DAE only feel lonely at night?

joewhyit · 2017-10-14T17:16:24+00:00

Yep. I used to get that way a lot. It faded over time.

Sol_Install · 2017-10-14T17:40:25+00:00

I've said this before. Sandman spoke about this. If you're having doubts, go out their and have an LTR. When you see what it said here confirmed with your experiences, like me, you'll see that the cost heavily outweighs the benefits.

DagonNaxos · 2017-10-14T18:54:42+00:00

I've missed it from time to time. But then I remember being cheated on, abused, ignored and rejected and the sadness turms to rage and I feel normal again.

Now, I perfer sleeping alone. I get to sleep diagonally, pile the pillows how I like, open the windows in the winter, watch whatever I want on TV and game until 4am if I want to.

When I'm out on the road, I don't have to check in or be bothered with stupid trinkets.

ififcanIhaveacoatplz · 2017-10-14T19:06:11+00:00

just jack off dude

2017-10-14T18:05:25+00:00

I absolutely hate sharing the bed with anyone. I need the whole king bed to myself. But i understand that some people might feel lonely at night time. It has happened to me a few times but not generally. I usually fall asleep listening to an audiobook.

DangZagnut · 2017-10-14T17:19:58+00:00

How can you be lonely on cake day, you should be out celebrating.

Didn't you receive your waifu body pillow?

arkyleslyfox · 2017-10-14T17:21:13+00:00

I was the same, now I hate sharing my bed, having to be quiet when I can't sleep, now I just stick some YouTube on vape away, enjoy the Peace, its bliss

MatthewsIsGod · 2017-10-14T17:54:39+00:00

Nighttime is when I appreciate not having a woman the most. I absolutely can't stand sleeping in the same room or bed as someone else, I need 100% darkness and silence to sleep.

The only real rules of MGTOW is don't marry and don't cohabitate. I don't recommend it but if you really want a woman to sleep over you can do so, just don't allow her to overstay her welcome. Or get an in-call escort to do an all-night GFE but that will cost you

The_Bird_King · 2017-10-14T18:30:09+00:00

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fupaflaps55 · 2017-10-15T00:17:54+00:00

Yeah its real peaceful slumber with your eyes pasted to the bedroom ceiling wondering how her girls night out went and its two hours pass bar closing. Fuck that noise .

throwawaypsycho80 · 2017-10-14T17:14:50+00:00

I'd say it is pretty common.

Here we call nightfall "blues time"

Paladin2903 · 2017-10-14T19:31:41+00:00

Believe me, this feeling fades in time. I absolutely love having the entire bed to myself, and not having someone rattle off a seemingly endless game of “20 stupid fucking questions” with me, every single God damn night.

“Did you do this?” “Did you take care of this?” “Remember, we’re going to my mother’s tomorrow....did you remember?” “Did you bring the garbage out?” Oh fuck, just kill me already, lady. It’s agonizing. 🙄🔫

Life is not like the movies — where the guy and girl just lovingly snuggle into bed, every night, whisper sweet nothings, and fall asleep in each other’s arms, as if they’re on a pillow made of clouds, up in the stars.

The_Bird_King · 2017-10-14T20:49:24+00:00

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steelfil666 · 2017-10-14T20:50:46+00:00

Could be the lack of oxytocin. Once a month you could buy a full body massage to relief your need for human touch.

IWontBowDown · 2017-10-14T21:33:52+00:00

When you feel lonely thinking how you wish you could have an awesome, wonderful woman as a companion cuddling with you at night just remember they don't exist. That's right: awesome, wonderful women don't exist. Stop getting sad that your favorite childhood fairy tale creature isnt real. You were sold that lie as a child and now it's time to accept it isn't even real so there is nothing to be sad about.

DThrillard · 2017-10-14T17:36:31+00:00

When I was still tripping over a couple ex's, it was the opposite. I'd feel shitty during the day. Reminisce about shopping trips and dates and "if she was here, we'd be doing X because it's Tuesday afternoon", gay shit like that.

I've always felt better at night. When the sun goes down, my mood improves tenfold. Same with the seasons; I couldn't be more excited that the days are getting shorter and the temperature is dropping. Fall is life.

toysjoe · 2017-10-14T18:39:18+00:00

Have a wank and sleep like a baby.

ChrisBrownApologist · 2017-10-14T19:09:07+00:00

You will be lonelier in a relationship.

Strella10m · 2017-10-14T20:03:45+00:00

no i have a home cinema projector on my bedroom wall playing no end of amazing awe inspiring stuff, and then a 60inch screen in the corner for browsing the net etc.

tis awesome

gravelheart · 2017-10-14T20:12:59+00:00

Not at all.

I don't get lonely, anymore.

frankmarlowe · 2017-10-14T21:14:14+00:00

No it's fairly common. And there is something to be said about the feel of safety and comfort that sleeping next to someone can provide. Just, the price one must pay for that feeling is just not worth the rest of the bullshit that comes with.

ColdStoryBro · 2017-10-15T02:49:50+00:00

It is normal to want company. Our male sex drive wants us to be providers for women. We get a rush/ motivation when others depend on us. You feel as if you need to be with someone to care and protect them because your biology makes you feel that way. But understand that these are just chemicals, and a small sample of your overall feeling of well being. It may help that you might take up some group activity and find your sense of duty from some other responsibilities.

Fazee_CS · 2017-10-15T03:53:22+00:00

Get up really early? Then you will be tired at night and think ugh I just want to lay down and sleep! But anyway cuddling is not that nice because you will get overheated, or she will be breathing on you and it's annoying you will be uncomfortable etc

cashmoney_x · 2017-10-15T04:12:41+00:00

The cuddling stops after a few months of living together anyways. All you get after that is arguments about blankets, snoring, "when are you coming to bed, you said that last night and now it's 12:30- video games are for kids anyways, come to bed!" etc. Oh, and of course going to bed mad and sexually frustrated because you argued all night and haven't fucked in three weeks.

Enjoy your peace and quiet, trust me.

Wraith29 · 2017-10-14T18:29:59+00:00

I don't get like that much really. I fall asleep fast from a) working out regularly and b) working long hours at work/home.

Bed time is all business.

2017-10-15T09:37:23+00:00

Lay there and just breathe in the darkness...go into the void.

Setari · 2017-10-15T16:30:18+00:00

This is the only thing I'd buy a sex doll for. Probably wouldn't even use it for sex, just cuddling. Too eh... unwieldy to have sex with IMO lol

2017-10-16T08:23:17+00:00

Ask yourself if it's worth it, let me answer for you - it's not, now close your eyes and count sheep or the money you havent spent on pussy

csehszlovakze · 2017-10-14T18:24:06+00:00

not me, I can't sleep with anyone else being in the same room as me

CynicalSoup · 2017-10-14T21:25:52+00:00

Naebany · 2017-10-14T18:39:59+00:00

Yeah thats why Im not going MGTOW...

Title	DAE only feel lonely at night?
Author	The_Bird_King
Upvotes	16
Comments	46
Date	October 14, 2017 5:12 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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