Applying it all: Social life, women, and the red pill lifestyle.

2016-01-30T10:19:44+00:00

That's why it's important not to treat this forum like religious dogma. Because although it's an awesome place with great info, don't get flipped into a full 180 for the sake of it. Thinking that banging chicks, getting huge, and staying single forever will somehow make you "arrive" at happiness where you can just kick it and chill is the same fantasy other people get sold about marriage and fancy cars. The reason guys hit 30 and realize this life wasnt all its cracked up to be is because it isnt congruent with who they are, so do the inner work and be it! Being who you are is never lonely or exhausting or stressful because its just who you are!

NeoreactionSafe · 2016-01-30T14:01:18+00:00

The Red Pill is about reversing the consciousness suppression of the Blue Pill.

Saying that it implies a specific lifestyle is wrong.

Spinning plates is not recommended as the highest ideal, but as a temporary place where a transforming beta can overcome his tendencies towards Oneitis.

The highest ideal (in my view) is still the LTR.

We still go by the motto:

Men love women, women love children, children love puppies.

...as long as you fit your life into that model it's Red Pill.

thiasus · 2016-01-30T12:05:28+00:00

The vast majority of us are past are school days where things like social interactions and social life in general are just thrown at us.

Actually do we have data on this, like a subreddit survey? reddit's demographic is heavily skewed towards college-aged or slightly older males, it would be surprising if a sub this large had significantly older membership.

TheJedi_Lied · 2016-01-30T14:54:13+00:00

I think the lesson learned should be "...apply it to live your ideal life." Some married guys come here and use what they learn to live their ideal married life, some check out altogether, and others keep dating/plating armed with the truth. In all of those situations what they read on here was used well.

We all want to be that cool 30 year old guy that is at nice parties...

I don't want to be a cool, buff, rich mid-thirties guy partying with hot girls in my mansion. That seems like an unfulfilling end-game. I realize that I'm an outlier for that, but it's simply not me.

Is it truly going to make your married friends jealous...?

Although it might make my married friends jealous, envy is not my goal or how I evaluate the success of my lifestyle. To each their own though; everyone's journey is unique. I agree that hard work is part of life as a man, but the knowledge and tools acquired here are used differently by different men and that diversity is supporting evidence for TRP's efficacy.

Edit: formatting

SureImShore · 2016-01-30T15:17:13+00:00

This is just obvious information and Blue Pill whining. I have no idea what you are trying to say with this post.

This belongs on askTRP or PurplePillDebate.

Title	Applying it all: Social life, women, and the red pill lifestyle.
Author	ManoshD
Upvotes	9
Comments	10
Date	January 30, 2016 8:26 AM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/43dbes/applying_it_all_social_life_women_and_the_red/
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