Checking r/all, started to read this "Dear husband: This is why I don't want to have sex tonight" from r/TwoXChromosomes, who pretty much hate men. I'm a couple paragraphs in, and I'll tell you what the problem is.

Only a couple paragraphs in. But I got a hunch I know what the problem is.

She's complaining that he isn't affectionate throughout the day. So he's not gettin' any at night. Sounds like the last time he got some was when they made a kid.

What do we got here.. "we have 2 small children". And, "been with my husband for nearly 10 years".

I don't know what she looks like but if they got married at age 20, she'd be 30. Take a look how they look like in Hollywood at age 30. They don't look hot, like in their 20's. That's why they "retire". That's why pop stars are washed-up by age 30 and are "done". I've seen it for a few decades now. People you can't stand for their whole 20's decade and one day, they go away. And you never hear from them again.

Now, take a look at those over 30, who had a couple kids. What kind of body do you think is likely to be going on there. It generally gets "ruined", for most of them who don't work-out after. Then they just go "fuck it" and let themselves go and become a dumpy medium build.

How about the part where she said "married". It's 95% of the time, never the guy's idea to get married. That's because later when they start argueing part-time, if he leaves, he has to shovel half of his money towards her. She empties out half his fucking bank account.

She loves the "marriage" concept, because that way, after she has the kids, she can let herself go and he ain't goin' nowhere. If there wasn't all these legal problems, he'd bail out when he doesn't like you any more. They like the marriage thing because it snags the guy and he has to stay in the relationship even if she gets bitchy as hell all the time. Throw in kids, and he's doomed there or he'll have to shovel money for child support, on top of her cleaning out half his bank account, worse than the tax man.

How about this being married for 10 years. That could be part of the problem. The honeymoon's over a couple month's in. When she gets knocked up, most guys go, fuck this, and bail out. haha. Take a look at some cultures where there ain't no baby daddy around for most kids. That's just how it works, because the guy knows, if he fuckin hangs around after she's knocked up, he's doomed. The party is way the fuck, "over", dude. In between the misery because of kids, she's pretty much either on the rag, about to go on it, or just getting off it. Maybe a little less bitchy for a few days out of 30.

When she starts looking in rough shape over age 30, that's misery. Everytime she looks in the mirror, she thinks, I'm not as hot as I was in my 20's and boys don't suck up to me like they used to. And it'll only get worse as time goes on. Look like one of those wrinkly "hags".

What does she do then, take out the frustrations about it all, on the pussy-whipped to death, hubby. All he can do is go "yes dear" to everything she orders him to do, or else she'd flip out on him even more. Those hags, nag the kids too. The dad has to nag the kids as well or she'll whoop his ass. So the kids don't like the nagging parents ordering them around all day, telling them to do chores. Do this, do that, don't play video games. Come home at whatever time before your friends have to go back home. It all fuckin sucks for the kid. Plus they go to school, it's like a job, but they don't fuckin get paid for it. They get bullied at school if they're not good looking. The nagging is usually not the dad's idea either, I bet. He goes, holy shit, the kids have enough bullshit to deal with just putting up with this bitch yelling at them, all day long. Just be cool and your fucking kids won't hate you. But the dad can't be cool to the kids, because he has to do what the wife says to do, or it'll be even more of a living hell.

Meanwhile, the dad's like, fuck all this, get me some beer and I'm hiding out in the basement, watching TV sports. He can't get away from the house though because then she'd be thinking he's cheating. Any time he gets away she's fuckin got her eye on where the fuck he is, boy. They're sooo paranoid about the hubby cheating. That's called being pussy whipped.

Watch neighbors who are in relationships. I'm sure you hear them argueing through your walls, ceiling and floors if you've lived in apartments. Starts out wonderful but once the sex becomes routine after a few months, then it's just the bitchy 24/7.

Maybe if she'd quit being such a bitch and quit letting herself go and saying "fuck it" and became a dumpy schlumpadinka.. perhaps then he'd be attracted to her like when he first wanted to get down her pants. You know, back when she was in her 20's and fairly "hot". Way more than now.

All she does these days is nag the 2 kids to death. Then get even more bitchy about how she looks in rough shape, from being over age 30. And then depressed because her health will only decline as she gets older. Wait till they catch one of them big diseases. Bound to catch something. Always the Cancer, somewhere. Alzheimer's, Parkinson's, Muscular dystrophy, Multiple sclerosis. Diabetes, heart problems, the digestive tract goes to shit, need Depends adult diapers, need a hip replacement, knees are shot, back is fucked, teeth problems, bad eyes, respiratory problems, arthritis. How about the "can't fuckin hear ya any more". That's when the hubby gets "blessed" because now he ignores the fucking nagging and can't get extra nagged about that.

You're bound to catch something. And if this bitch, is bitchy at age 30 when you're "fine", but she's bitchy because she can't handle raising the kids.. Wait till she fuckin catches one of these ailments. That husband is gonna go out back and hang himself, that's what.

They fuckin hate men in that 2XC subreddit because they're over-the-hill and guys don't pay attention to them like they got in their 20's. They thought it'd always be like that. Guys buy you shit so they can get some. You're walking somewhere in public and guys look at you. Not anymore, bitch. And they're pissed off about that, over in 2XC.

Fuck 'em all over there. Yeah, you're a hag but at least try to shut the fuck up with the nagging the kids and the hubby all day long, all year long with never a fuckin day off. No holiday from her nagging, until he croaks. Then he'll rest in peace.

Gets worse when she's about to be on the rag, twice as worse when she's on it all week, and still some more bitchier than usual when she's getting off the rag for another week.

And then you get these "stat holidays" and birthdays. She expects you to pretend she's not this insufferable twat the rest of the year and you're supposed to be fake, two faced and a hypocrite, and go.. fuck yeah, "I love you". Even though she was giving him shit before they headed out to dinner. And ya gotta fuckin buy her gifts or you ain't gettin any with the 2-3 days of smooth sailing, this month. I betcha most of these hubbies go months without getting any. No more sex, it's all just nagging. Fuck all that shit, man.

Take a look at your neighbors argueing. Best to just stay single or at least keep living in your own place and she lives in hers. Get together to shag or something, and that's about it.

Take a fuckin look at most seniors. They absolutely despise each other and wanna choke the other. They like seriously hate each other. They got married in their early 20's just to get sex back in those days.

They've never been alone for 60 years, so they don't know how to handle it. She's always got her eye on him, making sure he doesn't cheat. When one dies, they're all grieving. They get "lonely". But take a fuckin look at how much you wanted to strangle them for 40 years, before they croaked. Shut the fuck up with the grieving. Man-up and enjoy that you're not getting nagged all day and night long.

I'll go keep reading that bitches' bullshit over there about how it's all the guy's fault. Meanwhile she's a fucking schlumpadinka, and you know it. Fuck her and that whole damn subreddit cause they're all the same. Not hot. I know how it goes on reddit. It's nerds and if there's bitches, they're "not hot". So they hate men because guys don't suck up to them. Only hot girls get that attention. Yeah the shlumpadinkas still get used for sex but the guy ain't hangin around when the sun rises. That's because you're "not hot". ok.. get over it.

Most of 'em don't even bother working out though. If you had a fit body and didn't let yourself go, you'd get that attention from the boys, a little bit. But no, they never try that angle. Too lazy. They just sit on their fuckin ass being slouches and complaining all day. At work, bicker about whatever bullshit there with the other dumpy co-workers. It's always somebody else's fault your life is miserable.

Go get some loser nerd who'll actually love you, if you want that attention. But no, they want the guy who's out of their league. The "bad boy" who looks hot but has been in jail or something. Then, no shit, he's not interested. No shit, he cheats. He just want some chick with a hot body. You want a guy to be interested, you gotta fuckin be hot. Then he'll do all this shit she's complaining about. He won't only say "I love you too", after you said, "I love you" first.

That don't happen with no fuckin fat chicks either. You want this attention and them saying "I love you" and they mean it.. that'll only happen if you pick up some loser nerd who hasn't been laid, like ever. Then she can get that "attention", shit. But no.. she married some hot guy or a guy who was good at sports, rich, or you know he's hotter than what she should have been able to pick up. But he lowered his standards just to get some pussy that drunken weekend night. That's how it goes. He got snagged somehow to get the sex, and now he's doomed. Eventually he cracks and cheats, then she says, "I'm getting a divorce!".

I know what's going on over there.. and she's making it seem like it's all his fault. Meanwhile it's those bitches who cause most of the fucking problems in the house.

You want somemore.. I'm gonna go pick up an 8 pack. Be back in, oh.. an hour. I'll keep reading her shit.. and might add to this. But I already know what the fuckin problem is. According to her, it's all him. That sounds like a problem, somebody who behaves like that. It's all his fault, never hers.

This bitch must be peachy to be married to. Holy fucking shit. Where is this pussy-whipped to death hubby. Trust me, he's the one who should be getting a buncha reddit gold, not her. Some kind of award for putting up with such a grumpy twat. Suck on that, bitch. lol.

Posted this in r / unpopularopinion. That was promptly downvoted to 0 within minutes.

Then, I went over to the thread in 2XC. Posted to "suck on this", with a link to that thread. Within minutes, that thread was removed. Surprised I wasn't banned, but probably shadow banned there.

Had a nap. Woke up a few hours later. They're being twatty over at the supposed, "unpopular opinion". So fuck them, deleted the thread. Anything that has a 0 on the site, doesn't turn around.

Looked for somewhere else to post this "thought" about that bitches' thread. We'll try here in MGTOW.