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“If you can’t handle me at my worst, you don’t deserve me at my best”

Kar98kSnipe

May 9, 2018
158 upvotes
/r/MGTOW

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Title “If you can’t handle me at my worst, you don’t deserve me at my best”
Author

Kar98kSnipe

Upvotes 158
Comments 42
Date May 9, 2018 8:46 PM UTC
(8 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/MGTOW
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/8i9bwx/if_you_cant_handle_me_at_my_worst_you_dont/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/MGTOW/if-you-cant-handle-me-at-my-worst-you-dont-deserve.559553
https://theredarchive.com/post/559553
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Comments

[–][deleted] 67 points68 points69 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

That's the biggest red alert to ever appear on Tinder profiles.

I won't handle you at your worst. I have better things to do.

Fuck off Cluster B AWALT!

[–]DreadPirateRosco11 points12 points13 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Won't handle you at your best either. Still bad and not worth the risk.

[–][deleted] 35 points36 points37 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

If she's prepared to be at her worst when she's with you then she doesn't deserve your best.

[–]mma135790 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Nice, I might use that sometime

[–]Griever1140 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

If she's prepared to be at her worst when she's with you then she doesn't deserve your best.

QFT

[–]vampirewarlock66623 points24 points25 points 8 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

This quote, translated: “I am going to be the type who will throw hysterical fits, like a child. If you aren’t prepared to bend to my whims (and if you do I will lose interest in you and dump you for someone else) you don’t deserve me when I figure you deserve a taste of my pussy which I give a lot easier to bad boys. You have to work for it.”

[–]sir_wankalot_here5 points6 points7 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

MGTOW translations always seem to have a beta twist.

throw hysterical fits, like a child

Children throw hysterical fits because firm boundaries where not set. The way you deal with these fits is to set the boundary and then ignore them.

I give a lot easier to bad boys

That is because bad boys do not feel obligated to meet societies expectations.

You have to work for it.

A test to find out if you are a simp or not.

[–]magx010 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

That is because bad boys do not feel obligated to meet societies expectations.

That's overly simplistic. It's about way more than that: Looks, confidence, domination over other men, understanding of/mastery of social dynamics, physical prowess, etc.

[–]GrandYam_HomeRun12 points13 points14 points 8 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Is anyone aware this saying was authored by some crazy, talentless, drug addicted airhead who killed herself? Oh sorry, I didn't mean talentless, she can remember the words to "happy birthday".

[+][deleted] 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

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[–]DreadPirateRosco2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It was the most compassionate thing she could do for mankind.

[–]magx010 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

She was murdered. Look into it- Eddie Bravo

[–][deleted] 10 points11 points12 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Age: 29. Her "best" already passed about 9 years ago.

[–]curiouslyengaged4 points5 points6 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

more like 11 ;)

[–]Docbear647 points8 points9 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Someone on this sub made a great point , Marilyn Monroe ( originator of that quote) ended up killing herself...so really even she couldn't handle herself at her worst.

It's a dumb sentiment though to be honest, you " handle" an animal or an inanimate object what the quote actually should say is :

"If you can't suffer me at my worst then you don't deserve to suffer me at my best"

[–]Steeltrap6667 points8 points9 points 8 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Man...women think they need to be "handled." Like they're animals, completely incapable of self control. Or they are capable, they just don't have to use it because they're women. Either way, a tremendously stupid statement and a HUGE red flag.

[–]sir_wankalot_here4 points5 points6 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I used to tutor in first year university/college physics, maths etc.

they just don't have to use it because they're women

Women tried to get tutors to do thier homework. I would tell them straight out go start working on the problem, come back to me when you get stuck. There would be the standard flirting, the accusations I am mean and in some cases threats to report me to the school. I will tell them straight out, my duties are to tutor not do your homework.

Amazingly enough, after an hour or so of BS, they where all of a sudden capable of solving the problems.

a HUGE red flag.

Dumb statements like this make me cringe. The only difference between this woman and the other ones is she is more honest.

[–]magx010 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

That's not what handled means. At all.

[–]Steeltrap666-1 points0 points1 point 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

When a bear or lion is being displayed in front of people, what do they call the guys who are tasked with keeping the animal in line?

Handlers.

[–]PeonSupreme6 points7 points8 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Fucking learn to handle yourself at your worst. I’m not your therapist.

[–]VinnieMatch693 points4 points5 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

loosely translated - "I'm a bitch!"

[–]disayle324 points5 points6 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Flip the script: if you reject me when I'm the lieutenant, you don't deserve me when I make Admiral.

[–]sir_wankalot_here3 points4 points5 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Tyrone only has her at her best when she starts acting up, he sends her back to her simp husband or one of her emotional tampon beta orbiters.

One can learn alot from Tyrone.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

😄😄😭

[+][deleted] 8 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link

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[–]hirayama_ronin1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

A shit test about shit testing.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

NEW YEAR NEW ME

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The only guy willing to put up with her worst is the beta she settles for, and he'll never get "her best". That honor goes to "Chad".

[–]AmazingAsianGuy7761 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Handling them even at their best is irritating tbh. Handling my dog is much much easier.

[–]Baldrbaldr0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Marilyn may have seemed an airhead, sometimes, but Norma was pretty smart.

[–]Baldrbaldr0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Disturbed she was, not stupid.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

She's right, no one deserves to be exposed to that. Cruel and unusual punishment.

[–]supermario2180 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Whenever I see this I am reminded of some quote I saw that said "You are a grown ass woman, handle your own shit"

[–]FortyandLifeToGo0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

This is a statement only geared towards cucks.

She's always going to be at her best for Chad/Tyrone.

[–]rationalthought3140 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

no, it's just that Chad/Tyrone ditch her as soon as her bad side appears

[–]labiteatibit0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

And what is your best exactly?

[–]ThePigmanAgain0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

“If you can’t handle me at my worst, you don’t deserve me at my best.”

-- O.J Simpson

[–]rationalthought3140 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

embracing a bipolar disorder as quirky is not a good way to deal with mental illness.

I like to turn this around on them for those of us who were shy in our youth and they chose to ignore us, use us, or mock us at our worse certainly don't deserve us at our best when they are hitting the wall and we living well.

[–]iwanttheblanketback0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

That sentence just means she's a bitch most of the time. The good times are fleeting and infrequent.

[–]mma135790 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The fact that everyone has heard this phrase many times by women in their life proves AWALT

[–]tw-1234a0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

What you think is her worst is actually her best. Worse is coming....

[–]mgtowthrowww0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

"If you can't handle me crashing this plane into a mountain, then you don't deserve a safe landing".

"If you can't handle me giving you food poisoning, then you don't deserve me making you a steak".

"If you can't handle me accidentally leaving a pair of tweezers inside you, then you don't deserve a heart transplant".

"If you can't handle me at 'Oops. I left the drain plug out after your oil change and your engine seized 4 miles down the road' then you don't deserve me rebuilding your transmission".

"If you can't handle me biting the shit out of you for no reason then you don't deserve meow meow I'm a fucking cat".

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