The only kinds of girls I can get are the ones I don’t want.

gaylortang · 2018-06-07T04:36:15+00:00

The greatest gift and curse of man is that you can only attract the girls you want once you truly don't want them anymore.

DangZagnut · 2018-06-07T03:17:24+00:00

No life stuck living with a shit sandwich is worth living.

aanarchist · 2018-06-07T03:22:23+00:00

Men should be putting more energy into building bonds with their fellow man. Our society cuts us off from each other like people consider you gay if you're close with your Bros or give them a hug or talk about anything real. Society severed the bonds between men that's how bullshit like feminism worked imo. Men wouldn't have gone looking to women for validation and approval if they didn't already get it from their fellow brothers who treated each other as equals and with respect rather than competing with each other over goddamn scraps, ruthlessly so. If the men refused to fight each other hypergamy would disappear, as the men would refuse to compete for her and thus she had no power to wield. I have a policy with my friends if you want the bitch take her I don't care nor will I waste my friendship on some pussy that's gonna get stale and branch over, I can get mine without resorting to competing over this particular one. I've never met a man who thought he made the right decision choosing a woman over loyalty to his friends. This is how men truly win in the end is reforging the bonds they used to have, spartan style.

HeartlessSam · 2018-06-07T03:27:56+00:00

lol dont be fooled... theres a price to pay for being with a women whos really hot... they tend to be more moody... more vindictive... more controlling...more insecure...but if ur fixated on the look... dont be fooled... most women look better with clothes and make up on...

ConstantChinner · 2018-06-07T03:14:31+00:00

Good for my friend. No woman is worth the hassle or risk they impose on you. Best to go your own way and avoid them!

meltboro · 2018-06-07T05:41:43+00:00

Hi welcome to earth as a male in 2018, if youre not 6'2+ with long hair your dating pool consists only of sharks

MattFoley79 · 2018-06-07T04:50:13+00:00

Well, you're in IT, you're a smart guy, and you're a minority. I'd focus on building wealth. If you really need to get it out of your system, save some money and hire a top-shelf hooker or take a trip to Thailand. Plenty of guys on here can give you tips, I'm sure.

Teufelhunden139 · 2018-06-07T10:39:16+00:00

What amazes me is that I see these giant low IQ ham planets wobbling around with many children all the time. Who the f*** would actually shoot a load in that? Absolutely disgusting.

Original_Username7 · 2018-06-07T05:26:38+00:00

Hey bro, sorry to hear about the shitty selection. White dude here. I'd love to ask (if the downvote brigade won't freak out about it) how much do you think race plays into it? How do you think it would play out for you if you were a different race? Do you think there's intersections between hypergamy and racism?

mulistik · 2018-06-07T05:04:28+00:00

Im in same boat as you bruh 21 black dude here, the black girls we find unattractive will do all the things we want girls we find attractive to do (basically show alittle attraction). But when it comes to the other girls that are attractive to us...

2018-06-07T09:13:16+00:00

yep same here. The Girls I wanted never wanted me. They always wanted someone who is a bit better. Bigger wallet, bigger muscles. Whatever, always one cut above me. The chase got Long, unrewarding and the expectations became insane. The girls who wanted me were ugly, poor and or straight up crazy. Even if you managed to finally get the Girl you wanted, it would be a hassle to Keep her around and heart breaking if she left. Just Forget about it. The age of Dating is over. Going your own way is much cheaper and more relaxed. A lot of People say "well, you have to lower your expectations" but you know who say that? Either women who friend Zone you or guys who want to elimniate the competition. Fuck em all

Endlesscube23 · 2018-06-07T12:55:33+00:00

There are no decent black girls. They're all feminist cunts. Just like the rest of American women. The ones who appear to be decent are just chameleons.

DontBanMeImBlack · 2018-06-07T04:48:13+00:00

Save yourself the trouble and get a doll bro. I just finished my associates in IT and got my first job in the industry. The quality of females available only improved slightly (basically less single moms), they're still fat, still barely above average and still have little to no personality.

miapy · 2018-06-07T05:42:21+00:00

My best mate is black and he used to pull hot white females because they thought he had a hugeee dong.

Awalt.

2018-06-07T05:56:47+00:00

I feel you OP, it’s ugly in the dating game these days. I really feel that social media like snap and dating sites are a big part of the problem.

Average to ugly bitches can hop online and have many guys to choose from.

jonathino001 · 2018-06-07T06:31:34+00:00

You know some people on here would argue that the decent girls you're talking about don't exist.

Freenorthman · 2018-06-07T09:43:14+00:00

Then be happy. You have no clue how bad it is, to be wanted by girls and you don't want to be with them.

gdank · 2018-06-07T11:16:10+00:00

Im a 6 foot blue eyes blonde that only attracts white trash. I've diversified twice, mexi-cunt and ghetto gold digger. Awalt

bongohai · 2018-06-07T13:01:50+00:00

decent girls

where?

You have not realized it yet but you are not without hope as a MGTOW, you are without worry, you are free.

You are settling for the MGTOW lifestyle because you think the women that are within your reach is trash so MGTOW is the better option? Let me tell you, all women are trash and personally I wouldn't trade this lifestyle for any girl or even multiple girls, no matter how "good" they may appear.

2018-06-07T13:11:54+00:00

There are a LOT of men out there in your position. It's really the first towards going MGTOW. You know you're a decent guy, so why can;t you attract a higher caliber of woman, right? Only when you look into it, you find out there is no higher caliber. Yes, some look better on the outside than others, but inside, it's all the same cesspool.

As a wise old man once told me: No matter how beautiful she may look, just remember that some guy, somewhere, is sick and tired of putting up with her crap.

motorscuz · 2018-06-07T10:19:35+00:00

Wait for your 30's and 40's, don't settle now. When you've accrued assets and worth, then you become more desirable to women. Especially those women who have worked for 5-10 years and realize how crappy working can be (and are looking for a man who earns big so THEY can get the life THEY deserve). Downside, most have ridden the carousel for awhile. Upside, you get to pump and dump all you want because your value has gone way up. Be very careful when you pump and dump, don't let them baby trap you.

KamExploreWorld · 2018-06-07T10:21:29+00:00

Not worth it dude. I'm in. Graduate school, motorcycle, car, own place by myself, job and more and I still have ruts unless i put in allot of work. At 27 a 18-20year old who's a 8/10 with no transportation or car is not worth the headache due to social media while 10years ago I could run through a dorm of them easily. Times have changed and a 4/10 Or 4face+8body=6/10 chick will only want a top tier pretty boy who's in a frat and popular instead of taking what she can get because she has 2k plus ig followers constantly chasing.

Still it's not worth the headache. I smashed ugly and very pretty girls. The really pretty ones who you can bag without going broke eventually let you know how damaged they are and may surprise you with their high mileage or will take you for a financial Roller coaster where the money spent isn't worth the 15mins to 2hrs of sex. You can easily go on a vacation and have hookups in a 2nd to 3rd world country in the Caribbean or south America and save mpney, have allot of fun and bang more attractive chics. My Spanish isn't great but I do well for myself overseas and in America just settle for good puss on a chic with a nice body meh face. I rather spend 30-50 For a very good time on a mediocre face instead of 150+ on a pretty face lazy chic.

I'm 5'9 197 muscular ex football player/track/wrestler who isn't far n occasionally hit the gym and can rep 215. Ugly chics should not be picky based off my resume but they are. Times have changed and blame social media because i banged chicschic before Twitter and tinder rose and pre 2011 it was definitely easy to be low key and bag allot of chics, now hell no.

Mr_Lonesome · 2018-06-07T11:08:02+00:00

Isn't this the same situation with women? They want men they can't while rejecting the ones the could have.

Tiredofnormies · 2018-06-07T11:22:08+00:00

If you're a decent looking black guy, in IT, have a good job, a car, your own place, and don't look or act like a thug... The white women will come knocking, just maybe not for a relationship.

fmanly · 2018-06-07T12:00:05+00:00

Women are hypergamous. They wouldn't be with you if they didn't think they were getting more out of it than you are.

Marriage used to work because it was more of a necessity.

Think about the plumbing in your house. It costs money to maintain. It smells and is messy. You just don't want to have to think about it or deal with it. Yet we put up with it, because we don't have much of a choice in the matter.

In the past you had to wash clothes by hand and get fresh meat daily and cook over an open fire, and there were no thermostats for keeping your house warm while you were outside. If you lost your job there was no unemployment - just your family. A wife was a necessity - she took care of the house while you worked, and she doubled the size of your family which was your support network. That was mutual - your family became part of her family's support network too. That meant that when your wife got out of line her father would be on her side (he was probably your partner in business one way or another, and later her brothers). Family was life - not a luxury.

I'm not saying that system was always fair, or even better. However, it is the reason that marriage was stable. Nobody could afford to have some THOT running around creating drama. When that happened EVERYBODY came down hard on it.

Today relationships are a luxury, and to many a form of entertainment. They are frivolous things. To the extent they are practical it is mainly due to women trying to extract resources from men.

If you're the PUA-type and are looking for frivolous entertainment by all means do so. However, if you're serious about relationships, well, you probably will be disappointed. Even if it works in the short-term people change over time - yourself included. If you don't have everybody around you shaming you into conformity, then your heart might just wander.

MichaelMcDudikoff · 2018-06-07T07:41:19+00:00

I was in the same situation, so I can understand you very well. Here applies the iron 80/20 rule. If you're not in the top 20% of men, you have to deal with the bottom 20% of women. And trust me, better live a life on your own conditions, than with a fat, nagging whale on your side. Learn to live your life alone in your 20s, enjoy your hobbies, get your finance in check and when you reach your 30s you will live on easy mode. It gets even better.

MajIssuesCaptObvious · 2018-06-07T11:05:39+00:00

It may be a blessing in disguise. I dated attractive black women when I first graduated college. Over the years, I spent a lot of money taking them out too. Young, college educated, professional men want to start living the life they feel they've earned: nice car, nice pad, fancy restaurants, attractive women, etc. Pretty, young women take advantage of that. I remember a black female friend saying she liked dating young professionals because they always took her to nice restaurants and spent money on her. Otherwise she wouldn't give them the time of day. In fact, one of my own dates said that she liked it when I called because I always took her to nice places. Sex with her wasn't even worth it.

I fucked a lot, but when I look back at all the progress I could have made instead of taking these broads out, I wanna kick myself. I'd literally have no mortgage by now; I've done the math. Focus on bettering yourself and your lifestyle, man. The young women you want are being used by the super pretty boys who want to spend money on them. These guys won't commit to them, and those girls will go crazy chasing after them for a relationship: they'll beg, risk losing their jobs, ignore their studies, and make fools of themselves. I've seen it all. As we've all gotten older, I've seen them "lower" their standards, after they're used up. Then they're going to try to use their old charm tactics to get to the guys they rejected. Keep focusing on you, though. Fuck them.

Tiredofnormies · 2018-06-07T11:15:27+00:00

I feel you man the same goes for me pretty much(Indian women are the biggest sluts). The worst part media has blaming you guys for the problems they created. The govt. is enabling this stupid lifestyle of black women so they have no incentive to behave while all the women do is blame you young black men for not settling with them or dating outside of their race and so on but just imagine why would you as an IT major good looking man date someone who has multiple kids is not that good looking without makeup and might have genital herpes. it just makes no sense.

NewLife_2017 · 2018-06-07T15:27:41+00:00

White IT guy here... I feel that many successful IT people have a mindset/personalities that typically do not attract females; even the non "geeky" ones still have similarities.. Often Introverted..

On a flip side, the low quality women like to Monkey branch, and will literally chase after any and everyone. I believe they know that IT pays decent, but typically not so well you can go out and bang hookers every night. They also know that they tend to by shy and easily manipulated

I wish I developed the MGTOW mindset earlier in life.

2018-06-07T15:32:56+00:00

Had a "aha" the moment I read you're in IT. There is your problem. IT carries a horrible stigma around it and it is THE dirtiest job in the world. That's right. You think plumbers have it bad. No. IT is THE DIRTIEST FIELD IN THE WORLD.

However, count your blessings because you will be invincible to girls and stack money and worst case get them at cost and they will always be the same age :)

Source: I been in IT for over a decade and now at a more or less comfy IT gig. 6+ hours a day on the net hanging here or watching youtube and doing cool projects and stuff. People suck but that's everywhere.

rlh445 · 2018-06-07T16:15:47+00:00

As a minority myself I have had to come to grips with the fact that even though I keep myself together (gym rat, handsome but 5’8”) I’ll never be able to bag a woman actually on my smv level.

I woke up from a lifelong blue pill coma to a completely new personality and now that I actually respect myself and learned about female nature the ‘better’ women don’t care. Lol.

No matter how hard I work on myself these whores will never see me never appreciate me never EVER love me. I have been struggling with my pride on this subject. I want nothing more than to let go but sometimes it feels cowardly to do so.

I want nothing to do with these disloyal broads out here but I’ve never had a decent looking woman and now I have the keys and found out they’re to a completely different place in a completely different neighborhood.

It’s a tough thing to walk away when ya shouldn’t have to. I hope every day for acceptance. I just want to go my own way without regret.

Sorry for venting in your vent thread op

Futureman999 · 2018-06-07T20:05:19+00:00

This is what marriage is for. To try to get you locked into a legal contract on your earnings with a very young chick who literally has just that one asset, while you're still young and horny enough to fall for it.

Hiromant · 2018-06-08T07:30:04+00:00

Basic red pill theory: she wants what she can't have. If you're attractive and don't show interest that means you are above her, therefore tingles. Any time you meet a girl you like, immediately walk away from her in your mind, do not let her take over your thoughts. That gives you power and keeps you in control. Even a oneitis can get needy and start chasing you once you really get over her.

2018-06-07T05:34:18+00:00

Awalt

v_maet · 2018-06-07T05:42:19+00:00

Its probably because they see you as a Tyronne and not a viable partner.

This is because of all the actual Tyronne's they get with who pump and dump them.

You are better off doing your own thing and setting yourself up for success to show yourself and others you are not a Tyronne

embadasser · 2018-06-07T06:41:27+00:00

Something to cheer you up ;) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z4TOR7856d4&t=78

curiousssherlock · 2018-06-07T08:06:59+00:00

Wrong sub.

labiteatibit · 2018-06-07T08:23:59+00:00

Just rent a girlfriend(escort) that you want. You decide which one you want and not the other way around.

Enjoyer_Of_Memes · 2018-06-07T12:17:00+00:00

Once you graduate college money becomes superior to looks and you'll be doing just fine.

Really you shouldn't look for a woman to latch onto your cash since you'll have options, but do what makes you happy man.

geocitiesuser · 2018-06-07T14:16:11+00:00

This is dating in general though. Only a very small percentage of guys have access to the girls who aren't complete train wrecks. It's alcoholics, fatties, and women with 20 kids for the rest of us. I opted out. I started dating again for a bit last year, was quickly reminded how not worth it was, and I'm right back to mgtow.

2018-06-07T14:20:59+00:00

You chose.......

......

Wisely.

ArmondDillo · 2018-06-07T14:39:20+00:00

I feel like this guy isn't MGTOW, but rather looking to justify going for other races. Just be honest about it.

Ghustgan · 2018-06-07T14:43:54+00:00

I don't know what you mean by decent OP but it's a completely irrelevant concept in this discussion. If she's good looking, if she can get guys to do her and also do stuff for her, she's going to squeeze that for as long as she can.

1v1crown · 2018-06-07T15:12:50+00:00

Are you black?

sh0t · 2018-06-07T15:57:48+00:00

I’m not even a bad looking guy,

It's looks bro. Don't fight the truth /r/BlackPillScience

Hirudin · 2018-06-07T17:54:23+00:00

Well that's basically the foundation of MGTOW. The idea behind AWALT isn't necessarily that there are literally no women worth being a relationship, but rather that for the risks involved any women available to you personally isn't worth it.

With the state of marriage the way it is, the risks are astronomical, and therefore the only women worth committing to are the ones who are astronomically worthy of it. That vanishingly small fraction of women who make that cut however aren't realistically going to be interested in you though.

MRT922 · 2018-06-07T06:26:53+00:00

You're still young.

Mchooofer · 2018-06-07T06:19:20+00:00

Maybe if black thugs started taking responsibility for their baby girls instead of neglecting them and causing them to grow up as bastards. Maybe then you wouldn't have this problem. No disrespect. But it kinda is obvious that you need to break the chain at some point.

Title	The only kinds of girls I can get are the ones I don’t want.
Author	bl4cksh33p0716
Upvotes	117
Comments	122
Date	June 7, 2018 3:12 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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