Why does women and beta males always try to shame single men for being single?

Sol_Install · 2018-04-23T08:26:50+00:00

I've talked about my ex on here numerous times and how she finally confirmed me staying MGTOW. I've been told by women how I am "taking it out on women" by staying single as if I am harming them. To that I said two things: "Look around. See these women? They're not virgins. Someone is fucking them. None of them are crying about they can't find a man or get laid because I'm not doing it." "If I was living out of my car, you wouldn't be saying that." I was never told I was wrong.

Women when they see you can be useful, don't want you being single. This is why when you have "no money", you don't exist. Recently, the actor who played Black Panther, got flack for dating a lighter skinned woman. Tom Leykis was told about how he should share these trips he goes on with his friends. The woman meant to share it with a woman. Women just want free shit from men. That's it. Otherwise, there wouldn't be an issue.

Beta Males or rather men in general, see themselves as only having value if they have a woman with them. They believe in "soul mates" and the whole deal. They think that being single is a punishment and for losers. They think that virgins are failures at life and such. That's why both men and women talk about you ending up lonely.

JianRohnsonKennedy · 2018-04-23T11:33:57+00:00

A single man is a slave without an owner in their eyes.

Erudite_Delirium · 2018-04-23T07:44:52+00:00

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MyLittlePonyofDoom · 2018-04-23T08:36:54+00:00

To validate their own life choices.

SilverGryphon · 2018-04-23T10:42:57+00:00

They want your resources.

2018-04-23T08:04:10+00:00

Cause we're going against the grain.

penor_in_anor_2 · 2018-04-23T11:36:49+00:00

Part of it is envy and fear of missing out. Seeing you do something that the herd isn't doing makes some people in the herd upset, because they envy you or feel like they are missing out.

We all experience envy, but your 'friends' that are shaming you are too envious IMHO...they aren't worth keeping around as friends since they don't really want what is best for you.

AncapGhxst · 2018-04-23T13:54:03+00:00

Seriously, I'm not Chad.

It's a historic occasion. The first ever non-Chad guy to post here.

xDrayken · 2018-04-23T12:13:48+00:00

Because they start feeling jealousy and regret their decisions, so they go into full defense mode and start shaming you for choosing to be single instead, to try and feel better about themselves. My parents split up four times during my childhood and yet they still have the balls to talk shit about how I refuse to commit to a relationship.

mng20 · 2018-04-23T14:05:58+00:00

Women shame men for being single because you aren't playing their game. The more men don't buy into their shit, the more likely other men will follow suit. The guys that shame men for being single have a twisted idea of masculinity that necessitates being a husband/father. That idea most likely came from a woman.

Supersonic_staples · 2018-04-23T16:20:15+00:00

Keep in mind they’re victims of the Disney fantasy too. They haven’t unplugged yet, they truly believe in the BP fantasy.

So in their eyes, you really are missing out.

One other mistake they make is in their heads, commitment, marriage, etc...is purely about the romance, completely separate from the horrific legal liabilities it imposes, and with that (flawed) viewpoint, again not being in a relationship makes no sense.

2018-04-23T09:38:13+00:00

Because they are spending their time and money for themselves.

Dank_Meems · 2018-04-23T14:08:19+00:00

Emasculating a man is the most effective way to get him to do shit.

PMmeYOURrareCONTENT · 2018-04-23T11:46:43+00:00

I think it's a weird bullshitting technique that is not really aimed at you actually getting a girlfriend, but rather implanting in your brain the implied axiom that you can easily get a girlfriend, thus making you question your own sanity if you can't find one (assuming you were looking for one) and blaming yourself instead of understanding that you really don't stand that much of a chance.

Unless you are a "chad" I guess, then they actually wanna shame you for not making yourself available to stupid bitches.

Personally, I don't encounter this issue at all. I guess I'm too low on the social ladder to even be considered for such shaming technqiues

roonaann · 2018-04-23T12:48:18+00:00

Some dudes are desperately lonely and emotionally empty. I was always basically fine spending time with myself or friends and never get bored with different projects and interests. When I was younger, I did have a basic drive to have female companionship, but most of that faded over the years.

But dumb people are self-centered and they think whatever works for them must work for everyone else.

SirNecroKnight · 2018-04-23T12:34:01+00:00

Because they're threatened by our freedom that they themselves have attempted to oppress all these years down the road. I hate using the word, but "jealousy" is a strong emotion and these humanoid-creatures know that we're breaking their rules they established. We're taking control of our lives while they bitch and cry like Hillary supporters. I mean, what do you expect?

Also, all of these shaming tactics they use are useless if you just don't give a damn in the first place. I get to save money, they get to lose it on someone else. I win, they lose. They know it, fuck them.

VinnieMatch69 · 2018-04-23T15:30:40+00:00

Because single men are probably happy and if there's one thing a woman can't tolerate, it's a happy, satisfied man.

2018-04-23T11:44:21+00:00

Misery loves company because I used to be a pseudo what you explain. Now mgtow runs deep. In fact mgtow IS oxygen to me.

2018-04-23T13:22:53+00:00

Because pussy is a drug

2018-04-23T18:24:02+00:00

They want to take advantage of us, that's why.

schemadrome · 2018-04-23T11:16:31+00:00

The best excuse a read here a few days ago: "I want to be a Gigolo and need a rich girlfriend."

2018-04-23T12:06:14+00:00

They need to steal from you to finance their lives

mma13579 · 2018-04-23T13:09:49+00:00

Just reply ti them "Why do you care about my sex/love life?"

Teflon0819 · 2018-04-23T13:13:36+00:00

Beta males because of their confusion and frustration that some men don't gauge their self-worth through women's eyes, and women because it will fuck with their ability to be parasites if men refusing to be hosts becomes a socially acceptable thing.

Kaitoku_Not_Found · 2018-04-23T14:18:56+00:00

One of my friends got a break up from his girlfriend recently after her cheating on him, yet continues to find another girlfriend.

Some people just never learn.

2018-04-23T13:37:31+00:00

don't worry about it man they want you to be a beta orbiter. I honestly would be fine being a beta orbiter even with not much sex if women would be loyal, not cheat or do shit tests but since they do and im no chad, i go my own way.

2018-04-23T14:45:51+00:00

The illusion only works if everyone participates.

CodenamePotato · 2018-04-23T13:43:44+00:00

Aren't betas single? 🤔🤔🤔🤔

Blogginginvicecity · 2018-04-23T14:50:07+00:00

They gotta live with all the 'cognitive dissonance' that comes with spending so much of their life either in or perusing a relationship

ransay3277 · 2018-04-23T15:18:16+00:00

They are envious of you. Nobody kicks a dead dog.

2018-04-23T19:39:01+00:00

Because women are slave masters and hate all men who are not enalaved to a woman and they train their slaves to do the same.

Global_MGTOW · 2018-04-23T19:48:51+00:00

It's all they have

2018-04-23T19:58:10+00:00

Because misery loves company.

2018-04-23T20:33:19+00:00

crabs in a bucket. Nothing will kill your career and hobbies faster than a woman.

If a beta male can get you hitched, they you are reduced competition on the job front and no competition ( in theory) for pussy.

2018-04-23T23:02:23+00:00

Why women don't want you to be single is obvious.

Men are just conditioned that way man. You can probably come up with a more complex explanation like "they're jealous of your freedom and misery wants company", this has some truth to it, but all the same they just legitimately believe pursuing women is the meaning of life.

Title	Why does women and beta males always try to shame single men for being single?
Author	khongor14
Upvotes	192
Comments	60
Date	April 23, 2018 7:42 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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