I've never dated before, should I try it at least once?

scrapscrapscreetch · 2018-03-05T20:13:21+00:00

Sure, go for it.

Don't commit, wear a condom, have fun enjoy the ride but leave once the ride is over.

fcb98292 · 2018-03-05T20:07:19+00:00

I've never stuck my head under the wheels of a semi truck, should I try it at least once?

monster797 · 2018-03-05T21:43:24+00:00

IMO- soy, islam, marriage and feminism are the only things you shouldn't try at all. Everything else is worth doing atleast once.

daessa · 2018-03-05T20:05:42+00:00

Yes, but not for the reason most would think. My reasoning is that you need to know what you're giving up before you give it up, taste the blue pill before swallowing the red so to speak.

DoctorB50 · 2018-03-05T20:39:25+00:00

You made me think of a line from Act 2, Scene 2, of Shakespeare's “Hamlet”. Hamlet ponders his encounter with the ghost of his murdered father who wants Hamlet to take revenge against the murderer who also happens to be Hamlet's uncle, his murdered father's brother. The line I'm thinking of is “. . . the devil hath power. T' assume a pleasing shape. Yea, and perhaps, out of my weakness and my melancholy, as he is very potent with such spirits, abuses me to damn me.” So what does that have to do with your question? Whether you want to think of it literally or allegorically, you can apply the same concept to women. Women are tools of the devil. They go out of their way to assume a shape and demeanor that they know will entice men who, due to melancholy or weakness, are vulnerable. More often than not, the men who yield to that enticement end up in Hell, whether you want to think of hell as a real and eternal place of torment, or extreme temporal suffering due to their emotions, finances and personal dreams being intentionally destroyed by creatures who don't give a shit about them, regardless of what they (women) say or how they act. Regardless of when or where you decide to date, do so with your eyes wide open. And don't just look at her. Watch your internal responses. The moment she wants you to do something that you are not inclined to do and you find yourself seriously considering doing it, you'd better run away as fast as you can and don't worry about hurting her feelings. She probably doesn't have any. What you might think are her feelings being hurt is an act put on to manipulate you.

ikeaharlot · 2018-03-05T20:16:42+00:00

why not. just make absolutely sure you don’t get her pregnant or allow her to destroy your studies (ie. no if in US college)

as other commenter said - it is a beartrap, so don’t trigger it but it is useful to inspect to gain understanding. otherwise you’re operating on 2nd hand knowledge.

boy_named_su · 2018-03-05T20:38:03+00:00

Don't spend much money. Go for a drink or coffee and a stroll. No dinner. No movie (you can't get to know someone in silence)

you should probably look into setting up a stealth camera in your dorm room too

owninfools007 · 2018-03-05T21:43:59+00:00

You’ll regret t if you don’t give it a shot later. Suit up, always and be careful.

RedCentreRat · 2018-03-05T21:47:20+00:00

You don't really know what hot is until you get burned.

ItsFatAlpha · 2018-03-05T21:49:25+00:00

I seriously just read today that Vasovasostomies (a certain type of vasectomy reversal) are now over 95% of the time complete successes. So, even if you fine a NAWALT (you won't, but you may think you have) you can still open back up for business.

Get one, keep it a secret and still wear a condom. Then have some fun. Remember the red pill though.

MunkyNutter · 2018-03-05T21:49:56+00:00

write yourself a note and state 3 goals you have and read it in 3 months just to remind yourself of the goals.

KizzMyAzz · 2018-03-05T22:07:38+00:00

Whatever u do if she says "lets do it without the condom" because it feels better or whatever, u should be running away as fast as possible. I have had 3 girls try this shit in the past on me.

DJDickJob · 2018-03-06T01:11:28+00:00

Go on a date, but put off sex and paying for anything for the first month. She'll bail. We'll see you in a month.

gerar556 · 2018-03-06T03:01:36+00:00

I find relationships with escorts more honest than real ones.

mgtau · 2018-03-06T03:38:13+00:00

Double edged sword. Sandman often preaches that you should date when you're young - you and the women you're with will never be as hot, and women are not yet completely crazy at that age. His logic is that you generally regret the things you don't do more than the things you do.

I agree with that in principle, but the reality is that your brain is conditioned to fall hard at that age. There is no love like first love or young love, and the chemical cocktail your balls drum up for your brain completely screws up your decision-making abilities. Before you know it, you're throwing your life away for some woman who you think is the one. Next thing you know, she's either fucking Chad in college or, best case scenario, divorcing you and taking the kids as well as half your stuff 7-10 years from now.

If you think you can maintain boundaries, keep it informal and fun, no long-term or serious/exclusive relationships, then sure, go for it.

The only thing that saved me at that age was that I was a complete fucking idiot and utterly repulsive to women once they saw what a huge goober I was. Had I been even remotely attractive or exciting, I would have been scooped up, consumed, digested, and spit out for nothing other than my job prospects.

Tread carefully.

crshdurmomlstngt · 2018-03-06T06:04:36+00:00

Sure. Manage your expectations......

Edited for context: Define date? Are we talking typical courtship nonsense or are we talking she wants the D and you are willing to take that gamble?

Courtship dating is terrible and clearly demonstrative of an imposed system to make men contribute money into a system most likely designed to fail. It's a unique form of gambling.

If going on a "date" is the latter of my queries, my original advice stands. Caveat Emptor.

ascended89 · 2018-03-06T13:10:52+00:00

Go and touch the stove and see. Just don't be the frog in the gradually heating water. Beware the long con.

ZOGabominations · 2018-03-05T20:19:16+00:00

Go for it. Be honest, be careful, put yourself first, look for signs of manipulations.

earthtravelmonkey · 2018-03-05T22:11:47+00:00

Negative.

jaycee9 · 2018-03-05T23:33:41+00:00

Don't do it. It's too much trouble and not worth it.

DavidShekelburg · 2018-03-05T23:55:45+00:00

If it was 15-20 years ago I'd say sure; but today I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy.

ManIsWalking · 2018-03-06T00:45:16+00:00

I mean, go ahead, make sure to wear a condom and have an escape plan.

But I'm not going to bullshit you, hooking up is one thing most women just throw their pussy out if you have looks or money. But actual dating is fucking exhausting.

She's going to expect you to put in ALL of the work. You come up with the plan, you pay for the date, you lead the conversation, you initiate contact ,ramp up ramp up ramp up, get laid, and then spend the next 3 hours pretending like you want her company after sex.

Dating is extremely one sided. Her only obligation is to be there. You have to do everything else.

And don't get upset if she's a no show, chicks pull that shit all the time. I suggest planning the date to an event that you'd like to go to even if she wasn't there, that way if she flakes it's no loss.

rooster-one4 · 2018-03-06T02:48:27+00:00

Date? Or just have fun? Fun could be doing all of the things without the talks of picket fence you'll build and paint.

If the shit testing starts, walk. She wants unprotected sex, walk. Love bombs, walk. Excessive compliments, walk.

Buy your own condoms, protect them like sensitive items, and verify they're flushed when done.

Good luck and good hunting

Title	I've never dated before, should I try it at least once?
Author	penguim2
Upvotes	24
Comments	32
Date	March 5, 2018 7:58 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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