Are we really putting down so called 'Chads'?

DangZagnut · 2018-04-10T16:58:34+00:00

There's no such thing as a Chad. It's a meme. There's a bell curve of attractiveness under different cultural constructs.

People at the low end, call the people at the high end "Chads". At the low end you have "incels".

Why anyone gives a crap I have no idea. To care implies you care about your sexual market value, which means you're simping to women.

Which is fine. Comparing oneself to a meme is a really stupid way to go through life. Being upset because some people have intellectual, emotional, social, physical, genetic, or any other metric is meaningless. If it motivates you, fine, but just being jealous, just builds an internal resentment to yourself.

Compare yourself to the asshole in the mirror, and fix that guy.

SuperPCUserName · 2018-04-10T17:09:18+00:00

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raisins3142 · 2018-04-10T17:09:23+00:00

The only chads I dislike are those that knowingly try to fuck the women of other men

silive · 2018-04-10T16:59:45+00:00

It's not that we put Chads down, more like warning NOT to try to impersonate them because the females are not that stupid and it most likely won't get you anywhere. Want sex? Then pay for it upfront. That's my take anyway...

Global_MGTOW · 2018-04-10T17:09:37+00:00

I don't hate Chad's at all, some of them have been pretty cool and chill with me growing up. They understand the game and how to play it, more power to them. Most Chad's learn about the true nature of women early on and decide it's better to just pump and dump hot girls, then move onto the next one before they get clingy and needy (they almost always do). Hell, the eternal bachelor Chad is the precursor to MGTOW.

Edit: Grammar

iwaspaidtobehere · 2018-04-10T19:21:11+00:00

You don't really have to be a Chad you can just act like one for a little bit until you get what you want. We can be chameleons too ya know.

RetiSetGo · 2018-04-11T00:21:07+00:00

Unfortunately we have some incel refugees here. For the most part I don't think MGTOW care about 'Chad'. The truth about female hypergamy and infidelity is true without demonizing some man. A good amount of MGTOW are 'Chad' themselves.

twayne-by-the-ocean · 2018-04-10T18:27:14+00:00

People got upset because years ago the social contract said if a man wanted a loving wife and a good family he had to work hard and be an upstanding member of society.

That was yesterday.

Today it’s whatever gives her tingles for you that is right and just. Feminism is simply a giant shit test. Whatever a feminist says, build the courage to do the opposite and follow through. Obviously keep it legal too.

Some go MGTOW cause they refuse to play the game, others go MGTOW cause they played the game pretty well but still got beaten up in the courts.

Fact is, all women want to be devils in the sheets for men who really turn them on. No such thing as a good, angelic woman. Being chad means being that man for her.

Now it’s to be or not to be.

OnlyTheRealAdvice · 2018-04-10T19:17:28+00:00

Chads are basically the top 10% of guys. It is not always the same guys. My guess is that 30% of guys find themselves in the top 10% of guys at some point in their life. Basically everyone will find themselves in the bottom 90% at some point in life too.

Arod-Reddit · 2018-04-10T17:17:14+00:00

The chad problem is real. If you’re a 7/10, you’re not a born-chad but if you sleep with a 5/10 female you are effectively hurting the 4/10 males who could be mating with the 5/10 females.

Rule of thumb: find your level (ie 4/10), then sleep up 1 point for love/relationship and sleep down 1 point for casual sex.

You run into problems when you’re a 4/10 male and you get into a relationship with a 7/10 female (vulnerable, MH issues), and she cheats on you with a 8/10 male. You get upset, create subs like this and create terms like awalt.

On the other side, do not sleep down too far as you’ll be hurting the males who could be mating with the lower value females.

2018-04-10T17:22:33+00:00

They're as bad as the women, nothing to look up to.

twayne-by-the-ocean · 2018-04-10T18:29:59+00:00

People got upset because years ago the social contract said if a man wanted a loving wife and a good family he had to work hard and be an upstanding member of society.

That was yesterday.

Today it’s whatever gives her tingles for you that is right and just. Feminism is simply a giant shit test. Whatever a feminist says, build the courage to do the opposite and follow through. Obviously keep it legal too.

Some go MGTOW cause they refuse to play the game, others go MGTOW cause they played the game pretty well but still got beaten up in the courts.

Fact is, all women want to be devils in the sheets for men who really turn them on. No such thing as a good, angelic woman. Being chad means being that man for her.

Now it’s to be or not to be.

Note: cause this is the MGTOW sub, keep in mind that sexual contact with her that she loves still will not protect you from charges of rape or sexual misconduct.

QuasarBather · 2018-04-10T19:42:25+00:00

Only loser incels criticize Chads.

OliverVato · 2018-04-10T21:36:32+00:00

chads can do with they will or reall men in genral will do what they will. I already realize that trying fuck women in this social climate is like try to get hit by lighting. it unlikely to happen and if it does happen you will get fucked up beyond belief (STD, false accusation, killer males, etc)

TheHandsomeMF · 2018-04-10T22:21:12+00:00

There are good things and bad things about Chad.

I'm neutral towards Chad because I'm a Tyrone myself, kinda like a Tyrone.

NoThirst · 2018-04-10T23:03:49+00:00

...I personally don't give a damn what "Chad" does or doesn't do. Doesn't affect me one bit.

squidracer · 2018-04-10T23:44:56+00:00

Eh, i was kind of a Chad in my younger years. The way married women treated me (sometimes right in front of their husbands) redpilled me pretty young.

Actually worked out since i figured out early on that marriage was shit.

RadicalAsceticMonk · 2018-04-10T23:53:04+00:00

As someone who completely cast off the sexual game thing, I have no bitterness towards Chad Thundercock. More power for the Chads, if that's what they think will benefit them in the end (I know it's not, but whatever).

There's so much to do and learn about, and so little time.

Sir_manalot · 2018-04-10T23:53:59+00:00

I like making fun of "Chads" a bit. Despite everything they have, alot of the time they end up becoming a slave to pussy or easily fall into a trap (they have less experience of the negative side of things).

And the moment that something happens and he can no longer be Chad, everyone abandons him and forgets about him. He will feel a much bigger sting then non-chads ever will.

And yet he still sacrifices so much and lives for the pussy.

MyFavoriteDude · 2018-04-11T02:03:35+00:00

I read this sub quite a bit and most of the posts that mention Chads are not derogatory. They are born genetically lucky and all of us would be enjoying the benefits of that luck just like they are. There may be a few "player haters" here, but most of us get it and don't hold it against them.

Yehoshua_Benaiah · 2018-04-11T02:17:19+00:00

I personally don't put down chad. I only use him as an example when talking about single mothers, and who would actually fuck them and chuck them.

RealBiggly · 2018-04-11T16:36:12+00:00

This stems from the fact that the majority of women do not find the majority of men to be attractive. They are in fact only attracted to the very top few percent. We call those Chads.

In contrast the average man finds the average women to be attractive, like you'd expect.

In short, 100% of men are chasing 100% of women, but the women are only interested in the top 10 or 20% of men. This is MGTOW 101 and a solid reason for giving up on the whole farce, unless you really do believe you're in that upper few percent. And even then marriage offers you NOTHING.

Title	Are we really putting down so called 'Chads'?
Author	SuperPCUserName
Upvotes	45
Comments	62
Date	April 10, 2018 4:53 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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