimed that men are all potential rapist and that I always abused her and she felt used typical emotional crap. Now I am in great shape, my grades are way up and about to enter my career, overall I'm much better than I was before. Her on the other hand? Eh, we met up she is still the same but with a different paint job (hair color). I admit I still harbor feelings towards her but I'm not going back to that bag of crazy again. What I learned is that women will never truly love you, from my time dating others.

0signal0 · 2017-10-18T16:34:20+00:00

Not really dating-related, but one episode that really left me sour is one internship I lost because of being at the wrong place (female-dominated workplace in a cucked country) at the wrong time (not being able to catch my supervisor's back when she needed it).

I had been working at some social institution for a while, and my supervisor asked me to be at her office to cover for her as she needed to go to the doctor with her child. I missed a train and didn't make it there on time. I got fired because of that and some fat coworker also accussed me of eating too much pizza that same day at lunch (back then I was a 6 ft, 190 lbs powerlifter). Finding internships back then was difficult, and due to my being fired I had to extend my studies one whole semester.

Lesson: never work at a place where it's all women, and one gay male.

cleats4u · 2017-10-18T19:48:25+00:00

Moved out of my girlfriends after we broke up. On leaving she asks for a check for half the utilities and cable. She then takes the check and throes it in the garbage and says forget about it you don't owe me anything. I thought how nice of her. Two weeks later I see her at work (she's in another dept). She says you know on second thought I really need that utility money. I say no problem and write her another check. When my statement came...yep, she cashed both checks!

2017-10-18T15:23:40+00:00

It would take a whole day to write, quite literally. One day im gonna tell you all my story. It will be really long and you would be amazed by the amount of the betacuck I was. You'd think maybe after THAT happens I will learn. Nope.

I did learn however.

ransay3277 · 2017-10-18T13:43:10+00:00

By speaking to me.

LuvMeTendieLuvMeTrue · 2017-10-18T13:52:54+00:00

Just my mom.

a17c81a3 · 2017-10-18T20:03:49+00:00

These are just the most interesting ones. I could probably continue all night.

Ex-wife became violent then later denied it ever happened to my face. Never experienced such a bald faced lie before or since I think.
Ex-wife threatened to murder herself and my kids.
Ex-wife would not let me see my family for a year because of drama she stirred up herself.
Ex-wife early in our relationship out of nowhere told me she didn't love me then later blamed me for getting angry.

2017-10-18T16:02:19+00:00

While I rejected my fair share as well I had it pretty easy. Just general relentlessly cold rejection for a decade or so. Nothing too out the ordinary but still doesn't override my rejection count to the count I've been rejected.

2017-10-18T18:26:48+00:00

Not really a huge thing but how they just disappear. Last time I went out with a girl she lived 45 minutes away in a small town (country girls are NAWALTS, right??) and I had no idea where she lived since we would meet in the slightly larger town between where I lived and where she lived. Went out 3 times, last time was a walking date in a park which was actually nice.

I went home, sent her a message the following day. No response. Tried again a few days later, nothing. Said fuck it, never tried again, deleted and blocked her on facebook and learned that AWALT. If she sent a message saying "I'm not interested" that would be fine. But they don't have the honor or decency to do that. What was I going to do, drive 45 minutes and try and find her in this hick town? Have been completely MGTOW and monk ever since.

Infoisaweapon · 2017-10-18T19:01:55+00:00

Got one playing with my head right now. She pulled the classic hot alnd heavy into ice queen routine. So I've decided I'm going to ignore her for a month and see what happens.

scriptkiddie1337 · 2017-10-18T19:25:39+00:00

Cheated constantly and still denied it with irrefutable evidence on her facebook and phone. Jokes on her, now she's a single mum living in a shit area, one child taken away from her but she's kept the other one. I'm in a good LTR with my own little one

sec-1x · 2017-10-18T18:55:24+00:00

I tend to permanently avoid people the instant I get the impression they're insincere, manipulative, etc.

swagmeister982 · 2017-10-18T17:26:14+00:00

Pretty much everything but rape. I personally really dislike the "Oh if you furfill our disgusting social rules - (which some are nonsensical from the start like handshakes) - and we find you attractive you're so mysterious! But if you're ugly and ignore social rules you're a creep.

CynicalSoup · 2017-10-18T17:52:48+00:00

betternotsettle · 2017-10-18T21:35:37+00:00

be me: This morning, snuggling with GF... Wake up...no GF for three years... the one from the dream, I broke up with her in 2008. This is more like how I have messed with myself; I've had hundreds of dreams like this.

 Feels bad man...until I realize that the meaning of the dream is that I love myself.

tdh792 · 2017-10-19T02:54:39+00:00

I dumped my gf after 3 years. She wanted me back. I got a new gf after a couple of months. Old gf invited me over and had weed. We smoked up and she wanted to be eaten out.

Smelled really bad. I was about to barf. Figured she had period. Next week she says she's pregnant. 50/50 I'm the father. Her friend calls me and asks what will I do. I said nothing because I didn't come and she had period. RAGE!!!!

A girl at work and I got into a fight. She complained to HR that I was violent. Never was. HR put a note in my file. Had to switch jobs to clear it.

2017-10-19T19:02:36+00:00

Lots and lots of gaslighting, cheating, whoring and insanity.

Title	How have women messed with you mentally?
Author	just8lmao
Upvotes	40
Comments	35
Date	October 18, 2017 10:56 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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