Summary

Redpill tends to make men think they have to be extremely aloof to keep a girl. From experience and recent posts here, you will lose girls if you are overly aloof. Its all about balance.

Body

Ive been noticing many posts recently on asktrp where the op asks how to answer a certain shit test. Many of these are actually not shit tests but comfort test.

People need to understand that the redpill mindset will make you appear aloof to women which is good. The moment you have sex with a women you must show her you care even if just a bit. I see many men here slowly shooting themselves in the foot by thinking a girl is shit testing them when really the girl is getting insecure from the aloof behavior and your rising smv. When that happens a women will throw comfort tests at you to see if you actually give a shit. If you keep answering comfort tests in the same way you answer shit test you will lose the girl- plate.

If you are having sex constantly with a girl and act aloof and rarely text, why the fuck would a girl actually shit test you to see if you"re needy or weak. Your actions are already showing that you are strong and independent she will not shit test you during these times. Remember women always look at actions and intentions.

One constant comfort test here I often see mistaken as a shit test here is when a plate youre fucking tells you about another guy whos interested in her.She is getting insecure. If you are following the redpill mindset , being aloof texting just for meeting, a girl will not talk about another man to see if youre insecure. She will talk about him( and most times its not even true) to see how you react. You must not ignore it and deflect it like a shit test. You must react a little bit not in a beta overly jealous way but enough to show her that her telling you this does have an impact on you.

Girls who are feeling insecure will often times try in someway to make you jealous. This is not a way for them to see if you a big fat pussy beta.

Your reaction to whatever she is trying to do to make you jelous must let her know you care just a bit and not be completely unphased or she will start looking elsewhere.

Conclusion

I recently lost a a few plates prematurely to situations like this so i wanted to aware other people.

Do not be too aloof and show you care a bit. Be wary of comfort tests and know how to answer appropriately.