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[–]deadBeefCafe201423 points24 points25 points 8 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Don’t treat her like some kind of princess or queen-in-training. That will probably get you the farthest.
[–]NewLife_20176 points7 points8 points 8 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
This... I made this mistake early on... luckily she is young enough I have been able to change this mindset some
[–]deadBeefCafe20145 points6 points7 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
That’s about all the useful advice I have on daughters.
I’m so glad I have two sons. They are going to be (God willing) a couple of great red pilled men.
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
don't send them to university then. best to put them into a good, honest, salt of the earth trade school. otherwise they'll come out with a useless degree in gender studies.
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This. Neighbour and I had a conversation about this yesterday he's got 2 boys.
I started with how I can see the value and purpose of hookers, he's all about raising his kids to think and value themselves. This is exactly what he said if he ever had a daughter: "don't treat her like a princess". He's not red-pilled, but he's a smart mother fuck and can see things for as they are.
[–]Ohboohoolittlegirl11 points12 points13 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I think those are the most important ones to teach.. And I think the most important part is to show, not just tell. To explain, showcase and analyse things together.. on the other hand, can't expect female nature to not show its ugly head
[–]BlaisePascal11238 points9 points10 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Do not teach her that AWALT. If you do, then she will be. Don't raise her with gender roles. Just because she's a woman, that doesn't mean she cannot be a stay at home mom, it also doesn't mean she can't be a mechanical engineer. Teach her about equality, but real equality. That she should be held responsible for all of her actions (being jailed for the same amount of time as a man for a similar crime, being hit by a man if she hit him first, passing the same entrance/acceptance exam as men etc etc) Always encourage her to do her best, and know her limits. Encourage her to always be financially independent. Give her the tools she needs growing up to accomplish this (education, encouragement, responsibility) Be her role model. Practice what you preach. Do not let others (especially women) take advantage of you (at all, but especially in front of her). Teach her that life is often unfair, and to always solve her own problems. Basically, raise her as a moral, principled human and not a woman
[–]NewLife_20178 points9 points10 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Teach her that life is often unfair
This needs to be emphasized more with today's youth.
[–]BoskOfPortKar5 points6 points7 points 8 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
I have 2. You can only delay the inevitable : sluts will be sluts.
It is impossible for them to resist their environment all along : slutty friends, msm, social networks, fashion, hive mind and especially their own nature.
For instance, my 15 yo daughter (9/10) is surrounded by slutty girlfriends in a supposed very good school. I have always speak the harsh truth but, once hormones arise, you will see her behave like you can imagine.
As a DGTOW, this is the penultimate question. Can we raise female children to rise above genetic and social programming?
[–]Teflon08192 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The only way would be to isolate her from society, which isn't something you can morally or reasonably do.
Our culture itself has come to encourage women to be vain, shallow, egotistical, narcissistic sluts and there's not a whole lot you can do on an individual level to keep a young woman from adopting some or all of those traits.
I've never met a man who managed to remain the most respected figure in his daughter's life through her adolescence, no matter how hard he tried. Her respect for him is generally redirected to Katy Perry, or Beyonce, or Miley Cyrus because those are the people her peer groups idolize, and deviating from the popular opinion of their peer groups is social suicide for girls.
It's a sad reality. One that probably can't be reversed from the path of societal collapse. Which is another reason why choosing not to have kids is not only to protect myself, but to protect my would-be children from being swallowed up by the dysfunction that is rapidly consuming society.
[–]BigBenIsAwesome1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Teach her imperialism. Not to run from reality and to be a genuinely good person.
[–]badmanahgwanso0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I wouldn't worry too much about the housewife stigma---there are plenty of housewives whose parents pushed them to pursue education and careers when they were kids. I second the advice about raising her as a good human first and foremost. Even if you can't completely defeat biology, it's certainly possible to raise a daughter whose AWALTism tops out at "kind of annoying" levels rather than life-wrecking levels.
[–]aced0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Find appropriate female role models in real life, fiction, or both.
[–]IntrovertedMagma0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
No matter what you do your daughter is going to grow up in this fucked up society and become an AWALT.. sorry truth hurts but it is the truth.
This is the main reason why I don't procreate.. Let the bluepillers have kids, at least they will be oblivious and happy no matter how fucked up their kids turn out to be..
boys are treated like shit and girls become bitches.. no thanks!
i don't think your daughter will listen to you and ignore what society, her feminist teachers and her fucked up friends tell her.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
these replies are just sad
[–]IntrovertedMagma0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I know.. this is a sad world. People suffer daily, kids die, dreams get shattered.. The only way we can deal with this is to numb ourselves.
Love you kids. act like a dad. teach them everything you know but don't expect them to be unicorns.. It is society's fault not yours.
[–][deleted] -1 points0 points1 point 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
no i mean the people like you who say that since the world sucks you shouldnt put any effort to making it better. Whos to say your kids will turn out shit? Did you turn out like shit? We need more good people to overcome the problems, and if your solution is to just let the problem run rampant cause youre intimidated by the size of the problem youre going against, well, youre just weak... and thats just sad.
[–]IntrovertedMagma1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
you are absolutely right. I am weak. no joke I am a weak person. Others see me weak, that's fine. But I am going against my biology, against my dna just to protect the unborn. I don't think this is weak. it might look weak, but to me resisting the urge to procreate is far from weak.
since the world sucks you shouldnt put any effort to making it better
who said you and I have to make it better?? this is a lie told to you. We are not god.. We were unconsciously put on this planet against our will, Who said it will become better?? What if after we make this place better a meteor destroys our planet? doesn't mean all of our work would be meaningless? I guess so..
I totally respect your position. But I have always been the pessimistic dude..
[–]kaczan30 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Realize she won't be a NAWALT. There are no such things. And it's not OK to be a housewife. A housewife is a leech on a hard-working man.
[–]spoopytater0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I too have daughters. They're still little kids, but I got a copy of ",The Surrendered Wife" (haven't read it yet) and I lurk on the red pill women subreddit. I also plan to get them involved in the local youth orders when they're old enough (learn charity and all that). Between that the advice already given in this thread, and a prayer, I hope to raise them into at least decent women.
Side note: I have been contemplating inheritances, and wonder if its possible to arrange it so they don't get inheritance or have to pay it all back to a charity if they ever accept alimony or child support? Hold their feet to the fire, so to speak? Maybe thats a topic for another thread though.
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