Summary - Disney movies and other forms of childhood fictional media portray an inaccurate and intentionally obtuse illustration of prince charming's future. It is no coincidence that blank pages follow after the "happily-ever-after" departure we're left with at the end of these films. Do not fall for this and be the guy who sacrifices everything for the princess locked away in the tower.

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Despite your sex, upbringing, financial circumstance, parents, or any other context you've been raised within, you more than likely have had Disney shoved down your throat. While not all Disney films follow the same philosophy, they generally imitate a framework for a hard-to-believe prince/princess relationship dynamic with an intentionally vague future left open to interpretation. As we're young, media's influence, like most other forms of information, is much greater than as adults. It's not simply entertainment for us as children, but an immersive experience where we often discover the foundation of our belief structure.

Like many other forms of entertainment, things told to us on television, be it the news or fictional cartoons, are propagated in such a way that either things told are a flat out lie, or are presented in such a way that dismisses all negative aspects and serves as a highlight reel of naive positivity.

Consider your typical Disney movie -- it generally follows a generic theme. The princess is usually trapped away by your typical villain until Prince Charming comes along to save the day. At the beginning of the movie, the princess may even look down upon him and his beta ways. Perhaps he's poor, or there's higher status men that naturally captivate without having to do "favors" or "win" the love of the girl.

By the end of the movie, the prince rescues the princess, they kiss, and live happily ever after...

...or do they? Given the fictional element of all, there's no way of telling. However, we consume the same form of delivery through our social media and general gossip -- everything seems perfect from the exterior. The intricacies of the relationship are dismissed for a generalized, easy-to-digest half-truth for the public where everything's hunky-dory, even if quintessential relationship and gender dynamics aren't in play.

We've seen over and over again how you cannot sustain an LTR strictly through only alpha and only beta qualities, but what we do see in the films we've grown up with is the same thing we see here about TRP, the "beta male" finally doing something heroic, but putting everything he has on the line for some broad in hopes that maybe something would come out of it.

Now, this is obviously not always the case. There are alpha male figures illustrated in cartoons and childhood movies, but they are few and far between when compared to the enormous amount of betas who have done one heroic act with the assumption of reward.

To stimulate a positive correlation between sacrificing everything for a woman and reward, they leave everything after the "happily ever after" up to interpretation. This, essentially, acts as brainwash when we lack the critical thinking skills as children to fill in the blanks of the would-be vague outset to follow.

Does the princess get fat and entitled? Does the man slave away because the woman sees his "sweet" qualities and pinpoints an emotional weakness ripe for exploitation? Does the male get lazy and complacent if he becomes alpha because the prize is already won? Does the prince born of nobility and riches get divorce-raped because of the resources on the table and the charm of the initial heroic deed has worn off? (Probably not because of the context of the films and the periods of time they take in which enforced marriage to work, hah!)

It's all up to interpretation. It would be a bold claim to say that Walt Disney created these movies with propaganda in mind, but we can learn to fill in the blanks for our present and future seed and tell them the truth of the matter with women, lest they be exploited and thrown to the dirt by some future woman. There's a reason sequels hardly ever focus on these things or don't exist -- we all know human nature prevents "happily ever after" from occurring.

We all know analogous stories in real life where the macho guy gets complacent, or has too much of a soft spot, or is too relentlessly trusting, and gets exploited for the one chink in his armor. We also have beta friends we know who did one valiant act to win over the heart of a girl, which essentially became deception once the girl found out that wasn't consistent activity. How's that relationship going now?

Do not let your future children fall into the trap of believing the relationship dynamic through the narrative of Disney fairytales. If you're here and have read the sidebar, hopefully I don't have to tell you to do the same. If you're already in this situation, you better find an exit strategy and make sure you can move on in life the instant some bitch drops you.

Lessons Learned:

  • Always think one step ahead, rather than get surprised when you were text-book chivalrous and your chick leaves you or gets bored of you.

  • Do not, under any circumstances, get complacent once you've achieved something, especially an LTR.

  • Women are the masterminds of deception, deception is rarely the right tool to use against them. They will smell through your bullshit and one-off acts. Maybe not immediately, but with time.

  • Fortify the chinks in your armor or cover it up well -- any vulnerability can and will be scoped out by women (hell, or anyone) and set you up for exploitation.

  • Don't be a shitty parent and let your future son get divorce-fucked or let your future daughter fall into the increasingly entitled society that most girls in the west exhibit. Make sure they understand the truth when they begin to question these things.

  • Do not be that fucking guy that gives up everything in some heroic act to win a girl's heart. I don't give a shit if they are an HB10 and the best lay you've ever gotten. It's never worth it. Build up yourself and let them come to you. Protect your assets, do not throw away what you've built for yourself.

  • If something is suspiciously missing from a story - whether it be politics, films, social media stories, or your own life - question it. Think outside the box and escape spoon-fed bullshit narratives that tell you to battle against your gut instincts. Remember:

"You're here because you know something. What you know you can't explain -- but you feel it. You've felt it your entire life. There's something wrong with the world. You don't know what it is, but it's there like a splinter in your mind, driving you mad."